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want to move on already
My boyfriend & I broke up over a month ago. We haven't talked alot and he has moved on already with a new girlfriend. I've still been trying to get myself back together over the breakup and I have started flirting with guys & getting back in the game. I'm just still hung up on my ex and it feels horrible to know he moved on so quickly. How am I supposed to let him go and finally be able to let myself be happy with my life? He was the only serious boyfriend I had & we were together over a year. I really need to move on.
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You just haven't found anyone to get you over it yet... best advice hang out with your girlfriends more and try and get involved in other things. Some people move on in a week some in a year, if he's the week kind and your the year kind, it can seem crazy frusterating and depressing, but it's not because he didn't care about you, it's that he either found someone, or couldn't stand being a lone, think of it this way, most likely he's just on the rebound from you and this new girl probably won't last, nor mean as much. It's ok to feel bad, you just need to keep doing what your doing, try to move on and re adjust to being single, that is why friends are a must... Learn to have fun on your own again... enjoy having no commitment for awhile!
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I've had the same problem before but just think about it. He's not worth it if he doesn't even give you another chance or talk to you anymore. If he moved on that quickly and forgot about you so fast it's really not worth it. You will be much happier with a guy who will be there for you always and when you break up he won't automatically forget about you and move on the the next girl. I hope that makes since and i hope i helped!
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Its very hard to get over someone...especially if you really loved them and if it was serious...in a not crush kinda way. It also hurts when ever they move on. Try to tell your self that he's not worth it if he did that to you. Find someone and give them a chance...maybe it'll get your mind off things. Maybe in time he'll realize that he should of never broken up with you. Hope I helped!! Love Always, Anna!!
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you have to relize he's not as great as guy as you thought he was. it'll be tough, but you have to pull through. just try to spend a lot of time with your friends to keep your mind off him, and to have a good time. and dont be afraid to gloat. :) lol. what i mean is, dont be afraid to do the same thing hes doing. show off in front of him to prove you can have a good time without him. keep looking for a new guy, and you'll find one, dont worry. hope this makes you feel better!♥
MiiCHELLE..*
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Moving on is a really tough process. It seems like your doing everything right. You flirting again and everything. I think you are starting to get over him, your just not fully there yet. I think you are well on your way. I think that maybe you should ask a guy that you like out and try to maybe step things up. This could help. I am sorry to hear that he moved on so quickly, however, just to tell you, he isnt being fair to him new girlfriend since he went out with her so soon because there is almost no way that he is completely over you. So, it prolly wont work with then cause he did that! Haha, just thought that might help to hear that. Hope things get better. Just get back out there. Best Of Luck!
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