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There's this guy I have a question about. He is a very close friend of mine, and the two of us have had some "liking one another" things in the past. What does it mean if he always: looks into my eyes, gets close to me, touches me, leans on me sometimes, flirts, talks to me a lot, and walks with me a lot? Does he like me? Or not? By the way, I am 12 and he is 13 if that helps any. A lot of people think me and him make a good couple and they think he likes me. But I really have no clue and I need an opinion from someone I don't know. (link)
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It sounds to me that he likes you, but at your age, it's probably best to stay close friends for now. See if later your friendship doesn't turn into something really special! Good luck to you :)
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i have been dateing my bf for 2 and a half months now and we still havent kissed! last week i almost kissed him, but then i chickened out! a friend of mine(who i like to refer to as my own personal spy) said that he told her that he came close to kissing me but was to nervous. he will put his arm around me and hold me close. but how do i get him to not be that nervous and kiss me? we've talked about kissing but it never happened. (link)
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Honestly, patience is key. When you two are comfortable enough with each other that he's okay with going in for a real first kiss then it will happen! No use rushing things.
There are pieces of advice I can give you though: Eat chocolate or a mint first, and lean in close to his face locking eyes with him when you laugh at something funny he may have said. It makes it clear you want physical contact and is also mood-lightening. Hold his hand as well! Eye contact is tell-tale; if he looks scared, don't pressure him. If he looks willing but hesitant, just come straight out and be like, "So babe, are you going to kiss me?" And totally smile like you mean it.
Your first kiss with a new person (and in general) should be genuine and meaningful. Make it something you'll remember :)
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Help!!!
I REALLY luv this guy, and he says I'm the luv of his life. But I want to kiss him! He said he wants his first kiss to be with me, but I don't know if he wants to...yet. I've caught him staring at me a lot lately, so should I make a move towards ME kissing HIM?!
Signed,
Needs Help MAKING UP HER MIND!!! (link)
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I'm just wondering how old you are. I would never say there is too young a time to be in love, but I'm wondering if you're serious about that or just overly excited? Anyway, my advice to you is to wait and let him do it when he's good and ready. If he actually wants you to do it, he'll probably bring it up or stare at you really hard for a long time practically screaming in his eyes for you to take the plunge. But honestly, it's most effective to keep the ball on his side.
Keep it coming if you have more questions :)
Mayya
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Okay here's my story.
I've bee nfrineds with this guys for like over 11 years. We've always gotten along very well and we have a lot in common. We're like best friends.
Anyways I've noticed that we've become closer towards each other. And for the past 4 years I've liked him. I've always given him hints that I liked him and he's done nothing about that. Then at my graduation party he finally figured it out that I like him.
And he told me he just liked me as his friend even though he clearly gives me signs that he likes me more than a friend.
I guess I need advice on what to do. I mean to me we seem really close. And usually guys are easy to read about what their thinking and if you plan to make a move you can figure it out how they would react but not this guy. I really really really like him and I'm just not sure what my first move should be or should I wait for him to make the first move. What's your advice for me? (link)
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My advice is that you watch out for this guy. He may be interested in just one thing. Even if he is your friend, most guys are just plain stupid and will like, be so happy you're into them and just want to get in your pants. Now, maybe he's a nice guy and it ends up not being like that and he's just trying to protect his feelings for you by being dishonest about it, but either way, you gotta watch out for yourself and how you deal with him! Tell me if you have any other problemoss. Take care
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okay well i weigh around 117 pounds and im about, 5'4. I am turning 15 this year. I am convinced that im fat, i hate myself for it too, i watch what i eat 24/7 and even though people tell me im not, i still feel that i am. I am probley one of the most self concious people. so i guess im asking about what i should weigh (link)
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Oh dear, dear, dear. I am 4'11" and I am 127lbs. You should NOT be worrying about your weight; if you really are concerned, you may have a disorder called anorexia. Hopefully you already know, but this is a disease of the mind that alters what you are seeing in reality when you look in the mirror. By health wise, you are in no way obese. You are at a healthy weight and you actually have some room to gain. My best advice is to accept yourself, or have a doctor check you out! You will probably get this same answer though =/
If you have any more questions/concerns, contact me!
