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I don't know what to do
This seems to constantly occur for me. I was hoping someone could help me. There's this guy who shall remain nameless and just recently I realized that I have liked him for awhile. Lets just say he's been on my mind a lot. Everytime I like a guy, one of my friends always has a crush on him too but I never say anything, I always remain silent on guys I like. I have a hard time. This time I think I blew it because there have been times where I would think that we both liked each other a lot and neither of us would say anything. It just sucks because I was finally going to tell him how I feel and one of my friends revealed that she had liked him for awhile. Now they are going to an event together and I don't know what to do?
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For one he may be gone to her ... but from now on dont be silent, revele your feelings first...
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Maybe they are just going as friends. I would still go up to this guy (when the other girl isn't around him) and let him know your feelings straight out. See what his reaction is to you and go from there.
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well it's hard 2 no what u shood do.... do u think this guy was the one?...if so then that's really hard 2 say what u shood do, maybe u shood tlk 2 this friend that's goin 2 the event w/ him... r u really good friends w/ this friend?... if so then dont let this guy become stuck in the middle of ur friendship, if he's just some crush......but once again if u do think he is the one but u still wanna keep this friend a good friend, then maybe u shood stay low wen or if they "breakup" to make ur move, but make sure u ask ur friends permission first 2 avoid that big drama...,,,, this is just a suggestion so if u dont like it then im sry i coodnt help...
hope i helped
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Aww girl that must be hard...well since their already going together, theres not much you can do...you don't want to steal him from that girl because that girl is your friend...and the last thing you want to be known is as a boyfriend stealer. It would be wrong to go behind her back and flirt with him...and im sure you already know that. Well I guess this guy is out of your hands until your sure she's not interested. Maybe you could talk to her and ask her casually, "so whats up with you and ___?" If she says nothing really, you could tell her how you feel but if she says...oh im soo happy im with him...then you should back off and remember next time to tell your friends as soon as you have a crush so they wont even think about him...good luck*
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my advice to you is to jsut tell him already! you never know i mean the worst that could happen is that he doesnt like you which couldnt be any worse than what your going through right now! as for your friend i think its all the more reason to tel him because youd want him to know before him and your friend get "serious". if your afriad that your friend will get mad well i think if she/he is really a true friend then she/he shouldnt care and sould understand however i dont know them either and i also dont know what theyre personaity is like but you never know he may like you too so its worth telling him isnt it?
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