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sinning?


Question Posted Tuesday May 10 2005, 10:32 pm

im a very good catholic. i really feel bad if i do so much as say oh my god. anyway. i have been sort of mastribating lately. when i get horny sometimes i use a fake penis to 'have sex'. is this sinning because i wanna know if i should stop doing this. please please please help

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Pixiemagic14 answered Friday May 13 2005, 6:36 pm:
no it's not sinnig.whats wrong with reliving your sexual energy. masterbating is not eviel nor is it a sin.stop stressin about it.

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fall_to_pieces answered Friday May 13 2005, 12:01 pm:
well in your religion...yes that is sinning.

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godslittlegirl answered Friday May 13 2005, 12:12 am:
Well I think you need to not do that because sex is meant to be a pasionate thing between maried couples only I donot think it is a sin but I thing God would be disopointed hope this helps

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sweetpea318_247 answered Thursday May 12 2005, 8:47 pm:
bitch you must be crazy...masturbation is excellent...i mean shit...all the pleasure you could get from a guy...shit sumtimes its even better than being with a guy LMAO you know what feels good and you dont have to go about telling the guy what would get you to cum all you gotta do is do it to yourself..its feels great and an orgasm is the best thing in the world...better than knealing down before something that isnt there...(by the way im agnostic)...yea..its not a sin..."god" gave you fingers and dildos didnt he?!...he wouldnt have put it there if you werent supposed to use it!
much love,
~nichole~

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gakkuhideto answered Thursday May 12 2005, 8:36 pm:
It's not a sin at all. Saying "oh my God" isn't a sin either, but let's address the masturbation question. You shouldn't live so strictly and repress how you feel, or else it will become all bottled up inside of you and when you release it it will have negative consequences. Don't let the Church warp your mind into thinking that everything you do has to be bad, it is human nature to do things, as it says in the Catholic religion. You can stop if you wish, but masturbation is very normal and very healthy. Having an orgasm gives you more energy (always good), and it helps to relieve stress! It's also good to know your own body before you touch someone else's body, that way you are not too shocked. Besides, you can't get pregnant using a fake penis--how sweet is that?! Try to be less strict with yourself. As long as you are as good as you can be to other people, you can be faithful to both yourself and God. You can't love God unless you love yourself, and masturbation is a beautiful and natural expression of self love!

If you need anymore help just ask me by going to my column and clicking "ask questions".

-gakkuhideto

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R-unit answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:31 pm:
no its not sinning im a catholic to well male but i dont do that becasue im not gay ....lol
so no its not sinning God never said you couldnt do anything sexaul to urself or other people he just said that we shall not still ur neighbors wife or husband or belongings

hope i helped

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SmoOcHeS answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:21 pm:
I guesss you're not a "very good catholic" because for one a committed catholic doesn't have sexual thoughts because that right there is plainly a sin. Wassup w the fake penis? no thats very bad and yes you should stop doin it !! good luck !!

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PaRiS_SaYs answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:09 pm:
of course its not a sin....its totally normal!
_pAriS_

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IceQueen101109 answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:01 pm:
okay screw the bible mary isnt a virgin she had jesus didnt she, i'm sure she masturbated like every night waiting for sex. it's better to be safe and wait than to have sex with a real guy. dildo's do no harm, if god doesnt want you to be happy and pleasure urself then he has some issues of his own.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 6:04 pm:
No this isnt a sin..atleast far as i know.. its a natrual and healthy thing hun dont worry about it... much luv dez x0x0

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shake answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 5:15 pm:
God's an asshole. If he cant realise the impurities in every human and accept that in us, then why should we give him our 2 cents in bowing to him?

Its total bs. The only cool guy of the bunch is Jesus. God, hes like the guy on Roid Rage. Seriously.

God is all like 'yo go kill your son'. So the dude he told it to is totally up for it, and when hes about to kill his son god is like. 'Ahahaha you gullible bastard im just jerkin your gerkin'. So hes telling someone hes messing around with killing someone.

If the bible wasnt accpeted as a religion a while back, this book would be considered extremely sick. Now, of course bible bangers cant cope with this fact. They believe God is quite nice. However why wont Catholics focus more on God? I went to a Catholic school in my younger days---it sucked ass mind you--- and all those people focused on was Jesus. The good guy.

