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Hey kidz!Thanks soo much for the feedback!Anytime you need a question answered, email me or anything at all and ill be sure to help you out.Im 16/GA and ima Highschool Varsity Cheerleader.Once again thanx!have a great day!
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how can i make my pours smaller. its like not a zit there its just kinda pours and they dont go away or get smaller even if there was a black head there. ive tried makeup and it doesnt cover it up long enough before it wears off
Hey darlin! Listen. The simple way to help is to apply rubbing alcohol or even get an exfoliating cream. It will loosin the dead skin and soon your face will began smoothing up. Also to make things faster, you could put medication that you might use on a cut on your face.It works! Hope I helped!
So I'll be dating my current boyfriend for three months a week from today. He's the first boyfriend I've had that I can honestly say I really loved. The problem? Things are just getting annoying and boring. When we first started dating, he would do all these cute things with me, like whenever I joke around and try to fall he'll run and catch me... just little things like that. But I'm starting to wonder if he takes everything too seriously. If we're arguing about something little, I'll joke around and say "Take it back or I'll fall over!" And he'll get this seriously sad look on his face and whimper "No..." He can never take a joke it seems and I'm starting to get annoyed with it. I guess I just want him to act more mature. After all he is 19 and he could be acting more mature than he has been lately. I don't really want to consider breaking up with him right now, so is there any other suggestions you have on fixing this first?
Signed, Annoyed But In Love
Hey sweetheart! Listen. Guys make an effort to "Impress" the ladies in the beginning. If you two really like each other, then tell him you miss how things were. But don't sound too pushy.Guys hate being told what to do.If confronting him like that doesn't work, then maybe you guys shouldn't associate as much.When you don't talk as much, you miss each other and the relationship grows.I'm not saying you should ignore him, but just be extremely nice and act like nothing bothers you! Your tough girl! Don't let him make things boring! You got this!
hey well i have a boy friend right now n i was hearing things that he n his ex gurlfriend r like still dating or somthin n some ppl r sayin they're not but i dono who to bolieve soo pleaze help me !!
Hey baby girl! Well I learned the hard way that you should just confront guys and not second guess them. I lost the love of my life because I listened to my friends. They were just backstabbers.Just be calm and ask him in a calm way.He'll understand way better then if you were to scream at him! Well hope I helped!
ok so my couisn has these to friends that i have been talking to on the computer, we have hung out like 3 times or whatever, but that was before one of them and i started flirting, so i was talking to him and i was talking to him about my school bonfire/homecoming thing and i dont no how it happened but now he is coming, and i dont wnat him to feel lonely, because he really doesnt no anyone at my school, so do you think i should invite the other boy too and my cousin, but i dont want to make anything akward with them because we will be all flirty adn everything...so i dont no what to do i just need help...thanks!! xoxo
Hey sweety! Well maybe you should confront him about how you feel. Don't stress it girl! Just simply talk to him about it. Maybe he just wants it to be the two of you. Hope I helped!
i know you can't speed up time or anything but is there like a way to make the feek go by fast...well seems fast? I know it's kidna stupid but i'm just wonder?
Hey sweety!So things seem to be going slow huh? Well maybe you should call up some friends and hang out.You could also do things around the house.You know how parents are.They'd be stuck up your butt for doing that lol.Don't waste your time sitting around though!You only live this day once.Hope I helped!
