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Hey I Just Wanted To Let You Know That I Like The Way You Answer Peoples Questions Especially The One Guy Where His Wife Was Cheating Just Thought I Would Let You Know
thanks :). i didn't think people really read things like this . if anything im here ok ?
my girlfriend recently hiding her moblie phone every were 1 night she texted me saying staying out 2 night back in the moring at 3:15 in the moring she came back she never did drink but now she is out all the time so i ask if she was having afair she said no so i left it then i got the chance to look on her phone and find 2 text message 1 was sent saying sunbed are bad soft rocking of the bed is better the ofter one was in her inbox say so horny r u me ok i`ll wank over you laterxxxxxx so again i ask her she told me to get out after 4 year and a lot of history there is a five years old child in this relationship who i brought up at if she was my own then on the day i got my stuff i was hoping she would think about us but instead she went out drinking agian meet an old friend now this old freind and herself relationship is moving quicker then she expeted do you think i still have a chance?
to start off i'm sorry about you and your wife. If you were to have a chance back with her i don't think it should be worth it because you and her wasn't no cute little something it was SERIOUS and that was disrespectful because if she had someone good at home than why look around?? that's how you know peoples are never satisfied. I mean no one is perfect and it's true people deserve a second chance but I also believe you should put yourself first because if you don't then no one else will. You know the world makes thousand and thousands of turns and sooner or later she'll be around then your question would be should i take her back or not? So yea i do believe you have a chance not soon because she's not going to give in quick but you'll have your turn good luck if anything fill me in
Heres the sitch...im a 16yr male senior at my high school, and ive been BEST friends with this girl since sophmore year...problem is, ive fallen for her...hard. i cant get her out of my head, i get jealous of any other guys she talks to or who like her, and im really protective of her...but she doest like me when i like her, she said she had a crush on me back when i had a gf soph year, but now she doesnt like ANYONE. what should i do? ive liked her for two years, but she says it would be wierd to date bcuz weve been friends for so long...
Hey .. I was reading your article and it seems pretty interesting u're in a tough position.. i mean i think you should tell her and maybe ask her in a flirty just kiddin way something like "oh is that offer still open the 1 back in soph yr. I mean whats the worst she can say? no!. if so, then you already know whats up and second there's other fishies out in the sea maybe later on in life you'll see that things weren't worth it i mean you have heard the phrase its easy to turn friends into lovers but its harder to change lovers back into friends. I think you should risk and ask or take her on a date because then if not you'll look back and be like "what if?" u get me ? well good luck !
Does anyone know of any movies with dancing in them?
Apart from musicals, I think I've watched enough musicals to last me a life time.
It doesn't matter what type of dancing it is I just need dancing in it.
Well there's Dance with me with chayanne and vanessa williams. There's Dirty Dancing (awesome). Save the last dance. whoa girl too many
My Boyfriend and I broke up a couple of days ago and i still cant stop crying. Any tips on getting the pain to go away??
Well to begin you shouldn't be crying because it just makes it worst for you. Look, do you seem him letting a tear out for you? or is he playing it cool? If he's acting too cool then just forget it others will come. When one door closes others open we're just too stuburn to notice the new one. If i were you i would avoid staying home and i wouldnt think about it much because then it makes you start again at point 1. Good luck girl if ya dont get back then it wasnt meant to me something wayyy better will come (it always does) :) good luck
OK yeah well im 15 and a female, yesterday my b/f n i got caught by his mom...we weren't really having sex yet but our pants were off..and we were jsut kinda messing around..and then his mom walks in and then she jsut walked in to his room and called him then like 10 seconds later his little sister(13) comes in to the room n tells me i have to leave the whole way home i cried i was so nervos/scared now i really think they hate me (his mom n sister) and his sister n i were freinds b4 yesterday and yeah i know i should applogize but i really don't know what to say...any advice at all would be helpfull...please
well thats really embarassin i dont really know what to tell you. I just hope im never in that position but uhh go sit your b/f nad his mom and sis down its gona be very embarassing and just tell them you're very sorry . Tell the mom you're sorry for disrespecting her house like that and that it'll be the first and last time. His mom has to understand that things happen if she doesnt forgive you then just let time pass by eventually she'll let it go. She should atlest be glad that her son isnt gay and as for your boyfriend he should try to help you out too because remember it takes 2 so he should have his side of apology . well, good luck :)
I really appreciate anyone who decides to read this and help me, I don't really have anyone to talk to about this.
