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Boy Trouble
I just started to go out this boy. I really like him. We hang out alot. We joke around alot and he really likes to tickle me even though I don't like it. I still want to go out with him but how can I get him to stop tickling me? He also has been flirting with another girl. It looks innocent but should I worry about it? I rate good. Thanks!
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Say to him very firmly I don't like when you tickle me and ask him why he flirts withs other girls. Tell him if he doesen't stop tickling you you'll break up with him.
Karazi Kenzee
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tell him yu dont like to be tickled or even touched around there... if he was a true guy hed understand! talk to him about the other girl.. it could mean something.. she could be leadiinq him on.. hOpe ii helped x0
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You may have to be really stern about it.
Like, I really like you but if you're going to keep the tickling thing up I will hang out somewhere else.I am dead serious about that.
If he can't take it then his feeling's aren't strong enough for you. You do not hurt or do things to people you like if they ask you to stop.
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tickling is a cheap excuse for guys to be all over you. break up if he can't stop
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i think that you should tell him that you would like him 2 stop tickling you?...have you tried that...lol...if not...tell me...as for the flirting w/ the other girl...in what ways do they flirt...if its to much ...i think you should talk 2 him about it...that's what i did with my bf..and he was like no ...i really like you..and stuff...so just talk 2 him about it!:)
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Dear Boy Trouble,
Hey if I were you I'd talk to him about it and ask him nicely to stop tickling you. Do you know if he likes you? If he says he does and he's flirting with another girl then you should forget about him he's probably using you. I hope my advice works. But hey talk to him first!!!
Babygirl
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The only way to stop your boyfriend from tickling you is to talk to him again but somewhere in private place and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you love him but you don't want him to tickle you, even after you tell him to stop. He should understand, since he's your boyfriend. You really shouldn't worry about him flirting with this other girl because it's normal for guys to flirt when they have a girlfriend but if you start to feel sort of jealous, then yes, you should worry about it.
-Karen
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ok so ...you like thiss boy and he probably likes you alot if he tickels you! so tell him SERIOSLY how you feel..and if he doesn't except or respond to your feelings then maybe he wasn't ment for you! and if he was he will stop tickiling you and except your feelings...tell me how it goes!!
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You both sound young and he sounds immature. If he does not stop tickling you when you ask, then he is not concerned about your feelings. If he is flirting with other girls in front of you, then, again, he doesn't care about your feelings. Don't go there girl........
If he doesn't listen to you when you make a simple request to not tickle you, what makes you think he will listen when the matters are more important, like don't break my heart. He sounds selfish and I know grown men who think tickling is fun but it is never fun for the person who is being tickled. And when they don't stop, I suspect that they were teased and tickled by a parent in their lives, who also thought it was funny and didn't stop until the kid was crying and then they were accused of being a cry baby. etc, etc. Your friend may have some serious problems and I would stay just friends and save yourself a lot of heartache.
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