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break up
My Boyfriend and I broke up a couple of days ago and i still cant stop crying. Any tips on getting the pain to go away??
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think about something else or do something that would get your mind off of him...
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Try not to think about him, I know it's going to be really hard but it's for your own good. He's not worth it so don't cry.
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Illinois, 13(almost 14)
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its hard when you just broke up. you can talk to your freinds about him or even your mom{if you want}. hes stupid for dumping you in the first palce beacuse i'm sure your a nice girl. you were to good for him and you will bounce back.
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Don't cry..it's not worth it. All it's going to do is make you feel worse. Just hang out with your friends. Do fun stuff! It should take your mind off of him. You do have every right to be sad, but just dont stay sad for a long time. hope i helped!
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You shouldn't be afraid to love again... while breaking up is hard to do... it's eather to make you stronger or break you apart. God has one specific person for you.. this guy could be it but you have to pray about it. If you aren't saved though, the only prayer he'll here is for salvation. Just rememeber, there's someone out there just for you.. God has someone for everyone who wants to be married.. he does not give you a desire to get married w/o a person to marry. He wouldn't and never does that.. Just pray and trust God.
Hope it works out
God Bless
~Aeromonkey~
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Well to begin you shouldn't be crying because it just makes it worst for you. Look, do you seem him letting a tear out for you? or is he playing it cool? If he's acting too cool then just forget it others will come. When one door closes others open we're just too stuburn to notice the new one. If i were you i would avoid staying home and i wouldnt think about it much because then it makes you start again at point 1. Good luck girl if ya dont get back then it wasnt meant to me something wayyy better will come (it always does) :) good luck
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Keep crying until the tears are gone. By then you'll be able to think again. Go out with friends and do things that would normally make you happy, but remember you were crying because you greived for the end of a relationship. There is nothing wrong with that. It is a healthy means of dealing with pain. Allow yourself time for pity and tears, then go on with your life. Without that time of adjustment you will just get obsessed over the past. Give yourself some time even when you start normal activities again. You'll heal, but it takes time. Luck and love!
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Just get out with your friends and do stuff together it will make you feel so much better.
Just dont think about it. And remember if you want to cry your friends can help be there for you.
luv roxie
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awww bless hun! go out with ya mates have a great time flirt with all the fit guys ;) laugh about all the bad points he had! just think how great it is to be single and how u missed out on so much!
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aw im so sorry sweety. i know exactly what your going through cuz i just went through that yesterday i know its hard too. just try to be with your friends alot i know theyll cheer you up or go party it always helps me bring my mind off him! hope i helped sweety! <3
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hi there i am sorry for your sad news i would help if you knew why you broke up in the first place.
don't rebound date its bad for you. i know this is saying alot, since you don't know me give it time,time is of essence, some people say
time is the best healer for the sore hearted
give it time, and i know that it isnt easy
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remember this saying -- friends are forever boys are whatever when worst come to worst my girls come first!! Its a boy act like you never went out with him,im sorry i know its hard but you have to move on,hang out w/ your friends!!
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i know its hard ive been thru the same thing but boys arent everything thats what all my good friend said try to be his friend its really comforting.
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Idk just try not to rebound cause it will make him jealous but you'll think of him more. Go do things with girls like movies,mall,concerts. Maybe try to avoid guys for a few weeks or months till you feel ready to move on. Believe me it will come to you when your ready. Ive been through a hard time after a 2 year relationship then finding I was cheated on the last 5 months of it killed me and will im finally after 2 1/2 years kinda dating someone. Now you wont take that long but im just trying to say give it time and it will surely come to you. Need anything IM me my s/n's are on my colum page. Hope you cheer up and things get better for you.
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Hmm... well, the BEST way to get over someone, if you ask me, is to find someone NEW! So I say try just getting out with some friends.. go have a good time, because you deserve one! Hit the mall, the arcade... make yourself approachable to men, and don't be afraid to make the first move up to them!! If that's TRULY NOT an option, try listening to some upbeat music, such as Christina Aguilera's 'Fighter', or Destiny's Child's 'Independent Woman'... just keep your head held high and keep on truckin.. there's better men out there, and you're on the prowl!!!
Hope this helps!
Hannah!
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