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someone obssessed with me
there is this guy at school that is obssessed with me and i really want him to stop that becausee hes freaking me out i told him that i hate him but he says he will love me till the last day of his life what should i do?
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It sounds to me like if you ignore him , he will only pursue you more. I think you may have to confront him.
I think it's in you best interest to make sure you are in public and be extremely polite when you talk to him.
You will have to tell him (nicely, cause you are dealing with feelings of rejection here) that you understand how he feels , but you have been very clear about your feelings, and ask him to stop pursuing you. If he insists on continuing , you will have to tell him that if he doesn't stop, you will take it to a higher authority and have some kind of restraining order put on him.
If that simply means taking it to the principal then that is fine.
Remember though to be cautious of destroying his feelings. Even though you have been clear, lots of time guys think that if they continue you will change your mind.
Good Luck
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Ignore him. This guy sounds like a freak. What I would do is just have absolotly nothing to do with him. Don't talk about him to anyone and if someone comes up to you and is like blah blah blah said blah blah blah about you just be like ohh, and change the subject. Make it so its VERY clear that nothing is going to happen and that you aren't interested. He'll get it eventually or just stop bothering you.
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Ignore him as much as possible. Avoid eye contact and try to never be alone with him ever. Make sure your friends know you don't want to be around him on your own. He knows you don't like him, and now all you can do is prove it to him by pretending he doesn't exist.
Eventually with no contact from you at all, he should give up and move on.
If his interest in you becomes more aggressive and starts scaring you, talk to your mom or dad about it.
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