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Two of my friends just broke up over the weekend after a 8 month relationship. She dumped him and yet shes still very posessive of him. I've had a past relationships with him and I get him so ever since they broke up him and I have been talking more. But shes getting mad at me for sticking up for him when she talks crap about him and she says how I better not start liking him again which makes me think is this what friends do to each other? and Is she really being a bad ex girlfriend about the whole thing?
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Yeah, she is. If you also have a relationship with him, she shouldn't expect you to end your friendship with him because she isn't with him anymore.
Oh yeah, and if you used to be with him, and she went out with him after you guys broke up, but she doesn't want you to like him now, she's being a hypocrite, and you should bring this to her attention.
Maybe she just needs a little more time though, it was 8-months.
-Farren
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your friend was going out with him for a long time, so chances are she's upset about it, and may not mean all the things she says. and that isn't what friends to do each other, but good friends don't go out with their friends ex...now i don't know if you two were friends when you dated him, and if you were then she was at fault first. but if not then it's not as big a deal, specially if it didn't bother u. what you do with him is your own business, and you are allowed to talk him as much as you want. just realize that she's probably hurting, and having you stick up for him isn' twhat she needs-unless she's truely speaking crap, then u'd be a bad friend to him not to stick up for him. its tough being in the middle like that, but i'm sure u can work things out. if you need to, just tlak to her and see what the real reason is behind her getting so upset about things. best of luck
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