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Question Posted Wednesday September 15 2004, 9:39 pm

Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?

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<3kiLeE answered Friday October 8 2004, 9:22 pm:
NO!! if=ts fine your not ready yet, you will no when you are ready because you will have met the ONE!!


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TwistedThoughts answered Friday September 17 2004, 7:29 pm:
No!!! Not at all dude!! Im 13 and i havent! Its probably just that you havent found her yet! The one that you want to kiss! Or it might mean that you are ready for a serious relationship and that you arent going to start kissing and more untill you love your partner!

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xoWiLdnPiNkxo answered Thursday September 16 2004, 7:48 pm:
hey! no there's nothing wrong with you at all! You should probably wait for the right person to come along to have it with. Im 14/F and i havn't had mine yet either. It's normal. Just wait for it to come, it will soon

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Dalejr128 answered Thursday September 16 2004, 7:00 pm:
Well There's nothing wrong with you i guess but.... If the opertunity comes take it or u might be 20 b4 u have ur frist kiss and that's kinda weird..

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Problemhelper193 answered Thursday September 16 2004, 6:05 pm:
No!!!! this is perfectly normal!!!

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Riggzy answered Thursday September 16 2004, 4:31 pm:
Nope. Lots of people GRADUATE high school and never kiss anyone. It's sad, but it's no big loss. Nobody needs herpes!

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Mammie answered Thursday September 16 2004, 4:21 pm:
i bet not! its ok ull find someone great and then ull get ur kiss i hadnt been kissed till i was fourteen either! its ok... :)

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Thursday September 16 2004, 3:59 pm:
nope!!! not at all. my best friend is 16 years old (male) and he has yet to kiss a girl. there is absolutly nothing wrong with you at all. you're time will come. until then while your waiting you can always pop a tic tac JUST to make sure. lol just kidding! anyways when your time comes... here are some tips on french kissing. make sure your faces are close enough so that you know where your lips are aiming and THEN close your eyes, do not open your mouth that wide because you might like eat her face,(my ex boyfriend did that to me it was terrible) when you kiss a girl just like massage her tounge with yours... if you want to be a little kinky... try to nibble on her lip but not that hard because a guy tried to do that to me once and he bit my lip really hard and it started bleeding so if you do that PLEASE be careful and my boyfriend said it's called NIBBLING for a reason... so nibble do not bite! the way to do that is when you two have stopped like with the whole tongue action suck her bottom lip really gently into your mouth and nibble it... pull it up with your teeth and let it go. it's quite kinky... girls love it. hope i helped!!! if you need anything just drop one in my box!

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bucs10us answered Thursday September 16 2004, 3:46 pm:
no i was a senior b4 that ever happend to me...itll come sooner or l8r, nothing is wrong w/ u trust me

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Thursday September 16 2004, 2:18 pm:
Nothing is wrong with you... a lotta guys brag about having done stuff... half of what they say isnt true... im sure there are a lotta guys that havent kissed a girl yet either... they just wont admitt it... so dont worry... ur not alone

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xO4uXo answered Thursday September 16 2004, 1:13 pm:
*hey sweetie*

no theres nothin wrong with u... tht time will come to u when the time is rite, even if u dont think it mite come for a long time! jus b patient even though its a hard thing to do!

best of luck

x's n o's


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pinklemonadestand answered Thursday September 16 2004, 1:10 pm:
No defenitly nothing is wrong there. Your just not ready. Never rush yourself to do something you don't want to do right then and there. I am a 14 year old girl and when i had my first kiss i was 14 and it was about 4 months ago and it wasn't anything great because i did it to make my boyfriend happy with me and i still wish i would of waited because now i have to live my life knowing i had my first kiss with the boy i really didn't love and he cheated on me. So it is a good thing your waiting. When your ready you will know. Good luck

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XxRockon answered Thursday September 16 2004, 11:37 am:
no, there is nothing wrong with you at all. I know that many poeple in my grade have never kissed a girl and vice versa for girls. Your time will come.

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batman_14 answered Thursday September 16 2004, 11:00 am:
buddy... don't worry about it... your not missing much at your age.... you, the guys you hang out with, the girls you like, you're all young and have your entire lives to experience all that life has.... don't worry about rushing your first kiss.... i did... and i kindof regret it... but i married her....and everythings cool now.. . but when it comes to the age you experience your first kiss... i was nineteen.... my first real kiss.... i don't mean tounge, i don't mean the most beautiful girl in the world, she is but that's beside the point, what i mean is there was real emotion behind it..... real passion... and that is not the kind of thing you want to rush... let it flow.... you meat a girl.... you like her.... maybe then you take her on a couple of dates..... don't rush it.... let it flow.... you bring her home from a movie after seeing her a few times and.....thing just fall into place.,... you'll know when to kiss her.... she'll let you know.... you just have to see the signal when she does it.... keep your eyes open.... just be natural.... if you get nervous.... tell her..... laugh about it with her "you know with all this beauty standing next to me.... i cant keep my knees from shaking...." and have to keep cool and cute..... not too cute though.... you'll know when it's enough.... she'll let you know..... just watch for the signs

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BlOnDiE7x3 answered Thursday September 16 2004, 10:44 am:
No. Everyone has their first kiss at different times. Your time will come don't worry!