--> Mayya
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17/f. My mom is vehemently against my going to college in the fall of this year, she wants me to wait a year. I applied to various schools without her knowledge or consent because I'm not willing to wait a year before going. I sent off my enrollment deposit to the school I'm going to and I've been working with my principal and my Gifted and Talented coordinator, trying to get my mom in to a meeting to discuss the prospects of me going in fall. Well, she's refused to go to the meeting, thinks I'm still waiting a year. I have to send in the tuition and housing deposit and forms to my school, and they have to be signed by a parent since I'm under 18, but I called the school and explained my situation and they agreed that I could sign it myself. So now where I'm at is, I could just leave in fall, go off to my college, and my mom wouldn't have to know until shortly before I do it. I'll only be 17 1/2 by August and I made sure that if she called the police or social services they wouldn't be able to take me back...but now I'm kind of stuck. I have people that are willing to help me move up there and I have a good-paying summer job so I'm set financially, but I don't want to cause a family rift. I'm sick of my mom controlling me, but as much as I want to rub this in her face because of the way she's treated me over the years, I don't know if I can. Do you think I should?
Thanks (link)
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I am GT too, plus my parents/mother are/is the same way, but I don't want to answer this question with that bias so I'll try my best to be fair =)
I think that with your diligence seen in the background of your situation, you should definitly leave in the fall because you will succeed especially with a good education in your pocket. However, I also see the predicament in whether you'll cause a rift, but thinking realisticly, why would parents that try so hard to protect their children want to be on seriously bad terms with them?
I believe if you left, you would show your mother you want to be independent and eventually the bad blood would run downstream and you will also have a college education behind the career of your choice!
Of course, it is your decision. Think logically and make sure you are not disrespectful. Parents don't like that, heh =/
If you have any questions, contact me!
--> mayya
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it burns when i pee and it feels like i always have to pee. could it be a yeast infection? (link)
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Those, my dear, ar the symptoms of a UTI, or Urinary Tract Infection. This infection comes about when bacteria in your body start cultivating in the urinary tract. You can let it pass, or you can call a doctor for a prescription. Calling a doctor will shorten the period of time it takes for the condition to improve so I reccomend that be what you do so you don't prolong the pain and annoyance =)
If you have any questions, contact me!
--> mayya
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i met some girls a few months ago. i got to know them pretty good. i have much in common with both of them. i liked 1 of them so i told her how i felt, but she has a bf. after she said that i said it's kind of awkward talking to her. she said not to worry and she'll forget about it. i'm ok with that because i wasn't deeply inlove with her anyway. but now i think i'm starting to like her friend, she seems real nice and always calls me cute and i say the same to her. is it too sudden to say i like her? note: she doesnt have a boyfriend (link)
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Aw, sweetheart. It's too bad the one you liked has a boyfriend. Sorry for that, but about this other girl... I'd just like to point out that if you're "starting to like her" then it may not be anything you have to jump on right away because it's better to take more time and know that you're sure you like her. I'm not so much worried that the girl would not respond in a positive way, but I am in fact more worried about how unstable the relationship could be if you told her too early. My advice is to wait until you honestly have your feelings sorted out and then tell her exactly how you feel, but don't take this to mean wait for ever! No! Because at some point, you may lose something that could turn out to be extremely special to you in the long run if you wait too long =)
Until that time, keep up the flirting! Girls like it as long as it's not vulgar.
If you have any more questions, contact me!
--> mayya
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ok well im 14/f. and muh period skips months a lot of times. i mihgt have muh period only 3-5 times a year. the last time i had muh period was in july. IM NOT PREGNANT bcuz im still a vigin. so is it normal for my age that my period doesnt come on time? is there somethin i can do ? (link)
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yes, this is totally normal. i myself get my period once a year. however, it's not a problem if your period skips, not until your 16. if it's doing the same thing by the time you're that age, then you should go see a gynocologist, but for now, it's just puberty =)
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awhile ago me and one of my friends got arrested for vandilism. we spray painted some cars and broke some windows. when will my parents begin to trust me again? me and my friend have talked and we wont get in anymore trouble. we want to hang out. i want trust and think i deserve it.
Thanks a lot
Timothy (link)
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well if you guys seriously aren't going to get into any more trouble, then all you can do is wait and prove it. like, be polite to your parents and get good grades and do what they ask and.. you know, stuff parents like to see their kids do. =) if you think you deserve it, you will work for it. if you have any more questions or problems, IM me!
