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She's supposed to be my friend!
Okay, there's this girl who is supposed to be my friend. Well, let's say she doesn't act like it. She calls me "idiot", "fool", and a bunch of other names. She's also (according to the guy I used to like) asked the guy I liked out, and I trust the guy I liked because I've known him for a while. She knew that I liked him. She also tries to make me look stupid and bad, because we're on the same sports team, and she'll throw the ball in a weird way and I can't catch it, then she'll say "What an idiot!" or something like that. I'm sick of it. Should I just stop being friends with her, and if so, how?
Thank you so much in advance. I'm sorry it's so long.
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i think that you should tell her that you guys cannot be freinds anymore if she cant respect u. she only does this because she knows you let her. sooo dont let her!stand up for yourself you can do it just be confident.
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you should tell her how mean she is and tell her to back off if i was you i would just stop being friends with her because thats not a true friend!! hope my advice works!!??
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If this girl was REALLY your true friend. She wouldn't do stuff like this to you! And make you look/feel stupid. I wouldn't suggest stop being friends with her just yet. I would talk to her about how you think some of the actions she takes charge of while around you are annoying, embarrassing, unfair, and wrong. If talking to her doesn't change the way she treats you. Then i would just tell her. "You know what, i've tried to fix the problems between us, But it's just really not working out. I don't think we should be friends any more".. I wouldn't call that mean. and truthfully i wouldn't worry about being 'nice' about breaking the relationship. Just think about all of the mean things she has done to you! Hope i helped.. and GOOD LUCK!!! =)
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first of all that aint a FRIEND.. so dont call her that ! also defend yourself throw the ball back the way she does to you make her look like an idiot!! Dont get mad get even !! :) good luck i gotchu girl ! :)
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UGH DONT LET HER TREAT YOU LiKE THAT STAND UP TO HER!SHES SO JELOUS THATS UR BETTER THAN HER HAHA iiF SHE DOESNT STOP DO THE SAME THiiNG ONLY WORSE TO HER :)
xOx ViLLy *
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I know somebody like that. Dont let them treat you like that stand up to them. Tell them to stop and call them names back they know they can run over you dont let them at all. Stand up and she will cool it say hey you cant run me back off the name calling. She just wants to act tough and she knows nobody will stand up against her
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hey. this same thing happened to me! she seems like the "all i care about is me" type of girl. you need 2 sit her down and tell her how you feel and if she still wanna act like a snob than stop talking and hanging out with her. if she asks you a question keep the answer short and simple then walk away. if she asks what is your deal and why are you mad at her tell her that your proble is her and you tried to tell her but she didnt listen. eventually she will get the message but if she doesnt well so you lose a friend, im sure you have many more!:-)
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This girl is insecure, and taking out her insecurity on you, since you're her close friend. Making you look bad infront of others makes her feel good about herself. I think you should stop talking to her, hard as it may be, because you are BETTER OFF WITHOUT her aroudn to put you down. Friends raise one another's spirits and their role is to be there for you and never disrespect you, and this one is going beyond breaking what a good friend is. Anyone with an attitude like hers does not DESERVE friends - why should you put up with her shit? Either tell her to set her standards right, or walk away for the best. Good luck.
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Gurl you really need to stop letting your friend call you all those kinds of words. You need to speak up or something cause that is not what a friend is like. How to let her go is by telling her that your tired of her bitchy words and that she is a two faced bitch because she took your man. Tell her that you dont want to be her friend any more because she is making you look like an idiot in front of the people that you know and especially infront of the guy you like.
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she doesnt sound like a really good friend. friends should be encouraging and definitely not call you names. and if she is trying to take away the guy she KNOWS you like..she's not anywhere near friend material. if you still want your 'friendship' to have a chance..sit her down and talk to her and work everything out.
hope i help
xoxo
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She doesn't sound much of a friend. I say ditch her. If she's going to act like that, then you shouldn't be around her.
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I think that if she's putting you down all the time she either hates you or she's jealous of you. But either way you shouldn't hangout with her because a good friend would pull you up not down.
FOREVER,
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