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Hey Im a Junior In HS and As far as I know Im taken lol I mean Yeah Im Taken :-P Anyways life is life... Want to get to know me a little better Just send Me an Instant Message...
Gender: Female
Location: Henderson, North Carolina
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 16
AIM: ChRiS14DaNcE
Yahoo: livin_dead_guel15_2006
MSN: dance_12_2000@hotmail.com
Member Since: August 15, 2004
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Last Update: October 22, 2004
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See, i'm gay, and thats why i have a gurly user name, i am really a man! my boyfriend just broke up with me, and i am really depressed, i look so straight in gay bars no one aproaches me, what should I do!? please help! (link)
Apprach Someone on your on you can do it without havin the mapproach you... g/l


Alrighty, well this is about that boy Jake that i wrote about before. As I said Jake calls me everyday and I like him a lot, but yesterday we were talking on the phone and hes like god how come you never call me or talk to me in school? Im sick of your sh!t I always have to call you but w/e forget it im sick of it and Im not calling you anymore! And he was yelling at me and all and I was telling him im sorry and all and hes like w/e it doesnt matter if you call me now or what i dont care. Well i said the reason i didnt was because i didnt know if he wanted me to, and he said that was the stupidest thing he has ever heard because he doesnt know if i want him to call me so thats not an excuse. And he kept saying that it didnt matter because the only reason that i would start talking to him was because he said something. So today I was looking for my friend during homeroom and i went up to him and asked if he saw her and he just walked away from me! I dont know what to do im so upset, i left school early because i was feeling sick worrying about it so much and i could focus :(!!
Someone please help me (link)
Call him and tell him to get over it your sorry


-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long n confusing)


ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx

P.S. also...i asked him last night on-line what this girls name is and he said "marissa" and i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..and when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again (link)
Im gonna assume your name is marissa... anyway it sounds like he is flirting with you, he likes you but he wants to make sure you like him b4 he says anything and makes himself seem like a fool...


i dont exactly have a question...but i just need someone to talk to and just for anyone to give me advice...i am a Freshman..im 14 im in a relationship. and i've been stressing alot of skool lately!!...its just that im failing 2 of my classes rite now!. its just that my 2 teachers give out TOO much assignments and its just stressing me bcause i dont do it! my sister says i need to learn how 2 manage my time! and i told her its not bkuz of cheerleading...(because im always @ praktice or @ a game) and well i just dont know! somebody help!! (link)
I see exactly where your coming from It's been my way of life (stressing over everything) since my freshman year and Im a junior now... Just calm down and do your work... My school passed out agenda's last year their like day planners and it really helped me out to remember all my assignments and get some stuff organized... Best of luck Feel free to message me anytime at chris14dance in aim my pc's always on... l8rZ


ok what is the name of the song with lyrics that go: she lives in cailfornia we can go the beach we will never be bored...thanx for any help at all (link)
With the minimum of lyrics i think its back home by yellowcard


This seems to constantly occur for me. I was hoping someone could help me. There's this guy who shall remain nameless and just recently I realized that I have liked him for awhile. Lets just say he's been on my mind a lot. Everytime I like a guy, one of my friends always has a crush on him too but I never say anything, I always remain silent on guys I like. I have a hard time. This time I think I blew it because there have been times where I would think that we both liked each other a lot and neither of us would say anything. It just sucks because I was finally going to tell him how I feel and one of my friends revealed that she had liked him for awhile. Now they are going to an event together and I don't know what to do? (link)
For one he may be gone to her ... but from now on dont be silent, revele your feelings first...


ok well yesterday me and my boyfriend broke up..he told me and my best friend that it was cause when we were on the phone that all I said was oh and thats cool and he didn't think I cared when he said stuff so I wasn't that upset about it..but then at school today everyone was like awww I feel so bad and I'm like I'm not that upset and there like wow how could he like her and I'm like what and no1 got a chance to tell me what that meant until my other friend was like I heard what happened and I was like yeah..and shes like do you know the reason and I was like yeah and shes like and your not upset and I was like no not really and shes like do you know this reason and was like he likes this girl (-shes such a slut and he has broken up with me before for her-) but thats not what he told me..and he also told my other friend that he thought I liked this one kid named Jordan but I dont we're in 7th and hes in 6th and hes just a friend..I can understand why he would say that though because my best friend likes him so we're always hanging with him..and so like I really wanna go back out with him..I like him soo much! and like health at school he was like staring at me the whole time and then in tech ed I was hanging out with my best friend and some other people like 2 boys and just my best friend..and he looked like so miserable..and like kept looking over at me..so I dunno if he still likes me or not and I'm gonna talk to him online tonight and I was wondering if hearing that story if you think he still likes me and what I should say to him and if I should ask him back out or just talk to him adn if just talk what should I say! sorry its so long..whoever reads this I'll rate you high! (link)
Believe me he's not worth it... if a guy leaves you for another girl 1 time and you go back it's ok but if he does it twice than he will do it again... I wish you the best of luck But I dont recoment going back with him... and no he probally dosent like you still he just wants someone he can say i go with er untill something better comes along.


