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Question Posted Monday February 28 2005, 1:13 am

ok. theres this boy in my 2nd block class and i have never talked to him before, although i think hes waay hott. sometimes whenever the teacher says something funny or they play some weird music on the bulletin, we always turn around and look at each other and laugh. its like we have known each other for a long time and we're friends...but we have never talked before! The other night I dreamt that he talked to me and the next day he actually did talk to me for the first time! i joined in on the conversation he was having with my friend. he didn't say much to me, because I hadn't said very much, but it was a start. i don't know why though me and him look at each other a lot! and we laugh too! we don't even know each other, hes a complete stranger to me, but when he do that and look n laugh, i feel like i've known him forever! my friends think he likes me...is that even possible? i'm terribly sorry this is soo long! i'll rate VERY good i promise! sorry again!

~ Wondering if there's a "connection" ~


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Karen answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 9:32 am:
Yes, it's possible to feel that you have known someone forever, when you have never talked them before. There is probably a connection between you two because if you two turn around and laugh with each other, that's a sign. You should try getting to know him because if your friends say that he likes you, then you should talk to him and start getting to know him. A lot of relationships start off from things like this. This is not long at all either.
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BLONDE911 answered Monday February 28 2005, 9:55 pm:
The only thing you can do right now is to get to know him better. Get one of your friends to help start a conversation w/ him if you need it. You can talk about anything! Just try to start a conversation to get to know him better.... maybe he isnt what you thought he would be. Or you could ask one of your friends to ask one of his friends what he likes so you can talk about his favorites. I hope this helps! good luck:)
xoxo-BLONDE911

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xcuriousx0 answered Monday February 28 2005, 4:08 pm:
Hey!!
He might like you...if he doesnt know you and he looks back and stuff...hes definitly interested...and if you two ever really do hook up then you would definitly hit it off cuz your so comfortable around him...like you said you seem like you've known him forever...thats awsome!! theres deffinitly somewhat of a connection...keep up this whole smiling and laughing thing and try to talk to him more...
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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amore05 answered Monday February 28 2005, 3:44 pm:
wow thats realli cool.
ya i think he does like you, i mean if he does all those stuff than ya, all you have to do is to try to talk to him more and flirt a lil with him and see what he does about it.
and that way you'll get to know him and you guys will come closer and become friends, and than who knows maybe than u'll end up going out.
:)
Good Luck.
tell me how it turns out plz. k?

xoxo amore

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Spike answered Monday February 28 2005, 3:34 pm:
Ask him, engage him in a conversation and see where it goes from there----Spike

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Lights_Fade_Out answered Monday February 28 2005, 11:24 am:
thats really cute!!! that has actually happened to me before also. I dont want to get your hopes up, because he may just want to be your friend...but if your friend says she/he thinks he likes you...then i'd say he probably does!!! Just try talking to him more, like you are doing. Try making it possible for you to sit near him in class(es), and find out his AIM sn or email. Thats always a good way to talk because you can say anything you want online. Its a LOT easier! I DO think it is possible that he likes you. Maybe he is thinking the same thing...'does she like me???' he may just be shy and not want to look like a fool. if you make the first move, then he may get more comfortable with you =D.

hope i helped!!! good luck ;-D

dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT

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br0kenPr0miiSes answered Monday February 28 2005, 8:40 am:
yeah ok let me be serious here for a second. Go up to him and start a convorsation. you'll never know unless you try. i had this same problem once. evem though this was in kindergarten, it turned out he became my boyfriend for 4 months. it didnt work out because he moved, but what are the chances that'll happen to you? if i were older i would've went with him, but im not so, oh well. you have to talk to him and, if i were you, after you got friendly with him, go up and ask him if he likes you.

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KimRose answered Monday February 28 2005, 8:32 am:
Yes, it is possible to have a physical connection with someone before even talking to them! That is what it seems has happened with you and this boy. Now all you have to do is make the mental connection, which might be a little tricky. It's easy to determine if you like someone by their looks, but by their personality, it's always hard. So I'd say just go up to him and start talking to him, and see if you like the way he talks. You can tell a lot by just a small conversation (is he nice, does he curse a lot, is he funny or sarcastic etc.) I hope I helped you!
~KiKi

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piinkbabii781xx answered Monday February 28 2005, 7:09 am:
He could like you but if you feel like you known him for a long time evan though you didnt you might like him to and not evan know about it and there could be a connection or maybe you could just be friends

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AskMuni answered Monday February 28 2005, 2:40 am:
Some people just click, and you two seem to be destined for each other- there is defintely a magnetic connection between you two. The fact that you guys laugh at things together and have the same humor means that you guys are comfortable with each other's company. Now that you have his attention, a little bit of flirting wouldn't hurt- my best guess is you'll get a great response. If you play your cards right, you'll have him in no time. Good luck.

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