Ok, long story short, I fell in love with one of my best friend over the summer. Yes, I'm 13. Yes, I know you're about to tell me that this is mere infatuation rather than love. I'm just gonna spare you a 1 rating: It's not infatuation. I know love, and I know infatuation. And this is definitely love. I can feel it as right as 2+2 is 4. Anydangways, she knows very well how much I love her, but she still only likes me as a friend. Now that the school year's started again, our attitudes have sort of changed. We used to joke around all the time, but nowadays, we see each other in the halls, and either we just say "hi" or we stay silent or involved in our conversations. Personally, whenever I'm talking to my friends in the halls, and then I see her coming, I'm suddenly turn silent and I say something like "Yeah, I know, I'm weird." or "Yeah. That's it." Or something to end conversation and not embarass myself. Also, I've been hoping to see her: whenever I'm near where she lives and talking to someone about something, I think, "I'd better make this conversation a bit smarter in case she comes near. Just to be safe" or something like that. And I'm always trying to impress her. I don't know why, we're best friends, and she knows how much I love her. What's going on? Why do I just suddenly lose all my intelligence, self-respect, and logical reasoning, not to mention my will to do what I please, whenever I think about her? It's like in that manga D.N.Angel, whenever Daisuke thinks about Risa, he becomes Dark and loses control of his body. Sorry, I babble a lot. I'd better stop now. Please help me!
Hey sweety! Sounds like you are just nervous around the girl! Well we all know that its pretty much impossible to read a girls mind, so why not confront her? If allowing your emotions to come out in person scares you, there is always the alternative of note writing or even a decent phone call.Maybe she feels the same way. You guys could both just be nervous! Take a chance!Lifes too short! lol well I hope I helped even just a little! Have a great day!
I feel like I am seperated from my family by a million universes. We seem so distant. I can barely hold a conversation, and I can definately not sit in the room with them without feeling awkward. I am like the reject of the family while everyone else is together in a happy wonderland. Is there anything that I can personaly do to get closer to my family?
Hey!Well you may think your the reject, but your rele only not interacting with the family.What you should do is just join in.U cant just wait for the invitation.And if you want to start a conversation, start it off with whats going on in their life and then move on to urs.no worries.:-)
I liked this guy and his sister is one of my friends. Anyways, she told him on Tuesday that i liked him. I don't know how to react. He said that he didn't care and just went on as normal, but i found out this today. Yesterday, I talked to him, but know how to continue to talk to him. We were talking in a conversation and i thought that it was fine, but i wonder if the only reason he was talking to me was because he knew that i liked him. it is really weird. plus on top of that i'm not sure on how i feel about him. i didn't want him to know about it until we became good friends. What should i do? I could barely talk to him when i thought that he didn't know, but know he does i feel.... I don't know how i feel. I need help. I do rate high for appropriate answers.
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~Linda
Hey girl!listen! every crush has its ups and downs.In my opinion, i think he may have thought it over.Most guys wouldnt give a girl the time of day unless there was a lil flame there.What you should do is have a provate and honest conversation between you too about who likes who and when you drop a few hints, see where it leads u.Dont be afraid to talk!no worries!:-)if you have anymore questions, go for it!i answer back asap!
Is there a site on the internet (like cdzinc.com) that provides free listening music to everyone? I don't mean one of those illegal downloading sites, just a site where you can listen to the music but not download it.
Hey! well the only website that would provide music and also a video with it is musicvideos.com . i go there like everyday!no worries:-)
I forgot to get something for my mom because i didnt know it was mothers day - what should i do!? I cant make her anything special or buy anything.
Hey!Listen.Moms never rele pay attention to "gifts"...its the work put into it.Almost anything can satify a mom.I kno because mine is that way.All you may want to do is help around the house or make dinner or something that may take the load off of her.She'll definately appreciate it.no worries:-)
I think that this guy that rides my bus is attracted to me and he is really sweet. I've never had a boyfriend before so I don't know what to expect. Plus, he happens to be my friends brother aswell. He always stare at me and turns away when i look, and when he thinks I'm not looking he stares again. Anyways recently i have admitted that I really do like him. I told my friend that I liked her brother. How do i get to know him better as a friend first without sounding like an idiot? And once I am friends with him how can I get him to take that step forward with me? I'm just trying to figure out what I need to do to see if he's into me or not? Please help. I'm just trying to gain the experience that I don't have, because I have never had a boyfriend before. Again, Please help me! .
