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My 2 best friends have been leaving me out a lot lately. This may not seem like a big deal to you, but let me explain. 2 years ago, my best friend (lets call her Rose) was an outcast. everyone hated her and i was the only one willing to take her in. Last year, we were inseperable, and had an amazing friendship. My other friend, (call her Marie) is the most popular girl in school. she wasnt at the beginning of the school year, and she and i did everything together. all of a sudden theyve become best friends and are leaving me out of everything. it makes me feel so bad, and its gotten so bad that i cry myself to sleep at night. any advice?

aawh! thats soo sad! i think that you should set up a time so your alone with both of them and tell them how you feel. tell them that its hurting you. if you don't want to confront them about you problem invite them to go somewhere with you such as the mall, movies, etc. don't let it upset yout hat much that you cry yourself to sleep! don't let people put you down like that. you sound like a really nice person and deserve way better than that! Hope I helped! Love Always, Anna

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Me and my bf have been going out 4 three months he just found out something bad about a family member and its been making him really angry. I understand how he feels but he takes all of his anger out on me! Last nite he was being such a jerk we almost broke up he tells me he loves me all the time but idk if its true. im only 14 but how can i talk to him without bringing up anything thats going to hurt him?

try to talk to things that make him happy. tell him how much you love him etc. try to cheer him up and just think happy. you never know...maybe what he needs is someone to just be there and tlk to about his problems. reassure him that everything will be okay. Hope I helped! Love Always, Anna

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I dance everyday for two and a half hours and seeing as I'm so used to the routine I don't get tired that quickly.
I was sick last week and had to take a week off dancing and I did my dancing today but after an hour I was really hot and bothered, tired and had a headache.
Is it because of my week off or something else?
and if it's because of my week off is there anyway I can get back into my routine?

keep dancing and eventually you'll get used to it again :) also drink water and stay hydrated!! Hope I Helped!! Love Always, Anna

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my boyfriend and i have only been going out for a couple of days and he's ready to move on, i want to break up with him real bad but he tells me and everyone else he loves me....i dont want to hurt his feelings but im not ready to do anything with him...

Well if the only reason that you want to break up with him is because he doesn't want to do anything with you i think that you should tell him how you feel. if he's a good boyfriend then he shouldn't do anything that you aren't comfortable with. if you are gonna break up with him tell him how you feel and hopefully everyting will go good. Just let him go nicely and try not to be mean and help him understand why. Hope I Helped! Love Always, Anna

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14/m ive been going out with my gf for about 3 weeks now. i love her so much but we barely ever get to see each other since we go to dif schools. weve had wut u could call "intimate relationships" during the last few times we've been together haha. i like her a lot but with summer coming up & everything i dont know if i really wanna be held back from doing stuff with other girls because i am going out with someone that i see only about once a week. wut do u guys think i should i do?

your stupid...why would you ever play a girl like that?!?!? of course if your all like " i think i might break up with her because she's holding me back from doing stuff w/ other girls " i don't know who would want to be your girlfriend....well...w/e. Hope I Helped, Love Always, Anna!

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i'm 13/f and i'm thinking about getting contacts.

i'm a little freeked out about putting them in though. does anyone know any goos tips for putting in contact lenses?

~thanks

don't worry about them. i got contacts in 4th grade. They don't hurt at all. Just put solution on the contact, put it on ur index finger, hold you eye open with one hand, and then put the contact in. don't blink for a few sec. so you can make sure its on your eye. its really easy, and once you get the hang of it ... you probably won't even hafta do all that. you'll love them...trust me. Hope i Helped! Love Always, Anna

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Hey anna. I like this guy. But i dont. Ya know because like sometimes i dont because he is kinda cocky but he is hott and nice to me. But i dont really know what to do. Should I like this boy or not? I need help anna... help!

well gosh if he's hott AND nice what more can you ask for?? GO FOR IT!!! so what if he's kinda cocky sometimes! if you like him ... why not?? Hope I helped!! Love Always, Anna

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My guy friend and his girlfriend broke up, and he still likes her alot. She likes him still too but she doesnt want to get hurt and they will be going to different schools. My guy friend asked me to help him get through this because I'm the only one he can trust. I want to help him in any way I can because I want to be close with him. What should I say to him to make him feel better? Thank you so much!

Comfort him, tell him that it's okay and that you'll probably just get hurt in the long run when she does go to a different school. and he probably also doesn't want to hurt her. tell him that they could still be awesome friends but a steady relationship probably work out. there's gonna be all new people...maybe he'll find someone better. overall just be there for him and comfort him...when you know that someone's there for you...it always makes them feel better! Hope I helped!! Love Always, Anna!

