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is it like.. unhealthy to not have sex for your entire life,
i want kids, and i want alot, but i want to adopt. its not a spiritual thing..i just.. am weirded out by the idea of sex...
please help..
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Hmm.. i guess its not wierd..but im sure u won't be wierded out by it when you grow up a lil..i was pretty wierded out at first..but now im not, i think its a great thing to share with sumone you love ..you probably will grow out of this wierded out thing, and adventually do it..i think everyone is wierded out at first but its a natural thing to do..
good luck wit that
xo steph xo
Hey, major question i have. Ok, i went to a softball game and i was sitting on the bleachers...and on the other side of the field i saw 2 people...the one of them looked like a guy from were i was sitting and the other one...was a girl, and i thought they were friends or somthing...so, then i started thinking, wow that guy is pretty cute...so then, i realized i looked at him a bit longer...and realized it was a girl...a very tomboyish girl,so...does that mean i'm like...lesbian or just made a common mistake?
~Brina
omg I did the same thing once..I thought this girl was a guy because she looked like one..anyways No I don't think this means your a lezbian because I know im not..so don't worry..
much luv,
stephxx
i need advice on how to lose three pounds or more in the next 2 weeks, im 13/f, if anyone has any deit ideas or plans (advice) i would greatly appreciate any help i can get, thanks
food is for fat ppl i do it the marykate way..try it its like so fun!
well this is kinda hard butt.. well im only 13 and i hang out with a group of all different ages from 11 to 16 and i am the only one who is a virgen! i dont kno what to do alott of them lost their virgenity either when they were 10 or 13 and i dont kno wat to do because i like abcople of my friuends in this grouip as like a boyfreiend and they like me back but i donno wat to because theyr all like sex isa a good thing and its ok to do when ur littlew if u have a condoma dn im afraid they are gonna want me to do stuffwith them that iv nevber donte and i am so0o confuseed please help!
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omg ur friends are sluts if they lost their virginity (sp) at 11! thats really uncalled for..anyways if u dont wanna do it dont do it, if these people are presuring you to have sex they aren't really your friends your real friends would respected your decision. Just please don't just do it because other people are!
hope i helped
Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide.
Yeah he prolly popped ur cherry..even if u did have sex before you could still do this..it happened to me it was like the 2nd time i had sex and i bled a lil..so dont worry about an std!
hope i helped
x3 steph
im 14 and im a virgin. and im dating a 17 year old guy who fucked almost every grl he met. he says he changed every since "something happend". he says he really likes me and hes not gonna presure me to do anything. but i dotn know ... i really like him but i dont knoe if he likes me back. or if hes just using me. its not that im scared to lose my virginaty. im just a lil worried about losing it to him becouse i dont know if hes gonna still feel the same towards me or if hes just gonna throw me aside.... :-/
Just let the relationship go on until you ever feel pressured to do something with him..becuz you can always just say stop..and get away..just make sure his names not chris ..haha long story the same kinda thing happend to my friend ...haha..ok .. well luv ya
bye
steph x3
what are the signs of a yeast infection?
Theres like this discharge that look like cottage cheese..you have to go to a store and find this cream stuff and buy it..dont steal it! and put it down there for 3 days i think .. and theres like this thinng u put the cream on and then stick it up your vagina like a tampon..here r sum good brands to buy Monistat, Vagistat and Gyne-Lotrimin
my vagina is different from others...is that normal? what shud i do? tell a doctor? what? help please. & also im afraid to do stuff w/ my boyfriend cuz im afraid that after we break up he'll make fun of me for it. please and if i can talk to ny1 about this leave ur sn.
well u didnt say what kinda problems u have..
okay so this guy and i have been hanging out a lot. he tells me he likes me, and says he wants to ask me out, but he still hasnt, he told me he was waiting for he right time...well i think he likes his ex gf, bc i was lookin at his phone and he had text messages for her...adn he said she just got a bf, and even tho he doesnt have feelings for her, its ripping him apart. ive already done a lot with him, which is pretty unusual for me, bc i have such a hard time trustung guys...yesterday he expected me to do tuff with him, and when i told him i didnt want to he figured something was wrong...i really like him... more then anyother guy ive ever liked... but i have no idea what to do about him... any ideas?? please help!!
Why don't you talk to him about it! Tell him how you feel about these text messages im sure he'll move on to u! have fun, good luck, and be safe!
much luv
steph
theres this guy troy. i really like him and he likes me i think. we hung out today and he took me out to lunch and i donno we get along really good. and we were totally flirting. the only problem is..its my best friends ex boyfriend. their still friends a little..but she broke up with him...its notl ike he broke her heart...she treated him like shit. she doesnt know how lucky she was to have to boy like that! he drove to see her all the time, doesnt cheat, always called, and never canceled on her. hes soo hott too.and he met my mom today. and she likes him to. and were hanging out friday...and when he walked me back to my door today he gave me like the longest hug EVER...but hes my friends ex!! err idk what to do..help?
ps..when they broke up i told her shes going to regret it cause hes such a great guy...and she was like then you can have him..but she said it sarcastically...omgg i dont know.. :(
wow sound like a great guy ha! lol well anyways why don't you talked to your bestfriend? Im sure she'll understand that you guys like each other good luck!
much love
steph
I would like to know from you guys; what is a fast sure fire way of making some quick cash. And please no-one say get a job because i am trying i just need money now and fast.. All help appreciated and rewarded.
