When i was seven years old my mom [lets call her tina] and her friend [lets call her jenn]went away and i was left with *jenns daughter shauna at *jenns sisters house [lets call her jamie] well *jamie has a son john who was 14 at the time. Shauna was asleep and john had his friend jeff over, also 15. john made me do it with him and go to third with him and he said if i didnt then he would kill me.. is this rape? i am asking this years later because it still bothers me=/
Blonde2005 answered Friday May 13 2005, 9:06 pm: Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Because, you said he forced you and you also said he threatened to kill you. I mean that's a crime. If it still bothers you may want to tell someome you trust about it!!!!!!!!!
K2204 answered Tuesday May 10 2005, 9:36 pm: yes, it is. you should tell your mother, and also, you should tell the police, and possibly go to councling. also, pray.
if you need anything else,please ask, and if you need anything like how to tell a guy about it, i;ll always be here for you! and i can help if you need a councler type or something!
AshleyZ416 answered Tuesday May 10 2005, 8:38 pm: Not trying to be mean but um you should no that answer. Yes it was rape. But really it only was if you said NO if you said no thats rape. You should of let someone none cause now its alittle late to do much of anything. You should still tell someone though!!
confusedgrl answered Tuesday May 10 2005, 8:00 pm: yes it is rape. you should definitly tell somebody because when i was 9 i was raped by a 17 year old and i didn't tell anyone now it's haunting me and i have a very dark soul
CaNtToUcHtHiS answered Tuesday May 10 2005, 5:55 pm: yes, that is rape. you were forced to do it, and he was older than you. yah might wanna tell ur mom...but i dont think there's much anyone can do because its too late.
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SmoOcHeS answered Tuesday May 10 2005, 2:47 pm: yes this is rape. I mean common you were only 7 and he was what?.. 15 by that time he had already gone through puberty. You should let your mom know anytime is a good time and it will make you feel so much better and as for that kid he's nasty!! how can he even look at a 7 yr old little girl in a sexual way. Mama this is always going to bother you because that was something you didnt want to do and you werent fully grown yet. im sorry that happened to you but good luck ! [ SmoOcHeS's advice column | Ask SmoOcHeS A Question ]
Devin answered Tuesday May 10 2005, 1:13 am: What you've described absolutely is rape. You were seven years old and your assailant was fifteen. I consider that child molestation. I urge you to find a therapist with whom you feel comfortable and work through some of this. At the very least, find a support group. It's perfectly normal that this is still bothering you years later and, unfortunately, it may continue hurting for a while. Just know that you've taken the first step towards moving on by asking for help here. [ Devin's advice column | Ask Devin A Question ]
Stephagy answered Tuesday May 10 2005, 12:07 am: ABSOLUTLEY!!! OMIGOSH THAT IS SOOOOO RAPE! Maybe you should get therapy and go to spas and beaches to relax yourself. Relaxing is always a great way to revive yourself, or forget about things. tell me how it goes ok. eiriyukipicese@yahoo.com
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