Hey girl!listen ive been there, dun that.All you really need to do is to get your friend to maybe have a one on one talk with her brother about you.If he agrees that he likes you and would maybe like to date, take tha chance!Dont rush yourself at all.He'll come to you.no worries:-)
My hair is really long and wavy, and my face shape is round. Will my hair make my face seem longer (which is what I want) or is there another style that can do that?
heyhey!What you might want to do is get your hair layered and add a few bangs.People with rounded faces truly need to have hair that doesnt interfere with their beautiful features.Dont do anything totally dramatic, but then again make it noticable.no worries:-)
There's this guy at school who I really like a lot. I met him about a month ago, and the only problem is that he's really quiet. I've started to talk to him, and we're kind of friends, but he's pretty much a loner. The only people he will talk to is me (for no reason I can figure out) and his older sister, who actually wants us to go out. The only problem is he's really shy, so I don't know if he likes me or not. And I'm not exactly that close to his sister... so I don't want to ask her. I'm wondering if I should tell him now, or wait a little longer, because I haven't known him very long... and when should I tell him if I have to wait?
Hey girl!Well whats prolly best to do is give it a few more weeks to make sure your feelings for him are rele that strong.Dont rush yourself.If he feels comfortable talking to you like you say he does, then maybe his trust will grow stronger between you guys.No worries:-)& when u think its a good time to talk, completely let it out.Dont hold back.You'll see the real him.later gurl!
okay my friend just broke up with her bf, and i like him, and he likes me, and normaly i wouldnt go out with my friends ex's but, shes either gone out with or liked just about everyone, would it be wrong to go out with him?
Hey girl!What you should do is first off talk to your friend about you liking this guy.Never ever just jump for the challenge without a little bit of concern first.Just let her know how you feel about him and if it would bother her if you dated her ex.If she agrees that it is fine, start talking to the guy to make sure that the relationship is what you rele want.If you friend agrees she doesnt rele like the whole idea, then give her time to heal and begin just becoming friends with the guy.Dont put him off for later.No worries girl.:-)
Ok, so lets call the girl Alicia....
Alicia was getting on my nerves alot. I felt like she thought she was better than be and was ignoring me so I decided to take action. I really regret this now, but I decided to take action. I wrote a mean e*mail to her saying how she was ignoring me and how she didnt match sometimes. There were no curse words and no name-calling, but she got really mad at me. She printed out the email and showed to atleast 10 of my friends. Some people turned against me calling me mean, which was true! I said sorry by leaving e*mails and messages and I even made this card by cutting out letters and pictures from magazines for her but from gossip, i heard she doesnt want to be my friend at all. I miss her alot, and I try my best to be nice and all, but I really wish I didnt send they e*mail. What should I do to try to be her friend again but not seem too clingy and obsessed? Please help.
Hey girl! Teen right? well listen.Every friendship is going to have its wonderfully confusing ups and downs, but since you've agreed that you've apologized, try proving your a better friend.If she was truly your friend to begin with, she will have to forgive and forget.Dont let it get to you because everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect.It'll pass on!no worries!:-)
well lets see.. im in the 8th grade and im a girl..and im 14 1/2..and i lyke this guy whose in the 7th grade.. hes like 13 almost 14. well im going to high skool soon and im really gonna miss him. he doesnt kno that i like him. but i have this strong feeling that he might like me bak.im not sure how to tell though.and i dont kno if i should tell him.please help me. how can i tell if he likes me bak?and should i tell him or should i wait?if you guys need any more info let me kno
Hey gurl! Listen i totally know what your going through!Been there, done that. The best thing possible to do is have a private conversation with him about it.Drop a few hints.If he seems interested and notices...move a little more ahead to letting him know whats in your heart...not your head.Let him know what is all on your mind.Never hide your fillings from somone. You never know what exactly is also on their mind because honestly they could be feeling the same way about you.All I have to say is...Let it allll out girl and good luck!:-)