Well ther is a boy I like at school who is really ugly but hez extremely funny and none of my friends know cuz they have crushes on him too! So this is a total secret but anywayz hez like my best friend thts a guy! Well Monday  he had a bee stinger stuck in him and well he hasn't been to school since monday.... i know this is really stupid but i'm scared hez allergic to bees and they couldn't get the stinger out...I am scared okay! I have his number cuz its in our school directory...but I wouldn't call him unless my friends were over n i'm havin one come over saturday..if he doesn't show up at school tomorrow should i call n see if hez ok? Also tell me if I should be scared!

Please Help Me I am soooooo scared! (link)
Dont be to worried Call and see if he's ok If he's your Best Guy friend then getting a call from you might brighten up his day... go on call, you dont need your friend their...


if a bgoy that you are friends with likes you but you go out wihtone of his friends and he gets mad wants you to have sex with him but you say no but he tells you if he don't then he was goin to shoot you what would you do someone please help me.... (link)
Talk to your parents or an adult immegiatly communicating threts like that arnt jokeing needs to be turned in right away


I don't think I react to things the way I should,
I lost my father in 97 and I didn't cry all the much and I loved my father very much, then in 2002 I lost my Brother to A Car Crash, and I just don't think I was as sad as I should have been I know you guys are probally think I am cold hearted and made of stone. I fear the same I mean I feel regular emotions like LOVE and anger, and Joy. But when it comes to sadness I just kinda of go numb is something wrong with me, or am I just worrying too much? (link)
Sometimes when things of that magnutude happen your body goes into a state of shock and you are sad but u cant show it or feel it yoursewlf because maybe you refuse to believe what it is that's happened...
Chris


Ok, I've had this really annoying virus for like 5 months now.It changed my password to my msn messenger and hotmail and now I can't get into them at all!!I can't even use my anti-virus because it disabled it.Does anyone know how I can get rid of it? (link)
Restore your pc get a new MSN account... thats all you can do


there is this boy tht i hve been in love with since the first day i saw him in 7th grade and i am in the middle of my 8th grade year now.i had one boyfriend last year but i just didn't love him as much as this one boy and i just can't stop thinking about him or looking at him.he flirts with me a lot and i flirt back but i just am not sure if he rilly lks me or just wants to be friends.pllzzz help!!!
signed,
confused (link)
You always like what you cant have and once you get the unatanible you dont want him anymore

Remember that


hi! okay well im 11 and i just started my period! ahh! well i live with my grandparents and my grandma is on her way home right now but i havent called her and told her. when she gets home what are some good lines to say to her? plz help! i rate really good! (link)
Just tell her what Happened, be like Grandma I just started my period. I need some tamponds/pads. Its best to just be honest and simple.


what does it meen if a guy gives you beads? my cousin was all talking about how slutty these gurls were because they were sitting by their boyfriends with a whole bunch of beads around their necks. i didn't know but laughed along with her with no idea on what she was talking about. i know it must have somthing to do with sex but what? p.s. please don't delete! (link)
Its from Madigra (sp) Spring break girls get a Bead necklace if they flash them...


my cuticles keep breaking. they always look dry and are cracking..i try lotion but they still crack. can u tell me what to do? thanks i rate ya =) (link)
Put some of the medicated neo-sporen(sp) or the generic brand on them and wrap them in bandaids untill they heal. it's not exactly a long time thing but it keeps them looking nice for some time but they'll still break everynow and then...


Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.

What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
I personally think ur to young to be thinking about marriage... I mean 2 of my best friends are already engaged and their all between 15 - 18 but I would wait untill High school is over if yall can make the whole diffrent college thing and if your still together then it would be a good time for it but now in mid high school its to soon.


Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me? (link)
Nothing is wrong with you I know 16 - 20 year old's you have never kissed yet, just wait for that "special someone"...


I have this problem. There is this girl I like, Lea, but she has a boyfriend...or rather had. I found out today that they broke up this morning, and i get the feeling it may be becos of me, due to her knowing i like her and i knowing she likes me to, but she's been with her boyfriend for 2 years. But the problem is, I don't think i like her ENOUGH to go out with her, but there is this other girl, Jo, who also has a boyfriend that i like more, quite abit more. What Should i do? I turned 17 this year, Lea is 17 (18 end of this year) and Jo is 16. (link)
Find someone who is single It sounds like you are only going for people you cant have and once you can have them you dont want them anymore...


ok...i've been acepted into the american school of ballet..and like i go to new york like everyday n e way...but im doing way to many things latley! like im play feild hovkey..ice hockey...7 chorases(training) dance...and windsurfing in da summer....i dont wanna quit n e thing and i dont wanna turn down the chance! what do i do!

p.s (13/f) and i have to get all a's (link)
Cut down the amount of time u spend on each extra activity, No need to keep over working yourself and stressing yourself out at such a young age.


i just got around to my 7th day of my period and it was pretty much all done [less and less coming out], but all of a sudden, it got really heavy again!! why is this happening? does it happen a lot during this time? (link)
Yeah it happens, Give it a day or 2 more and it should be over... if not I might suggest ask your mom what's up...




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