im a girl and Im not a lesbian or bisexual & i dont ever want to like make out with a girl/date one or anything..but i get reallyyyy turned on when i like think about girls being active w/ echother..is this NORMAL
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? savorystillborns answered Saturday April 2 2005, 10:15 am: Well if you think of it it may be just a reflection of the pride you have within yourself for your own body. Women's bodies are a divinely beautiful thing. We bring passion to sex and other acts of love because of the form of ourselves, which is made to attract the eye.
Men can to a degree turn you on... I mean they have "the thing." If you know what I mean... but I mean when does anyone ever stare at his breasts, and when has there ever been a male beauty pageant?
Don't worry much- attraction for the female body is hardwired into all our brains. You don't like girls, but anyone must acknowledge the power of the female's body and its lure. [ savorystillborns's advice column | Ask savorystillborns A Question ]
alisonmarie answered Thursday March 31 2005, 3:51 pm: Sure, it's normal. Lots of different things turn lots of different people on.
I would think carefully about your own sexuality. While thinking about lesbian sex doesn't make you a lesbian, it COULD mean that you are a lesbian or bisexual. And of course there's nothing wrong with either.
The key is to just be honest with yourself about what you like and dislike, but more importantly WHO you like and dislike. Don't worry. You'll figure it out.
StiLLwiShinG_1217 answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 6:10 pm: Hi! I happen to be bisexual, and for me to figure it out, I had to really think about how I thought about both girls and guys. I found out that yeah, I do think of girls as sexually attractive... But i like guys alot too. So basically, to answer your question, it is normal, but not for a girl who is COMPLETELY straight. But in reality, in this generation... i don't think any girls actually are lol So, my advice is to just look at your sexuality more closely. I don't want to date girls either, but I've given myself the comfort of knowing that i do like girls. Give urself that too if that's what'll help. if ya need me, im me =)
GheadMak3myDay answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 5:39 pm: Well, you might in fact be bi. There's nothing wrong with that. Or you could just be curious. It happens. It's normal to have those feelings. It'll take a while to sort out who you are as a person but in no way is it weird... except for old farts who can't adapt to different situations. Fuggedaboudit! [ GheadMak3myDay's advice column | Ask GheadMak3myDay A Question ]
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