--> mayya
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Hey guys, do you have a problem when your friend dates your ex girlfriend? just imagine, you break up with this girl or she breaks up with you then, she goes and goes out with your friend? how do you act? what do you say to him?her? do you mind?
thanks insider scoop would be great! (link)
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break ups always suck no matter what is said in the beginning or what happens afterward. when my friend went out with my ex, i freaked out and stopped talking to her. but that was becasue she did without teling me and i found out.. heh, anyway.. the best advice i can give you is to talk to her and say you want to be friends. but tell her first how you feel about your friend and her dating. i'm assuming you're upset. as for him, ask him what's wrong with him! friends don't do that if they are real. and you may actually want to think about why you liked the girl in the first place. but through all this just stay calm with them both. you don't want any troublw or any reason for them to act rude. if you have any questions. IM me!
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Hi i asked about the yeast infection thing. i never had sex or anything like that...it's just been recent...this is actually the first time..could be it something related to my period because i did only have it once and that was in october (link)
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it doesn't matter if you haven't had sex. herpes can be genetic. ask your mom about the history. yes, it could be related to your period, but i haven't had mine in a loooooong time and that hasn't happened to me so i don't know how far that could relate. but like i said, before you jump to conclusions, you should talk to your doctor =)
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What are some symptoms of a sign of a yeast infection? i dont know if i have one or not...i just notice i have this yellowish stuff on my underwear...it's like dried or something like a crusty ish stuff but not excatly like a crust thing..please help! thanks! (link)
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that doesn't sound like a yeast infection. a yeast infection is when it gets uncomfortable and itchy in your vaginal area. for that there is a home remedy... if you want it you can im me. or you can go to your local cvs or pharmacy and get over the counter pills that will cure it. however, in your condition, i think it's best to tell your mom and go to the doctor. discharge such as that can be a sign of something nasty, not to scare you, but something like genital herpes. so yes, a doctor is my advice. or you can consult your local pharmacist as to what to do for it as well. if you need me, im me =)
mayya
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ok so i like this boy and he likes me....we like eachother a lot..and i don't want to be his gf but i do! and he wants to be my bf.. .his friends asked me" so do you want to be "" gf" and i say not yet...but inside i totally want to say yes..then his friends tell him and he aslways sais " its ok ..thats fine..i will just wait" and i think that is sweet and all but ...well i don't know what to do...help fast! (link)
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That sounds so familiar =) what i did, and the only thing i can tell you is to just play it out. stay comfortable around this guy and be yourself! of course, you have to tell him exactly how you feel and hearing what he says to his friends makes him sound like a very sweet boy so you don't have to be afraid to tell him that you really do like him.. you're just not ready for a boy friend yet. i think he'll understand and it will be good for him to hear it coming from you! if you have any questions, just im me =)
mayya
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im a girl and Im not a lesbian or bisexual & i dont ever want to like make out with a girl/date one or anything..but i get reallyyyy turned on when i like think about girls being active w/ echother..is this NORMAL
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Hi! I happen to be bisexual, and for me to figure it out, I had to really think about how I thought about both girls and guys. I found out that yeah, I do think of girls as sexually attractive... But i like guys alot too. So basically, to answer your question, it is normal, but not for a girl who is COMPLETELY straight. But in reality, in this generation... i don't think any girls actually are lol So, my advice is to just look at your sexuality more closely. I don't want to date girls either, but I've given myself the comfort of knowing that i do like girls. Give urself that too if that's what'll help. if ya need me, im me =)
mayya
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hows it going everyone
i'm training for a military parachuting course and it's really physically demanding. anyone got tips on training long distance running?
and how often i should workout at the gym?
thanks alot. (link)
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This year, I'm taking gym.. And this may sound incredibly stupid.. but it is HARD! And u need alot of physical strength. Recently, our coaches r making us run about a mile on average every other day. It is said to strengthen our leg muscles and endurance.. and level our breathing.. which I'm finding to be true. So, find a place to run best of ur ability, pace urself, and do a little more every day. U'll become a better runner and get into an even better physical shape than u r now. And don't ever forget to stretch before u run. Touch the sky, TRY to touch ur toes but don't strain.. arm up and over and lean to one side, then the other. Sit down in a comfortable area, do a stratle, and pull out to the middle, then out to the side, the out to the other side. This will increase ur flexibility, and give u less of a chance for injury while u run. I hope u pass, ur classes seem exciting :-)
If u have any questions about anything, ask me!
