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Is it too early?
i met some girls a few months ago. i got to know them pretty good. i have much in common with both of them. i liked 1 of them so i told her how i felt, but she has a bf. after she said that i said it's kind of awkward talking to her. she said not to worry and she'll forget about it. i'm ok with that because i wasn't deeply inlove with her anyway. but now i think i'm starting to like her friend, she seems real nice and always calls me cute and i say the same to her. is it too sudden to say i like her? note: she doesnt have a boyfriend
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It's not too sudden to like someone, but you should wait a while to make sure it isn't just a rebound thing.
Maybe you are just in love with the idea of being in love. Or maybe you just want a girlfriend.
Take the time to get to know the girl in question very well before deciding if you want to date her or not.
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noo, i dont think its to sudden or early for you to like her. the first girl wasnt even [that] interested in you - so it shouldnt reallty matter. especially if you just started to really talk to her. i say go for her - sounds like shes intereted in you too !
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No, it's not too early! I knew my boyfriend for less than a day! I always say, it's never too early. She's so obviously flirting with you, so she likes you!!! You should totally ask her out before she becomes unavailable!
xox Gretchen
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hey, well dont tell her like today. wait a little because if you jsut got over her friend then shell be like wow this dude is deperate. cait♥
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im sorry things didnt work out with you and the first girl. you must have been bummed.. now itz good your getting over her. but it seems like your trying to replace your feelings for her with another girl. slow down!!!!! take a little time to get to know the girl and really see if you like her alot and if you really cant go with out her tell her.. but if you can it's always best not to travel around a group of friends.
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Aw, sweetheart. It's too bad the one you liked has a boyfriend. Sorry for that, but about this other girl... I'd just like to point out that if you're "starting to like her" then it may not be anything you have to jump on right away because it's better to take more time and know that you're sure you like her. I'm not so much worried that the girl would not respond in a positive way, but I am in fact more worried about how unstable the relationship could be if you told her too early. My advice is to wait until you honestly have your feelings sorted out and then tell her exactly how you feel, but don't take this to mean wait for ever! No! Because at some point, you may lose something that could turn out to be extremely special to you in the long run if you wait too long =)
Until that time, keep up the flirting! Girls like it as long as it's not vulgar.
If you have any more questions, contact me!
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Hey sup?? Well I think that you should wait for about two more weeks, that way you'll totally be 100 percent whether you like her or you don't. Sometimes we think that we like people only because we're looking for someone to date...but don't take too long to ask her out because she might get the vibe that your not into her anymore. Well if you do ask her out goodluck and I hope she says Yes to you..xo>
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Well, I'd wait maybe a few more weeks before you tell her, so she doesn't think you're a player.
But if she doesn't have a boyfriend you should totally ask her out soon enough. If she calls you cute, that's a sign that she's flirting with you so she probably likes you.
If you're planning to ask her out, but doun't know how to do it, I'll help. I think you should slip her a little note saying "Will you go out with me?" because that's so cute, or if you want to do it in person, just say you need to ask her something, and pull her aside & comfortably ask her out. If you give her a note, then say right next to her so you can find out her answer.
Okay, well back to your question... You could always ask her out now, but if she thinks you just jump from girl to girl, she might find that a turn-off. That's why I said you should wait a few weeks. But it's up to you. If you're afraid someone might ask her out before you, you could always just ask her out next time she sees you.
Good luck. Feel free to ask more questions if you need to. :)
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