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Friends For Never?
Ok, so lets call the girl Alicia....
Alicia was getting on my nerves alot. I felt like she thought she was better than be and was ignoring me so I decided to take action. I really regret this now, but I decided to take action. I wrote a mean e*mail to her saying how she was ignoring me and how she didnt match sometimes. There were no curse words and no name-calling, but she got really mad at me. She printed out the email and showed to atleast 10 of my friends. Some people turned against me calling me mean, which was true! I said sorry by leaving e*mails and messages and I even made this card by cutting out letters and pictures from magazines for her but from gossip, i heard she doesnt want to be my friend at all. I miss her alot, and I try my best to be nice and all, but I really wish I didnt send they e*mail. What should I do to try to be her friend again but not seem too clingy and obsessed? Please help.
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thats the thing, next time you have a problem with some one . talk to them no e-mails or notes.
i would just call her .. or talk to her one day and be like hey .. ireally miss you .. you really mean a lot to me. can you please give me another chance? i will never do that to you again.
and then maybe explain the reasons for writting the e-mail.
you cant make her want to be your friends. but what you can do it just ask her to be it .. and tell her how sorry you are.
best of luck for your friendships.
Justine <3
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I think you should apologize face to face and sit her down and tell her. Itll mean the most to her that your saying it to her face. If she doesnt accept your apologie then chances are, shell start to miss you too. So dont worry to much about it . .itll all work out!
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The way to get Alicia back is to apologize to her and tell her exactly what you said in this question-"I miss you a lot, and I try my best to be nice and all, but I really wish I didnt send they e*mail. Will you please forgive me?" This is straight from the heart and sincere, and if she doesn't accept that then you can't do anything about it. I'm sure that your other friends will still be there and they will stand up for you no matter what.
:-) <3 :-)
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All you can do is apologize. Which you have done. Don't pressure her or bug her anymore. If she wants to continue the friendship she knows where to find you. :)
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Hey girl! Teen right? well listen.Every friendship is going to have its wonderfully confusing ups and downs, but since you've agreed that you've apologized, try proving your a better friend.If she was truly your friend to begin with, she will have to forgive and forget.Dont let it get to you because everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect.It'll pass on!no worries!:-)
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