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Why do i keep doing it?
i keep making stupid mistakes in my relationships. i dont know how to stop! i always manage toscrew it up by being with some one else or sleeping with someone else. i cant help it. it just something inside me that make me want to do stuff. i am in a relationship now (4days) and ive already cheated on him. at the time it feels good. i dont know whether its the rik of been caught or what but now i just feel bad and dirty! how do i stop doing this?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Maybe you are to young to be serious about any one boy. Date all who ask and don't get tied down right now. Dating is just one big search for the perfect one. :)
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alright here is my opinion i think the guys you are dating are not what you want and you need a guy who will do that stuff with you when you want it and maybe you gotta find the right guy or something.. Good Luck ~ Ashlee~
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You just have to remain loyal to your boyfriend....and try not o go to places and get yourself in situations where you can cheat on him. if you are oging to go out or to a part or whatever where this could happen..take you boyfriend, so you can do it with him i guess lol. maybe your just not ready to settle down and call anyone your boyfriend....you want to party and have fun, but if you cant od that when you have a boyfriend you need ot be loyal to. So dont settle down yet i guess i have ot say...Hope i helped! Good luck!
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I think that maybe you just aren't ready for a serious relationship. Perhaps you should try and find a guy who will have an 'open' relationship with you - i.e. it's OK to cheat but you have to tell him. Either that or go out there and have some short, fun relationships to kind of 'get it out of your system'. You could also get together with a guy who you think would probably cheat on you and see how it is to be on the recieving end.
For now, talk to your boyfriend, perhaps even show him this question. He'd rather hear it from you than someone else. And every time you go to cheat, say 'remember how bad I feel afterwards'..it's a question of willpower. You can do it!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Ok..relationships arent for everyone. Maybe you need to live the single life and do your own thing. There are people out there who have open relationships..meaning they have a relationship but they agree that both people can have outside relations. This seems weird to some..but for others its the answer. So perhaps thats your answer..if you truly want to stop and your willing to give up hooking up with several guys..then the best answer is to tell your bf what you did..honesty is the key to a successful relationship. If your bf knows your being completely honest with you..and he sees your really stopping..he might stick by you. If not, and it doesnt work out between you two..definately make sure they next guy will be a bf you wont cheat on. If you try reeealy hard and you just cant help yourself, a relationship isnt for you right now. Consider the open relationship idea or just living it up being single..doing your thing.
-melissa-
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maybe you arent ready for a real relationship. its possible that your the type of person that cant just have one of something...thats totally alright. if i where you i would stay single for a while until i find a guy that i really love that i could never cheat on. if your single you can sleep around and it wont break anyones heart.
<3 kayla
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Maybe your just not ready to be in a commited relationship? Yeah I know how it feels... it just seems wrong, but in a good way that your doing something you know you shouldn't be doing. But just know your hurting yourself and your boyfriend when you do it. Maybe you should just stay single for a while and see how that works out. I hope I helped!
~KiKi
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hmm... well there really isn't a way to stop this... you just have to catch yourself before you do something wrong... just keep telling yourself... "im going to feel horrible after i do this... so i shouldn't be doing it" you have to promise yourself that you won't hurt your boyfriends feelings... maybe you do it because your boyfriend hasn't kissed you or made out with you and you want to do those kind of things... so you do them with someone else... i can't say for sure... but i hope i helped
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