Thanks
anthony
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um..be a hooker..or a drug dealer..or if you wanna do something not illegal then go mow some lawns or have a lemonade stand..Or u could get all of your old stuff you don't want and have a garage sale!
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what is the title and artist of this song:
if i go crazy will you still call me superman.
the artist's is 3 doors down the songs called kryptonite
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has anyone ever heard of buying a house for one dollar,how do you do it?
yEa i hurd about that .. my gramz did it..but u have to like be givin the house like by a family member you just pay them 1 dollar so like the bank knows you own it or some stuff like that
Is 13 old enough to wear makeup? I mean like light makeup, not really heavy makeup cuz I'm 13 and I want to, but I'm not sure if it would look weird on a 13-year-old?
Yes I think its old anough because i started when i was like 11 or 12..so dont worry
Hi, im 15/f and ive never made out or been sexually active in any way whatsoever! Uhm the thing is that im scared to do anything that involved being sexually active because the hair down there(dont give me any hair removal method, il breakout in red bumps and i have no money to buy anything or get it waved) is really sparse and grows beyond my underwear, and my inner lips hang out noticebly longer than in outer lips. i think this might really freak a guy out because this is really ugly. Plus, im hardly a small A-cup. My 'breasts' are no bigger than a guys, seriosly, and even really small breast people are bigger than me, ive seen their boobs. i really want to get sexually active cuz everyone is always like ooh makeout with him but i dont know how. im not sure what to do and i feel really bad because i guess noone else i knows has this problem and i dont wanna tell neone, its pretty embarasing. wut should i do?!
Ok first off with your pubic hair problem, Um if its really long you really need to trim it you don't have to shave it all off just trim it with a pair of sissors or something you don't want a big afro puff someday do you? I don't think so! As for the problem with your inner lips hanging out theres nothing wrong everyones body is diffrent and you shouldn't let yourself down you are probably a beutiful girl don't worry! But your boob problem, theres nothing to be worried about so what your a size A I know lots of people that have sex and they are small in that area to so don't worry bout that hun!
Hope I helped
xo stephanie
my doyfriend aways as started to leave me at his hose while he goes out wit his boys every weekend.He tells me he is only going to the store and he'll be back in 10.When is friends come around he waya treat me like im not nothin to him.He talks to me like im some kind of an animal or something.My mom tells me i should leave him and come back home.I really don't know what to do because i love him.What shold i do?
first you should read over your question before you submit it because theres alot of spelling errors! lol jk Um bout that question of yours I think you should leave him theres no reason he should be leaving you at his house to go with his friends and when he comes back what does he expect? He's a loser ditch him there will be other guys!!!!
OK yeah well im 15 and a female, yesterday my b/f n i got caught by his mom...we weren't really having sex yet but our pants were off..and we were jsut kinda messing around..and then his mom walks in and then she jsut walked in to his room and called him then like 10 seconds later his little sister(13) comes in to the room n tells me i have to leave the whole way home i cried i was so nervos/scared now i really think they hate me (his mom n sister) and his sister n i were freinds b4 yesterday and yeah i know i should applogize but i really don't know what to say...any advice at all would be helpfull...please
Hey don't worry you didn't do anything he didn't do so its not completly your fault! I hope i helped.
Much love
*steph*
im asking this question for my friend...
one year ago, when my friend and her family were away, some little girl was walking through the alleyway. my friend's neighbor's dog is really big and scary, so the little girl ran, and jumped my friend's fence to hide from the dog, and as a result, broke her arm and needed surgery.
one year later, my friend's parents get a letter in the mail saying that they will be getting sued because it happened on their property. IT'S NOT EVEN THEIR FAULT. can they fight against this?
thats dumb y arnt they suien the owner of the dog? i dont think they can take them to court for that.. the judge will prolly find them inocent so dont worry.. hOPe i heLpd
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I just bought a shirt from Urban Outfitters and I got the smallest size of the shirt but it was still really long! Like to the bottom of my lower back & butt! I dont know what to do because the rest of the shirt fits good all around. Will shrinking it make it shorter? If not, what else can I do? If I should shrink it can someone give me specific instructions how? Thanks!! Ill rate 5's and give feedback =)
Yeah um i think the shirt is suppose to be like that hun! hope i helped
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