*Mayya
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Heyyy im the grl who asked the question about the junior n stuff... the thing is today he saw me and i got really nervous n i got really shy. and everyone who knows me knos that im not shy at all! and soo how should i get over being shy around people :-/ its ruining things... he asked my friend y i was soo shy and that i might not be his type bc of that.
Thanks! (link)
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awww !! sweetie, I get the same way.. but I'm weird and I act really crazy when I get "shy" I'm just strange lol.. but, the reason u get shy is cuz u really like him! and u don't wanna embarrass urself by sayin something stupid.. I think u should talk to him on the phone so u don't get toooo shy and tell him. Tell him u're actually really outgoing.. and once u know him more, u'll get comfortable and open up more! Just apologize for bein so quiet, and plan another date! It'll be fun if u get into ur skin just right around him. Don't worry so much about wat he thinks of u, cuz that'll make u nervous.. Take a deep breath and just be who u r, everything will be fine. Count on it :-)
*Mayya
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k.. im a freshman, and i like a junior.
my friend to the guy i liked him and told him she would show me to him and then he would decide if he wanted to talk to me or not.
I really like this guy. And i dunno wut to do. Cause wut if he says im fugly or something. I dunno wut i would do. But i dont want that to happen.
Hes gonna meet me on friday n i wanna kno wut i should do and wut i should act like and how i should look and if he does wanna talk to me what to talk about.
Thanks soo much!
*Confused n Scared* (link)
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Wow! I like a junior too! He's awesome! He asked me out today.. I said no.. but that's just b/c I'm an idiot when it comes to my own problems lol
Anyway.. The best thing to do is not wear too much make up. It's not something guys like.. a bit of gloss and eye shadow, u're set. Now, I know u're thinking somewhere along the lines of.. wat to wear, wat to wear?!?!? Well, maybe a flirty skirt, but not too short! or comfy yet cute jeans, a complimenting top, and sandals. Always cute. Do ur hair simple. Maybe even leave it down. Act urself. Never forget that, no matter WHO the guy is cuz if u're uncomfortable bein how u r normally, around him, he isn't the one for u. Talk to him about things u like, see if u 2 have anything in common! If he doesn't seem interested, drop him. O! And if he tries anything you don't like, leave. U have to show him who's boss ;-) Be nice, smile, and be natural, the guy will fall for u! GOOD LUCK!
*Mayya
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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me? (link)
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Okay, there is NOTHING wrong with u. By the sound of it, u just haven't found a girl worth kissing. It's very sweet actually, if that special girl whom u will find eventually, knows u haven't kissed anyone but who will be her. My point is, don't stress about it, and if u find a girl u like, ask her out! Maybe things will happen ;-) IM me if u have any problems :-)
*Mayya
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Hi.Yesterday i went to the doctor for a checkup and discovered im still only 5`3 and a whopping 206 pounds :( I gained about 8 pounds in 7 months. My weight has gone up and down for a few years, but this is the highest its been . I almost broke down crying in the office. Ive played the weight loss game..but in the end i keep losing. I dont want to lose the battle of being overweight.My mom and a couple friends who know my weight tell me I dont look like im 200lbs.
Im very athletic and muscular..but i hAVE to lose weight for good. I play tennis, basketball, softball for the school. Im pretty good at all of them...Im sorry this is long and its asking for a lot..but..im lost, depressed, and i dont know what to do. I dont want this to get out of control. I need to stop it now! Please, anything..i promise to give you the good ratings you guys desserve.
~desperate n depressed~ (link)
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Alright sweetie.. if u're that weight.. an u don't look it, then the only reason u way that much is ur muscle mass b/c of how athletic u are.. really there isn't much u can do.. However, that "up and down" weight thing worries me. If u think that may be a problem.,. and it happens alot, ask ur doctor to check u t.h. balance I think it's called. It is a cell from ur thyroid gland (around the underside of ur neck) that can cause problems with weight and moodiness b/c it also deals with hormonial issues. After u ask ur family doctor, he may hand u over to a neurologist who can help u if ur t.h. scale is high. However, I hope u turn out okay, and please IM me if u have any problems!
*Mayya
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