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PLease help!! :(
My mom and I have been fighting for two weeks about this. Ive been a competative cheerleader for 5 years but Im sick of it now! She wants me to try-out for my middle school team but I dont want to, we've tried talkin it out, but It always ends up in fighting. She listen to me when i say its my choice not to cheer anymore and I seriously dont like it! Whut should I do?
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Again I agree with Phil! He is a brilliant person. Anyway, I was just going to say that I think cheerleaders are snobby little... er, well they suck. No, literally.
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Duh, don't sign up for it. All the cheerleaders are probably sluts anyway. You don't want to be a slut, right?
On second thought, I like sluts. I think you should take your mom's advice...
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hey ive been a cheerleader since i was three. i went thru the same things ur going thru now. except i did try out for middle school and it was alot different from just regular competitive cheerleading cas b4 middle school thats all i did. thru middle school cheerleading i was recongized and ive also been cheering for an allstar team called step 1 ever since then! now i do HS cheerleading and my allstar team and im a big sucess! but bottom line is that middle school and just competitive are way different . .idk hope i helped you out somehow . . :|
lots of <3
Chelsey
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Well. Sometimes, the only reason she wants you to be a cheerleader, is because she either wanted to be one when she was your age, or she was, and wants you to take after her. You should come to the subject calmly, and say, "Mom, I really want you to understand, I don't like to cheer. I'm tied of it." Do you like dance? There is dance teams in middle school. Where you don't have to do back breaking back-flips. Dance is much more energizing and makes you feel more full of life. If you don't want to be involved in a sport like that, there's track and field (personally my favorite sport) =] and basketball. Depends on what you like. If your mom is still upset.. Try out and do bad. Then you won't make it. Hope I helped =] xoxo
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If you don't want to do it I don't feel you should be made to do it. Maybe your mom needs to get her own life and stop trying to live through you. :)
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~if she wont listen to, talk to someone that she is friends with and sit down with both of them and talk it out, you shouldnt do anything you dont want to do~
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you could always try out for the team or whatever..and do bad on purpose so you dont make it...
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I hate when parents push you into doing things you don't want to do. But, they just want to see you do your best. You could become really good if you continue. I'm a middle school competative cheerleader and it's soo much fun to go out there and do your stuff. But if you really don't want to do it try to sit down and talk to her with out you two going at each other's throats. Tell her how you feel about the situation and hopefully everything will work out. Hope I helped! Love Always, Anna!!
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Dont do it, or perfrom bad.
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