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My boyfriend & I broke up over a month ago. We haven't talked alot and he has moved on already with a new girlfriend. I've still been trying to get myself back together over the breakup and I have started flirting with guys & getting back in the game. I'm just still hung up on my ex and it feels horrible to know he moved on so quickly. How am I supposed to let him go and finally be able to let myself be happy with my life? He was the only serious boyfriend I had & we were together over a year. I really need to move on.

Its very hard to get over someone...especially if you really loved them and if it was serious...in a not crush kinda way. It also hurts when ever they move on. Try to tell your self that he's not worth it if he did that to you. Find someone and give them a chance...maybe it'll get your mind off things. Maybe in time he'll realize that he should of never broken up with you. Hope I helped!! Love Always, Anna!!

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Hey, me and this girl were starting to talk one day, and shes kinda hott and shes complaing that no one will ask her out but like shes more higer on the popularity thing, and people r also saying that if i go out with her i will become more cool. we are kinda good friends, and every time were aroung eachother we like smile and stuff... so i was wondering if it would be to aukward.

I rate high!

1st of all ... never ever go out with someone just because they're good looking or popular. If thats the only reason then you probably shouldn't go out with her. But if you like her personality too, then I don't see why you shouldn't.

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Sometimes I feel like the guys our age are so immature. I can honestly say I'm not the prettiest girl in my school, but is that really all that counts nowadays? Some of the girls that the guys I know go out with are dimwits who can't tell the difference between 1 and 2 and still the guys fall for them because they have looks. Sometimes I feel like working for the grades just aren't worth it even though I know they are. What do you think?

omg i hate that. guys in my school are soo immature to. guess what a girl hasta do is just deal with it. well back on subject. those people that like you for your looks are just crush worthy...maybe not even that. you hafta find someone that will like you for you. such as this guy who goes to my school. he is the sweetest person i know and he likes people for who they are not what they look like. just be yourself and don't try to be something your not or in the end it won't work out. Hope I Helped! Love Always, Anna!

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My mom and I have been fighting for two weeks about this. Ive been a competative cheerleader for 5 years but Im sick of it now! She wants me to try-out for my middle school team but I dont want to, we've tried talkin it out, but It always ends up in fighting. She listen to me when i say its my choice not to cheer anymore and I seriously dont like it! Whut should I do?

I hate when parents push you into doing things you don't want to do. But, they just want to see you do your best. You could become really good if you continue. I'm a middle school competative cheerleader and it's soo much fun to go out there and do your stuff. But if you really don't want to do it try to sit down and talk to her with out you two going at each other's throats. Tell her how you feel about the situation and hopefully everything will work out. Hope I helped! Love Always, Anna!!

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I have some good friends who are younder than me. We will call them A, B, and C. Then there are these two guys who we met a couple of months ago, we will call them D and E. D has never lied to me. E seems like an ok guy. D & E used to drink, do drugs, smoke, and skip school, now they dont. People have told me bad things about D& E. They have a bad rep. Friends A B & C are very jealous of the relationships between us and D&E. We have caught A B and C lying before. I dont know who to believe. A B and C, who I have been friends with for a couple of years, or should I believe D who hasn't every lied to me.(And been caught).

Thanks guys,
Nokomis

Well this is tricky because like you said they did drugs and stuff like that before. When people do stuff like that, its most not likely they're gonna stop. They might not nesessarly seem or be entirley bad people but they will always have that drugs and smoking and skipping school in them. Remember that "A,B,and C" where your friends that have been true to you for a longer time.... even though they might just be jealous...it might be a good idea to not get too much involved with the other people. Hope I helped Love Always, Anna

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There's this girl and she seems like she hates me. I seriously am not like some losers that try to be funny but sometimes when i just say something she goes "Aw you ruined the moment". Then random times during class she looks at me and Goes like "bitch" or she'll say "mother f***ker" Sometimes she laughs at me and says I'm real funny. It's weird but I kinda like her because I know that when she curses at me shes joking, but it doesn't seem like she does this to anyone else. Another thing, she's a violent girl and one day she asked me "do you think i would ever lay a hand on you" I said "Yes" then she said "Naw of course not" What's with her???

Well what I think is that she likes you. Why else would she do this to you and no one else? She probably just doesn't know how to confront you about it. Maybe you should take her aside one day when she's in her "normal" mood and ask her out or tell her taht you like her. Hope I helped!! Love Always, Anna

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