I've been in a relationship, on and off with a boy for two years now - I'm just about to turn 18, while he's just about to turn twenty. For most of our being together our relationship has been really unstable, him always unsure if he wanted to be with me. I look back at myself and wonder why I spent so many nights worrying and letting myself become so attached.
We had what was supposed to be our 'final breakup' right around New Year's eve. I was hurt, and we were split for a little over a month, and started talking again. Not too long after, we started actually becoming connected in all of the ways we hadn't been before. To be honest, right now I'd have to say that he's probably my best friend, and we share everything with eachother. This is probably the best our relationship has ever been, and I should be loving every minute of it.
The problem? While we were split, I got to know a friend of his, *Jeffery, really well. This is someone who has betrayed my boyfriend in the past, there are shaky feelings between them although they still see eachother occasionally. I got to know Jefferey better and better and really began to like him, and him me. I stopped talking to him for the most part because I was afraid that it would hurt my boyfriend, although we were not together at the time. After a short time I thought that I made a mistake, but by then me and my (then ex-)boyfriend had started to talk again. My boyfriend and I have been together since.
Lately, me and Jefferey have been seeing a lot of eachother through mutual friends. We still have feelings for eachother, and it has been driving me crazy. While things are going really well in my relationship with my boyfriend, I feel like I will always have this question in the back of my mind, "what if". Recently me and Jeffery were hanging out together, and he tried to kiss me. I didn't let him, and told him we shouldn't hang out anymore unless I break it off with my boyfriend. I feel like this was a horrible mistake, but I feel very insecure about breaking things off with my boyfriend, who has been so great to me during all of this. We have no secrets from eachother, and I did not cheat on him. I think that Jeffery might have 'given up' on trying to be with me, and I feel a little defeated and negative about myself. I feel like I should have been more decisive, but I don't know what to think. I wish I had gotten to know Jeffery more while I was single.
Thanks to anyone who read this long thing, and thanks doubly to anyone who offers advice. My mind is a mess over this.
My advice to you is that everyone goes through there confusing period of time. But if you and your boyfriend are doing well now and its what you been wanting for a while why would you throw that away? Just stay how you are . Jeffrey was maybe just a temptation to see if you really liked your boyfriend but if you wouldve liked Jeffrey more than you would've kissed him when you had the chance no matter what the circumstances were. If Jeffrey betrayed his friend knowin a frienship is very sacred then what makes you think he wont do it to you? these are all questions that bring drama and i think you're stabled with your boyfriend so dont cause drama if theres no need to.. you know what they say "if it aint broke, dont fix it" :) good luck !
I wasn't sure what category to put this under by recently my girlfriend / best friend and I just lost our virginity to each other. It was amazing. But then the next night, I get a phone call from her brother saying to go the hospital because my girlfriend's just been raped...by her father. I didn't know what to do, so i just froze and went after her father. I beat the crap out of him and broke my hand. I know that wasn't smart but what he did to her was less smart. He's been abusing her since about the age of 4, I was one of the few people who knew this. She didn't want ANYONE telling the police because her father threatened her. And she didn't want to run away and leave her little sister with her father for fear he might hurt her too.
Well anyway, back on topic, her father went to jail and everyone testified against him. So he'll be in there for a LONG time. My problem is, my girlfriend is still in shock over this. We tried to have sex a few weeks later but she was so scared and still thinks about the rape. I'm not frustrated about the no-sex part AT ALL believe me. But what I'm wondering is if there's anything I can do for her to make her get over this. I want her to be happy again. I love her with all my heart and hate seeing her like this.
Any girls who have been raped, you could probably help me most on this. How did you get over it? Thanks SO much!
