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Got Cought. help!
OK yeah well im 15 and a female, yesterday my b/f n i got caught by his mom...we weren't really having sex yet but our pants were off..and we were jsut kinda messing around..and then his mom walks in and then she jsut walked in to his room and called him then like 10 seconds later his little sister(13) comes in to the room n tells me i have to leave the whole way home i cried i was so nervos/scared now i really think they hate me (his mom n sister) and his sister n i were freinds b4 yesterday and yeah i know i should applogize but i really don't know what to say...any advice at all would be helpfull...please
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i would talk to your boyfriend first, and ask him what he told his mom, ect. then go appologise, but dont show any anger, and dont hint that your not REALLY sorry(if you arn't). say you were stuped and you wont do it again.hopefully they will learn to forget it and get to know the better side of you. hope i helped.
ANK
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i would just be truthful and add a couple things like "it was stupid" and "i made a misstake" but don't start telling or getting mad. if you feel like screaming or getting angry, find an excuse to leave. any yelling will make it worse. also, listen carefully to what they say to you. show them you are ready to listen and that you can keep cool during a tough situation.
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tell him to keep it in his pants
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Well i really am shocked. You got caught it is your guys fault for doing that. You should have waited until you were alone and plus you guys are way too young yet. Get a grip you are still a kid, his family has a right to be upset with you.
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I don't know why you would apologize. You weren't the only one involved. I do think you should stay out of his room from now on. If his mom knew you were in there then she is the one to blame in my book.
Its nice if his family likes you...but not real important either. So long as he likes you that is what counts. :)
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you should tell this lady you are sorry for disrespecting her and you really mean it.. tell her you wont do something like that in her house anymore and you hope that shell trust you again.. tell her you didnt mean for her or her daughter to see any of that..
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Hey don't worry you didn't do anything he didn't do so its not completly your fault! I hope i helped.
Much love
*steph*
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well thats really embarassin i dont really know what to tell you. I just hope im never in that position but uhh go sit your b/f nad his mom and sis down its gona be very embarassing and just tell them you're very sorry . Tell the mom you're sorry for disrespecting her house like that and that it'll be the first and last time. His mom has to understand that things happen if she doesnt forgive you then just let time pass by eventually she'll let it go. She should atlest be glad that her son isnt gay and as for your boyfriend he should try to help you out too because remember it takes 2 so he should have his side of apology . well, good luck :)
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Its what you get for almost losing your virginity.
Hahaha. Now all we can do is point and laugh.
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