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Me and my bf have been going out 4 three months he just found out something bad about a family member and its been making him really angry. I understand how he feels but he takes all of his anger out on me! Last nite he was being such a jerk we almost broke up he tells me he loves me all the time but idk if its true. im only 14 but how can i talk to him without bringing up anything thats going to hurt him?
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i would try to get him to not think about what happen like when ur out with him mack sure he is not thinking abour ityou should try to like help him through it i WOOULDNT break up with him because im sure he really does love you and that would make things harder for him hope i helped
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hmm....instead of talking with words, try to do something special for him ^-^ get him a nice card or something expressing how much you love him. It's good that you undestand how he feels, and it's wrong of him to take all his anger out on you, but hey..that's how people are. so just try that. hope i helped!
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People get angry, or depressed... it happens. They push other people away... and that's just how it is in our society. You could try to talk to him about it, or just ignore it.. he probably doesn't mean most of the things he says. It's obvious he's going through a rough time right now. And even though he's being a jerk, you're his girlfriend, and you should support him.
With that in mind, I'd just talk to him about it. Tell him to stop being so mean, and that you're always there for him. It's best to be gentle, and nice in these situations. If he truly cares for you, he'll try to calm down, and be happy!
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Bad things happen to all of us during ourlives. That is life, there is not way to stop it, but it is NOT OK to take it out on the people we are close to, and supposed to be in love with. But it happens all the time dear. If you don't like it,and I don't blame you, then get out. If this is how he acts now, and you are only 14, what is life with him going to be like when you are adults and have real problems or your own problems to deal with. It is not OK to act that way. I know you don't want to be alone, but do you want to be beaten up all the time, for stuff that you did not do and have no control over. You'll wish you were alone when life turns out like that. Find a nice kid, who knows the deal. Life happens. Fix what you can, and forget what you cannot.
Michele
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try to talk to things that make him happy. tell him how much you love him etc. try to cheer him up and just think happy. you never know...maybe what he needs is someone to just be there and tlk to about his problems. reassure him that everything will be okay. Hope I helped! Love Always, Anna <33
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First of all you have to tell him how you feel about him taking it out on you. Have you noticed that people tend to treat strangers better than those they love? I think its because they know those that love them won't desert them even if they are rude. That doesn't make it right...but that's how it goes a lot of the time. So, if he says he loves you believe it. Just let him talk to you about his problems, but let him know that you don't want it taken out on you. Hopefully it will all blow over pretty soon.
You talk to him as you always have. I don't think you can say anything to hurt him. If so then let him talk it out. :)
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tell him like it is! 14 is still young..
so just tell him that you dont like how he takes out all his anger on you. your not there for that!
tell him that its not cool for him to be like that to you.. and if he needs to let out anger - he needs to talk to the source of the problem.
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I think you should just try your best to understand his feelings. Everyone deals with things differently, and his way of doing it is yelling and getting mad. If you want to deal with this, then do not break up with him and talk to him, being sensitive. If you don't want to have to deal with his behavior, break up with him, using gentle words. Good luck!
~Alexa~
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i would leave him along hes having problems, i would ask him if he wants help or to be left allone he may just need time good luck hun! xXx
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I understand ur goin thru teen relation ships! its all okay just sit down and talk 2 him about his family....if that doesnt work just tell him that he needs 2 calm down and stop taking his anger out on u and needs 2 start bein the bf he used 2 b!
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I know how you feel. I am going through the same thing with my boyfriend. Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you get scared or hurt when he takes his bad moods and anger out on you. Just be honest. If he is a jerk about it or you get hurt, which i hope you dont, then you deserve so much better. Hope it works out for you!
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talk to him and tell him how you feel it will really help and makes your realationship stronger age shouldnt matter if he really loves you then he will undastand
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