My advice to you is that 4rm the way u were just one of the few she trusted with such a serious thing takes alot but all i can tell u is that confort her and if she's in need of something just give it to her all ways be on her bout things and about you and the no sex you're just going to have to start from base one only this time there's going to be alot of challenges but now in days there's alot of therapy and counseling for those type of things and those work too but it's all up to you and her !im only here to give advice you just take it or leave it! good luck :)
Okay, there's this girl who is supposed to be my friend. Well, let's say she doesn't act like it. She calls me "idiot", "fool", and a bunch of other names. She's also (according to the guy I used to like) asked the guy I liked out, and I trust the guy I liked because I've known him for a while. She knew that I liked him. She also tries to make me look stupid and bad, because we're on the same sports team, and she'll throw the ball in a weird way and I can't catch it, then she'll say "What an idiot!" or something like that. I'm sick of it. Should I just stop being friends with her, and if so, how?
Thank you so much in advance. I'm sorry it's so long.
first of all that aint a FRIEND.. so dont call her that ! also defend yourself throw the ball back the way she does to you make her look like an idiot!! Dont get mad get even !! :) good luck i gotchu girl ! :)
okay well in exactly a week im getting a mole reoved form my cheek adn im so anxious to get it done like i cant think of anything else to do... anybody haev any ideas how to take my mind off of it for a little bit? thank you!!
Just think everything thats worth it is worth waiting for i mean you're never going to see that scary thing anymore so just wait and don't look in the mirror!!! This one time my aunt had one and girl WHAT A RELIEF !! After getting that removed everything is going to start going uphill :) good luck !
Four years ago I dated a really cool guy, he was all over me calling and going out for 4 months, then he just didn't show up for dinner one nite and we only spoke once briefly after that, he said he didn't need anyone worried about him. (He's a serious workaholic) but over the years i've run into him at a couple parties of mutual friends and just two weeks ago we ended up hanging out and i've been seeing him again since last, last sunday. He's being a doll and has picked up right where we left off! I'm pretty sure that, that is just his style - dates for 4-6 months then it's adios. I'm having fun, but trying to keep a step back, because it's inevitable that the same thing is going to happen. Do I just have fun for however long it lasts?
Well then if you really like him than take advantage and keep datin him and ALWAYS keep your step back because if he disappears then im more than positive he has someone on the side so dont get left behind :)enjoy it while it lasts ! good luck :)
I cheered competativly for 5 years, I don't like cheerleading anymore so I refused to tryout for my middle school squad. My mom and I battled for 2 weeks about this, but I won and its to late now to turn in the forms. Now no one will talk to me in my family, and if they do its some sarcastic or mean remark to make me feel stupid. Sorry for the length but i need help, i dread goin home after school everyday now!! Plz help, I'll rate high :)
My advice to you is that it sucks to live in that family but there's other ways to go around it or solve it than to get insulted. I mean its too late to turn in your form so your pretty stuck besides cheerleading isnt everything in this life first comes your education and if they're more into that sport than your education than they're not really raising you well. Basically its YOUR decision not anyone elses. Good luck ! :)
13/f well i just found out the other night that my boyfriend (also 13) had sex a couple months ago at a party with a girl thats 15. we wernt together then but we were a couple months before that. i really love him and i know that i always will because we have such a good friendship but should i except this? so far i convinced myself that im okay with it but im not sure if i really am. i think that since hes already done it then hell try to pressure me into having sex. well what i want to know is should i except it and how?
4rm: LiL aLex
Honestly is not what you expect the first time is not what you expect. Since he's already experienced then yea most likely he's going to pressure you into doin it but if you honestly feel like you dont want to do it then DONT. And if he keeps pressuring than he doesnt really care about you. good luck !
im a very good catholic. i really feel bad if i do so much as say oh my god. anyway. i have been sort of mastribating lately. when i get horny sometimes i use a fake penis to 'have sex'. is this sinning because i wanna know if i should stop doing this. please please please help
I guesss you're not a "very good catholic" because for one a committed catholic doesn't have sexual thoughts because that right there is plainly a sin. Wassup w the fake penis? no thats very bad and yes you should stop doin it !! good luck !!
hey.. well i know this is really stupid but.. i went out with a guy for like four or five months.. we broke up a couple months ago because supposedly he cheated but he denys it and i still like him a lot.. i hear about him with other girls and my trust for him is out the door.. i try not to care and to move on but it's hard.. i don't know what to do.. not too long ago i asked him to hang out with me as friends and he said he didn't know and he ended up not hanging out with me but he ended up hanging out with some other girls.. what the heck do i do? any suggestions?
