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To tell or not to tell?


Question Posted Saturday May 7 2005, 12:20 pm

There's this guy at school who I really like a lot. I met him about a month ago, and the only problem is that he's really quiet. I've started to talk to him, and we're kind of friends, but he's pretty much a loner. The only people he will talk to is me (for no reason I can figure out) and his older sister, who actually wants us to go out. The only problem is he's really shy, so I don't know if he likes me or not. And I'm not exactly that close to his sister... so I don't want to ask her. I'm wondering if I should tell him now, or wait a little longer, because I haven't known him very long... and when should I tell him if I have to wait?

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xdesireex0 answered Sunday May 8 2005, 5:15 pm:
I think that you should wait a little bit longer adn just talk to him more. Try to make him get a little more comfortable around you. Then when the time comes KISS AND TELL. LOL. And maybe you can even ask his sister to hook you up. Hope my advice helped!
~Linda

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helpful_jess answered Sunday May 8 2005, 3:31 pm:
i think you should let him no how your feeling now cause he might like you but is to shy to make the first move he could be thinking that you dont like him and if you dont tel him sometime soon then he could end up liking someone else he might think there is no point in waiting around if you dont like him so you should talk to him in the next couple of days or so trust me you wil feel a whole lot beter when you finaly get it out in the open and if he doesnt have any feelings for you then im sure use can stil stay friends

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mAdiSoN_x_aLaiNe answered Sunday May 8 2005, 11:38 am:
To tell! But wait a little bit longer. I mean, you say he's shy, and you haven't known him very long. Get to know him more, and have him open up to you.. then you will see his true side, and that will determine whether you like him or not.. Hope I helped!*

-Madison xoxo

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karenR answered Saturday May 7 2005, 6:42 pm:
I think you should get to know him a little better first. If he then still doesn't ask you out, go for it. :)

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confusedbabii answered Saturday May 7 2005, 6:21 pm:
I think that you should just go for it and tell him now, because if you don't, he may move on to someone else. so, take your chance and do it now while you still can! good luck w/ your guy!

XOXO ~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~ XOXO

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xoxoPrettyNPinkxoxo answered Saturday May 7 2005, 12:53 pm:
Hey! You said it your self...He's very shy and the only person he talks to is you and his sister. That probably makes you pretty special to him. I think that you two would be perfect for each other. I think you should just go right out and ask him out yourself. Because he is really shy I think that he will appreciate this a lot so he doesn't have to ask you.

Good Luck
I hope this helps
xoxoxo

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ddancergirlsexiho answered Saturday May 7 2005, 12:45 pm:
OK...well it doesnt matter when you tell him because no matter what it's good to have someone know if they're liked...sounds to me as tho he may like you if ur the only 1 he talks to...you should become closer with his sister too....HOPE I HELPED
~~~DeSIree

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kooka-burra answered Saturday May 7 2005, 12:44 pm:
I think you shouldn't just straight out ask him to go out with you. Instead, ask him if he want to go some where to eat after school or something like that.

Most likely he likes you but is just to shy to show it. So go for it!

Good luck
~kooka

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gsngirl7 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 12:40 pm:
I think you should try to get to know him a little bit better. He probably does like you if you are one of the few people he talks to. Wait and see what happens! Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens! ~Jenn

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LeeCoCheer05 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 12:36 pm:
Hey girl!Well whats prolly best to do is give it a few more weeks to make sure your feelings for him are rele that strong.Dont rush yourself.If he feels comfortable talking to you like you say he does, then maybe his trust will grow stronger between you guys.No worries:-)& when u think its a good time to talk, completely let it out.Dont hold back.You'll see the real him.later gurl!

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