*Drop one in my inbox if you have anymore questions*

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xo__LiSHY answered Thursday September 16 2004, 10:21 am:
I've gotta admit this...i didn't kiss a guy until i was 16. Now i was immensly popular, had tons of boyfriends and i KNOW i'm attractive (i think so and many people have told me). I didn't know if it was just ME doing something wrong or what but it didn't happen until i was 16. It's just how it's different for everyone...and don't rush into it. Kissing means relationships and relationships mean problems and fights. Enjoy your youth while you can!!! Don't rush into things...everything will fall into place when it's supposed to!

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MoonFisher answered Thursday September 16 2004, 10:03 am:
My brother in law is 19 and has never kissed a girl. There is something vaguely wrong with that at his age, but not with you! I kissed my first boy at 14. You'll get or give your first smooch soon enough. Good icebreaker for you: In front of a girl you like, say that you've never kissed a girl before. When she shows sympathy, ask her if she'd like to change that. Be playful about it, and even if you get a turn down, she'll respect you for being so bold. Go get 'em, tiger.

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NovemberInMySoul answered Thursday September 16 2004, 3:37 am:
Naw you just haven't found that special girl yet . A lot of little freshman haven't kissed girls yet . Same with the girls to . I just turned a freshman to and I know a lot of freshman guys who haven't kissed girls yet .
Hopefully someday youll have a girl soon .

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IxAmxCrying answered Thursday September 16 2004, 2:05 am:
Dude, i didn't get my first kiss, until my junior year. I mean, and a lot of girls have chased me...

It's just a matter of finding somebody worth kissing...

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Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday September 16 2004, 12:27 am:
No. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. You don't have to rush into everything. A lot of kids do. I didn't get my first kiss until I was almost fifteen. I realize it's different for a guy, but still. Who says you have to get kissed, or kiss someone by the time you're in high school? It's up to you, and you alone. Don't feel pressure to do stuff. Take your time. You're young.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

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storageanddisposal answered Thursday September 16 2004, 12:25 am:
Yes, there's something wrong with you. There, now 1 out of the 14 answers is slightly different.

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aNgeLxfOrEvEr answered Thursday September 16 2004, 12:24 am:
there's nothing wrong with you. you havent found the right girl yet. dont kiss someone if you dont mean it. hope i helped you!


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xOmAnDaH answered Thursday September 16 2004, 12:19 am:
theres nothing wrong with just havent found the right girl..dont worry she will come! hope i helped..rate me =)


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dancergal1024 answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 11:23 pm:
no deffinitely not...i know a lot of people who havent kissed anybody that are your age or older theres nothing wrong with it you just havent met the person you want to have that really special first kiss with

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TheGovernor answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 10:52 pm:
Dude, there is nthoign wrong with you at all. I personally did not recieve my first kiss until I was 18. Just wait until you meet that girl who is really worth it. :-)

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friendforall7 answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 10:46 pm:
hey man there is nothing wrong with you know some people even choose not to kiss till they are married or about to get married. its ok your only 14 you have your whole life. its really nothing to worry about i have only kissed like 4 girls and i am only 17 don't worry about it. everything will be cool your life doesn't revolve around kissing girls.

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StiLLwiShinG_1217 answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 10:39 pm:
Okay, there is NOTHING wrong with u. By the sound of it, u just haven't found a girl worth kissing. It's very sweet actually, if that special girl whom u will find eventually, knows u haven't kissed anyone but who will be her. My point is, don't stress about it, and if u find a girl u like, ask her out! Maybe things will happen ;-) IM me if u have any problems :-)

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Fallin2Pieces answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 10:37 pm:
It's ok. There is nothing wrong with you. I have freinds that are older than you who haven't had there first kiss yet. These things come at different times. Nowadays, teenagers are in such a rush to grow up and just because you aren't at there "level" doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. People can get there first kiss at any age. It is just the matter of timing. Just relax, you'll find the right girl to kiss. Maybe sooner than you think...-Fallin2Pieces

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Laura answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 10:36 pm: o.o I'm assuming you mean like mom/sister/grandma or something.

Anyway, no, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. It just means that you're waiting for someone special, and that's great.


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anarchistangel answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 10:29 pm:
Nothing is wrong with you I know 16 - 20 year old's you have never kissed yet, just wait for that "special someone"...

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AnDiE answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 10:28 pm:
aw.. theres nuthyn wrong with you.. and trust me.. l0l.. i thynk tha grls hoo have never been kissed would rather have a guy hoo they kno isnt all expirenced.. l0l..and there are some.. cuz im fourteen and some of mai friends havent kissed anyone.. but.. they prolly wont want an ExPiReNcEd guy.. cuz yeah.. i wish mai first kiss would have been with someone hoo wasnt expirenced instead of bein a playerrr.. l0l.. yeah.. and anywaes.. there are prolly a feww guys hoo havent kissed anyone b4.. if u have anyy more questions.. IM me or ask sumthyn in tha inboxx!!

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