My best advice would be is too start talking to someone else because if you know he cheated on you and he's not man enough to admit it then let it go u first have to respect yourself and put yourself first before other. Besides in order to get out of a heart break
ok ... so my mom said that if i loose 10 pounds shed give me 100 dollers!! the problem is..i dont know how.. i cant exercise regularly cause i never have time im always doing soemthing and i cant really eat special things cause one weekend im with my dad and one day during the week i am with him...i dont kno what to do i need HELP! what could i do to loose weight??????????? thank you sooo so much! OxoxO
Well i loose weight by goin on an all water and fruit diet. Take a water bottle when you go out refill it and have a fruit for breakfast and lunch.. and half or what you eat for dinner :) also work out u can do sit ups bout 35 every OTHER day.. thats how i lose weight like krazzie ;) good luck !
my mom said i cant have a sweet 16 party with my friends bc my sisters didnt get one..do u think this is fair or no?
nO. i dont think thats fair but maybe thats just another way to tell you she doesnt have money remember parties are nothin cheap. But why a party when you can have a getty or go out with your friends and have fun. Remember if plan A doesnt work should always be a back up :)
Hey there. I started dating my best friend a while ago, you just moved here from Toronto, and he doesn't tell me a whole lot about his life back then. Anyways, we started having sex a couple of monthes ago. I'm on birth control so we don't use condoms, because we both hate them. Anyways, in october i got two infections, and was really sick for a week. I couldn't get out of bed, and i was in pain. I had an yeast infection and urinary tract infection. I went to my doctor, she gave me a lot of medicine. whatever, i got better, continued on with our way of things. Anyways, now in december, i seem to have another infection. I'm thinking it might be yeast infection but i don't know. It's different. He says he hasn't had sex before me, but with all these infection that i get, could he have, or could it be my birth control?
well im glad that it wasnt an STD or nething nasty .. take care !
Hi, I'm 15 and I am a Freshman. My ex-boyfriend dumped me 12-07-04 last year. (Cheating.) Now we are back together and started dating 5-06-05. I was going to the Turkey Festival with his good friend and I asked him to come along since we were friends. He came. I was really happy. We became closer and ended up going out, but I'm not sure if I should be dating him again.
He is in none of my classes at school, but I see him in the hallways. We hold hands and stuff as we walk down the hall.
I wrote him a note and gave it to him in the morning and he still hasn't wrote me back yet. I asked him if he did and he said no. But I can tell he cares for me; he said it himself.
Now I am nervous. I really want it to work out this time. I have trouble talking to him still. I am really shy. Oh yeah... he doesn't have a phone so I can't call him. I feel like something bad might happen again, but the main problem is that I am so shy.
Can someone please give me advice on how to open up to him and tell him what I feel? He doesn't seem like a big notewriter... and how will I be able to keep this relationship going when school is over?
Thanks so much for the advice!
I started datin my ex boyfriend again we had gone out for 1yr nd 4mon. we broke up my freshmen year now im a junior and we got back Let me tell you i dont regret gettin back with him. when u enter into a relationship it becomes a TEAM and there's no I in TEAM.. so we BOTH need to know what goes on with eachother.. so my advice to you is that if you want to last with him and let everything work just be HONEST nd CLEAR with him everything you feel like from your doubts to your happy times with him and let him know you expect his pure honesty back good luck i hope you 2 make it work!
When i was seven years old my mom [lets call her tina] and her friend [lets call her jenn]went away and i was left with *jenns daughter shauna at *jenns sisters house [lets call her jamie] well *jamie has a son john who was 14 at the time. Shauna was asleep and john had his friend jeff over, also 15. john made me do it with him and go to third with him and he said if i didnt then he would kill me.. is this rape? i am asking this years later because it still bothers me=/
yes this is rape. I mean common you were only 7 and he was what?.. 15 by that time he had already gone through puberty. You should let your mom know anytime is a good time and it will make you feel so much better and as for that kid he's nasty!! how can he even look at a 7 yr old little girl in a sexual way. Mama this is always going to bother you because that was something you didnt want to do and you werent fully grown yet. im sorry that happened to you but good luck !