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Who would you choose?
guy #1: we've been good friends since the begining of this school year. everyone says we like each other and for a while i just denied it. he's funny and has amazing eyes. i can be myself around him so i'm pretty comfortable around him. he's always been there for me and he's really nice. he looks out for me. i like flirting with him more than guy #2. we're a lot alike. we like working out together at the gym. he's so funny. all my other ex boyfriends thought i liked him instead of them. my parents like him, my parents know his family and like them. if i do break up with my bf because of this guy, it won't be gauranteed that we'll be going out... i think hes a little scared to ask me out. this other guy said that this guy would go out with me if i asked him out but who knows if he was telling the truth. so many people say he likes me though! and when we were dancing he pulled me in reallllly close.
guy #2: we've started dated a few days ago. this is guy #1's friend. we've only liked each other for a week or two. i don't know him as well as guy #1 and i'm not THAT comfortable around him. but he is funny but not as cute as guy #1 and he's shorter than me. he's pretty nice. i used to like him more when we were NOT going out but now were going out and i don't like him as much. he's really sweet though and smart. my mom thinks he's really nice and he is. he's open and not afraid to ask me if we're 'going too fast' or anything, i like that.
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My sister had this same problem. She really liked this guy, and then they finally ended up going out. well now, she says she doesn't like him as much as she used to when they were just crushing. She said she could just talk to him more and be more open and talkative around him when they were friends. She dumped him.
I'd say that you should go with Guy #1. He seems a lot more special to you than guy #2.
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Well, ask yourself this, who do you feel more comfortable around, who do you see yourself with, who's more open with you, which one makes you feel like wow after you see them or talk to them. Me I want to be comfortable around my boyfriend, able to talk openly with him. I want someone who makes me laugh and smile. Now I think maybe Guy #1 because you seem more open and comfortable around him, I mean you don't want to be on a date and hardly say two words to each other. But just follow your heart and you and Guy #1 sound like you would make a good couple.
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id like guy #1.You seem like you like him and no him more than any other :) your so beautiful and lucky hun!! but remember...since guy #2 it guy #1's friend they could get mad @ each other...make it so your still friends with guy #2!! i hope i helped!
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Wow lucky! You have two amazing guys that really care for you! But you're unhappy and if your current boyfriend cares about you, maybe it's time to let go. If you want to try to maintain the relationship, spend some time apart to get your mind straighten out. Just remember not to feel bad for guy #2 if you do decide to go out with guy #1.
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Well first of all, if you currently have a boyfriend... it's obvious you're unhappy, otherwise you wouldn't have this attraction to anyone else... so maybe a split would be good? But if you have only been with him a few days, perhaps you should wait it out longer, and devote all of your time to him 100% right now... put guy #1 in the back of your mind for the time being... if it's mean to be.. it will be... but right now you have someone else to dedicate yourself to
Hope this helps?
Hannah
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