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Feuding Friends
I'm sorry if this is a little long...
There are three of us, me and my two friends that I'm going to call Keri and Amber.
The last few months Keri and Amber always are partners with each other for everything and leave me out, they never wait for me, and then always ignore me in many of the classes we have together. I took half an hour to tell Kari how I felt about it on the phone last night and today Amber came up to me and asked me why I was mad at them. I got really angry because I spent half an hour explaining why I was upset, and then she says to only remembers half of it, and I started yelling at her, because it doesn't seem like she cares about how I feel.
My question is what should I do about it, and am I overracting about it?
Thanks <33 Britt
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This happend to me before.I was friends with 2 girls since kindergarden.Then 1 year,I was left out of it.Like i wasn't there(third) wheel.So i got new friends,but i was still friends with the other 2.So what i'm sayin is keep old friends but get new 1's.
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no, you're not overreacting, because i feel the same way you do! you need to seriously pull them aside and confront them about it. tell them how you feel.. left out and neglected. if they won't take the time to listen to you, then they aren't true friends. maybe if you consult them about it, they might consider how you feel. i hope it all works out for you!
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Try talking about it with her agian. And its not like a good friend not to care. Maybe there going through something together and they dont thinkyou'll understand thats why there spending so much time together. You should have a sleep over or something like were all 3 of you's can hang out and talk.
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OmG i know you may not believe it but i know *exactly* how you feel. You aren't overacting, no way! My 2 best friends Nora and Bryanna have started hanging out alll the tiem and never incldue me! I try to talk to them but they just get all moody and say wats your problem? So yea you arent over acting. I am still tryin to figure otu what to do I mean you don't want to lose them so try to talk things out, if not i would say move on but leave the hard feelings behind
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it kidna seems like they judt dont really care about you, sorry. my advice is to find new friends if she doesnt care enough to lsiten to you when your pouring your heart out then forget about her
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Wow. Well what i would do is find another group to hang out with because real friends wouldnt do that. also it is hard in a group of three because it is an odd number but i still think that they should have alternated with eachother. Just from now on if they talk to you, ignore them. and dont even look at them and just give them a taste of their own medicine. i hope this helps!
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Maybe you should try telling both of them again If she act like they dont care, I would not talk to them anymore. Because it seems like they dont care..it seems like they have eachother and dont want you..but screw them cuz your prolly better than them..just find new friends
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wow, ive had problems like that before, well, its just this thing when they are together they are just gonna be like that, and they dont want anyone else, and they are probably gonna stay that way, i dont know what to tell you, because my reltaionship with my friends like that hit rock bottom, you could explain to both of them how you feel, and/ or go to a school councler, or have them go with you to a school councler, and then everyone can talk fair and express their own feelings
hope this helps!
good luck!
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Wow I was in a similar position last year... and then i moved schools and ended the friendship with the two girls (there was a bit more to the story then that but i wont go into it cuz im giving u advice lol). but i would suggest not doing this because i got seriously depressed after that. I would talk to them sepretley... go out to lunch with each of them sepretley and sit them down and tell them exactly how you feel. It might help you a lot. You're not overreacting about it... you should be concerned but I wouldnt let it go too longer or you might end up loosing two friends. Just my suggestion. Hope I helped!
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i definately think you should retalk this with both your friends calmly. maybe they thought you were really mad at them so they got mad. if you just ask them why theyve been doing this to you, maybe you can get somewhere. if not, itll probly just blow over after a little while. trust me i know exactly how you feel! maybe you can invite both of them over sometime so all three of you can have some quality time! hope this helps!!! =)
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