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confused!
ok so i like this boy and he likes me....we like eachother a lot..and i don't want to be his gf but i do! and he wants to be my bf.. .his friends asked me" so do you want to be "" gf" and i say not yet...but inside i totally want to say yes..then his friends tell him and he aslways sais " its ok ..thats fine..i will just wait" and i think that is sweet and all but ...well i don't know what to do...help fast!
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Aww I think you should go out with him! Both of you like each other and who knows this relationship could go well and last long :)
x0Lindsey
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Don't do anything until he is mature enough to ask you himself. Tell that to his friend. And then decide what you want to do when you actually talk to him. Alone, not with his friend the body guard there.
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tell the truth. go out with him if you want to. if theres something holding you back then tell him what it is but make sure he knows that you still like him. good luck!
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That sounds so familiar =) what i did, and the only thing i can tell you is to just play it out. stay comfortable around this guy and be yourself! of course, you have to tell him exactly how you feel and hearing what he says to his friends makes him sound like a very sweet boy so you don't have to be afraid to tell him that you really do like him.. you're just not ready for a boy friend yet. i think he'll understand and it will be good for him to hear it coming from you! if you have any questions, just im me =)
mayya
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I think if you really like this guy you shouldn't let let him pass you by! You are going to regret it everyday if you do cause believe me it has happened to me! Guys that are sweet will wait a while but they wont forever and it will suck if he goes out with someone else cause you will see them happy together and that will make you really deppressed!! So just take a risk and go out with him since you said your really like him!! Hope I helped!
xoxo claire
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Go for it.. you have no reason not to go with him..and it sounds like he's a sweetheart..much luv dez x0x0
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You guys should just be friends first too see how you feel about him with you only. Like go to the movies as friends and see if you really like him and his personally if you think he is changed now with you alone and don't like he then you guys can stay friends if you still like him like him then you should say yes and be his gf. Hoped i helped. ~-*Amanda*-~
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Decide. You waste more time seesawing between 'should I?' or 'shouldn't I?'. That time could be spent doing stuff couples do - going out to movies, hangin' out, etc. instead of sittin' there thinking. What's holding you back from being his gf? Are you worried that your friends won't approve? If you are, then stop. It's shallow to think that way and only stuck up snobs do that. Are you worried he's only in it for the sex? Well, here's a good reason not to be his gf. If he just wants you for sex, there's no point. Tell him to find an easier girl and find a guy who will actually care. Are you worried he won't know what to do being the bf or you won't know what to do being the gf? Well, that's what a relationship is - to get to know each other better. You won't know unless you decide. So decide already.
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Hi Confused,
Let me help you. Tell him you want to be friends FIRST. Say, I think I would like you to be my boyfriend, but I need us to become friends first. I could never date somenone that I didn't know as a friend first.
Since he already said that he was fine with waiting until you made up your mind, then he should be ok with being friends. Because now you will get to spend time together to become better friends. You just may find out as you get to know him better, that you don't want him as a boyfriend. This will give you time to find out how he is going to treat you as a friend and later as a girl friend. For example, if he flirts with other girls in front of you because he thinks he is a playboy, well no way you are going to like that, so he can decide not to become his girlfriend. And now you do not look like a fool. (Yes you may be broken hearted, but no one has to know but you. ) You may be dissapointed if it turns out that he is not good boyfriend material, but better to know ahead of time than find out too late.
I hope this helps.
Michele
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