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sex or not to sex?
is it like.. unhealthy to not have sex for your entire life,
i want kids, and i want alot, but i want to adopt. its not a spiritual thing..i just.. am weirded out by the idea of sex...
please help..
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Are you gay? If the idea of sex wierds you out, maybe you are. I mean.. if you don't ever wana have sex but you want kids- maybe you really are gay? There's nothing wrong with that.. just a thought.
♥Jennifer
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Just like my mom said it's a natural thing to do. and it can be unhealthy if you don't pratect your self hoped I helped and good luck.
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It's not unhealthy to not have sex. Many people choose to remain celebate throughout their lives, and they don't suffer ill health because of it.
It is common to feel weirded out by the idea of sex. Many people do when they are younger, and then when they meet the right guy/girl, they change their minds.
If you change your mind, that's okay. If you DON'T change your mind, that's okay too.
The most important thing is to be genuine about who you are and how you want to live your life. If you can say that you stand up for your principles and beliefs, then you'd make a pretty terrific parent.
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you're weird out by the idea of sex because you havent found the right person yet...but when you do and you have sex with him...you are going to love it and you will want kids of your own
how old are you?? if your in your teens years then dont even worry about that ir will come if your in ur twenties then you have o start looking for the one....trust me sex is good..its nothing to be weird out about ...you need self confident thats what guys like and even if you dont have it then you can always pretend your comfortable with yourself...if you do you'll be glad u did
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sex is a great theraputical thing to do that relaxes you and is an awesome workout also...some people love it and some people dont...if you get curious..please be safe...i know you want babies..i know you want alot..but babies come from sex..no sex,no babies..but you want to adopt..so i guess you can be a lifetime virgin so no worries! have someone do the work for ya and then you can take their babies
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Hmm.. i guess its not wierd..but im sure u won't be wierded out by it when you grow up a lil..i was pretty wierded out at first..but now im not, i think its a great thing to share with sumone you love ..you probably will grow out of this wierded out thing, and adventually do it..i think everyone is wierded out at first but its a natural thing to do..
good luck wit that
xo steph xo
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If you want to adopt children rather than conceiving your own, that is perfectly fine. It's a very personal and private matter that you will deal with when the time comes. I'm not shore if it is "unhealthly" to not have sex for all eternity; I've never really thought about that. However, just because you would rather adopt children does not mean you have to spend your entire life shying away from the idea of sexual intercourse. Sex without pregnancy IS possible, Hun - happens allllll of the time. And if you feel "weirded out by the idea of sex..." then that is fine also. Again, a very personal and private matter. You didn't include your age, but if you're a younger teenager, you might find your views on sexual engagements to alter as you grow and mature. I'm assuming that children for you is far far down the road, so for now, I wouldn't even worrie about it. A thought like that can really stress you out if you dwell on it too long. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your thoughts and notions, so for the moment.. just place your belief in what brings you comfort. [:
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No it's not unhealthy to not have sex for your entire life. I kinda respect the fact that you aren't going to get pressured into it like some girls do. So it's totally fine and not unhealthy. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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It's not unhealthy to not have sex for ur entire life. I kinda admire he way u are not buying into this whole sex thing like the rest of us r. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
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if you don't want to have sex then don't let ne one make you. you're in charge of yourself. u be the boss. Some times i feel like i never want to have sex too. So you're not alone.
good luck and keep me posted!
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