Sure, Jesus is cool and all. But you're talking about god.

He's totally Pissed off at everything. He's constantly pumped. Moses hits a rock in anger, he killes him. Noah doesnt make a boat,---however he did, but if he didnt he would have killed him too-- he floods them and kills them. ---however he did kill practialy all of the world with his great flood. Why? Because God is one great asshole.


Sure, you're goingi to endlessly say, You're going to hell. But, considering God treats us like hell, what good is it to be in heaven? One bad thing you're in hell anyways.

By the way. Im Agnostic. Not Atheist. So dont go screwing me over on that.

Im just sharing my opinion with you. I'd like to hear your feedback. It'll provide a great debate.

Also, i just made a phat rhyme.

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LoveNJstyle answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 3:46 pm:
well im catholic and honestly dont know the exact rules on it but its not technically sex. all i know is that catholics do it anyways...some lil 6th graders at a catholic school were caught jacking off in the bathroom (like AT school!) no ones ever said anything about it...they just say sex is to be saved for marriage. so dont worry about it, but you can pray to God to help you do the right thing. take care. <3

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K2204 answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 2:48 pm:
yes it is. pray for forgiveness. Sex is for after marrage. it was a gift that God gave us to share with another person, after we are married.

thanks for letting me help you!

*22kelsey04*

please leave feedback! :)

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Hopester003 answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 2:10 pm:
umm.... im catholic to and im not really sure if its a sin or not.. but we aren't supposed 2 have sex before marriage so... ya. if i were in your position then i would pray and ask God for help. im not a really really good catholic but i know that if it feels wrong then you should stop and think about what you are doing! i Hope it helps.
always there to help, Hope (lil Hil)

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mrs_radcliffe answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 12:22 pm:
In different faiths it might be seen as wrong. Catholics dont really agree with masterbating. If you feel bad just stop! take action and find other things to fill up your day.

luv roxie
XxX&hearts;XxX

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KELLAxOx answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:44 am:
In the bible is says that it is a sin, but we have to take to consideration that the bible has been writen 2000 years ago, I honestly beleive god will understand the need to pleasure yourself. I'm greek orthodox so I know they will say that masterbating is the devils work. But you know what now a days there is so much going on, and so much has changed that. But the sin part is you thinking while your doing what your doing to stop , that def shows a sin , you know your not spose to be doing that .. i hoped i helped, but don't forget god always forgives you!

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Van_10 answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 4:42 am:
hello ,
i am not judging you, but being a good catholic, means no sex before marriage, you have to respect the rules and try not to break them

well i am not the Lord, so i can't judge you , if you say you are a very good catholic you wouldnt be doing what you described

think about it if you cannot stick to the rules, you have no respect for your religion and poeple may say that yo uare a catholic by name

repent to God, ask for forgiveness, it easy for me to say , but not for you, Judgement is passed by the Lord only

pray God is listening when you don't think he is , he is in the air we breathe everywhere

Good luck and may God continue to bless you

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sp4rklingr4in answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 2:59 am:
It's not sinful -everyone does it!

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SAMzasis answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 2:33 am:
First thing I did when I read this, was laugh my f*cking ass off. First off, you're NOT having sex. Second, yes, it's a sin. No, I'm not catholic, but friends told me it is.

If you're going to talk about masterbation, at least spell it correctly.

Irony: What's the biggest thing that made me laugh REALLY hard when I read this the FIRST time, was at the first sentence "im a very good catholic." Yea, normally, a religious person is suppose to have virtue, no sin, morality, truth, and all those wonderful stuff. If you think you're so highly of yourself to say that you're "a very good catholic" then be modest as well. Wasn't modesty part of catholicism? Either way, I thought those people that are "very good catholic" doesn't get horny. They care about their studies on their little black book. Sorry that this is a terrible thing to say. I'm just having a shitty day myself. GOOD LUCK! *Forcing smile*

~SAM

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MFS answered Tuesday May 10 2005, 11:33 pm:
Masturbation is a normal part of sexuality. While some old-school buffoons will tell you that it is wrong, they are not correct. Sexuality is deemed a part of the human experience and some people like to try to use religion to hinder it instead of embrace it. You're not sinning. You're learning about your sexual desires in what would seem to be a healthy manner.

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