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what do i do when my 4 year relationship ends


Question Posted Wednesday June 28 2006, 7:39 am

my girlfriend recently hiding her moblie phone every were 1 night she texted me saying staying out 2 night back in the moring at 3:15 in the moring she came back she never did drink but now she is out all the time so i ask if she was having afair she said no so i left it then i got the chance to look on her phone and find 2 text message 1 was sent saying sunbed are bad soft rocking of the bed is better the ofter one was in her inbox say so horny r u me ok i`ll wank over you laterxxxxxx so again i ask her she told me to get out after 4 year and a lot of history there is a five years old child in this relationship who i brought up at if she was my own then on the day i got my stuff i was hoping she would think about us but instead she went out drinking agian meet an old friend now this old freind and herself relationship is moving quicker then she expeted do you think i still have a chance?

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Elcee answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 10:11 am:
It is very sad when a relationship goes bad, especially when there are children involved as well.

From what you say it sounds as though she is going through a bad patch and is backing away from you. If she will not even talk to you about it then, in my opinion, this relationship is not going to be saved.

You need to get some answers from her in order to allow yourself to move on. You need to know where you stand concerning the child and whether or not you can still be in the childs life. The end of a relationship is very traumatic for everyone involved and to get through it causes a lot of emotional upheaval.

There are no easy answers about whether you still have a chance, but in order to try to patch things up your girlfriend needs to be honest with you. You may not like what you hear but don't be tempted into striking out verbally in anger. There are always two sides to every story and each side must be heard.

I wish you the very best of luck in whatever direction your future leads you.

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SmoOcHeS answered Wednesday June 28 2006, 9:09 am:
to start off i'm sorry about you and your wife. If you were to have a chance back with her i don't think it should be worth it because you and her wasn't no cute little something it was SERIOUS and that was disrespectful because if she had someone good at home than why look around?? that's how you know peoples are never satisfied. I mean no one is perfect and it's true people deserve a second chance but I also believe you should put yourself first because if you don't then no one else will. You know the world makes thousand and thousands of turns and sooner or later she'll be around then your question would be should i take her back or not? So yea i do believe you have a chance not soon because she's not going to give in quick but you'll have your turn good luck if anything fill me in

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