Hey guys, do you have a problem when your friend dates your ex girlfriend? just imagine, you break up with this girl or she breaks up with you then, she goes and goes out with your friend? how do you act? what do you say to him?her? do you mind?
thanks insider scoop would be great!
Derfel answered Saturday May 7 2005, 2:47 pm: Well do you mind? How you feel about this is entirely a personal matter for you but if they both single and they like each other theirs nothing wrong with them seeing each other. As a friend you have to grin and bare it and get used to it no matter how much you may dislike the idea. It may be hard at first, but it will get easier. Derfel XX [ Derfel's advice column | Ask Derfel A Question ]
StiLLwiShinG_1217 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 1:34 pm: break ups always suck no matter what is said in the beginning or what happens afterward. when my friend went out with my ex, i freaked out and stopped talking to her. but that was becasue she did without teling me and i found out.. heh, anyway.. the best advice i can give you is to talk to her and say you want to be friends. but tell her first how you feel about your friend and her dating. i'm assuming you're upset. as for him, ask him what's wrong with him! friends don't do that if they are real. and you may actually want to think about why you liked the girl in the first place. but through all this just stay calm with them both. you don't want any troublw or any reason for them to act rude. if you have any questions. IM me!
MummuM answered Saturday May 7 2005, 1:20 pm: I know I'm not a guy, but I'm going to answer this anyways. I'd be really mad if I were you, especially since you guys just broke up and she's/he's with your friend. It's even harder if the person she/he is with is close with you. If this person was really your true friend, they wouldn't have gone out with her/him so soon. How do you act? Good question. If you want to act like it doesn't really bother you, do that. That way you'll be stronger then them and maybe even get a chance with someone new. What do you say to her/him? Tell them how you feel, how they hurt you because they are together so soon, etc. I would mind if I were you, but the question is, are you really okay with this? Are you down because of this? Because if you are, you really need to fix it by talking with them both.
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