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Age: 16
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ive made a couple of myspace layouts and now i want to make an xanga site full of them, what do i do, how do i post the codes, etc., and are there any tips or websites you can give me? plz help much♥ (link)
u can always go to www.members.migente.com/cyndys_codes4u

and look under extras for where it says codes to place in ur page and things like dat


Ok, well here is my story. Me and this guy I have known since 8th grade (10th grade now) went out for about a year. We have been "semi-dating" I guess you could say ever since we broke up, but the thing is that after we broke up we still had a relationship and I got pregnant. After he found out that I was pregnant we started to get really close again and it made me want to be with him. Both him and I know that the baby is his, there's no doubt about that. Well, today we were talking and he knows that I still would really like it if we made our dating official, like boyfriend girlfriend again. He knows that I want to be with him, and he said that we would be together. Well here is where the problem comes in, he doesn't want to make it official. To me if it isn't official then does that mean I can be with someone else? I am the type to get jealous and I think that unless we make it official I will continue to feel the way I do and its making me very depressed, what should I do? Would it be right if I just took charge and asked him out or should I just keep giving him hints that I want him to do it? HELP PLEASE

~*ConFuseD*~ (link)
you r pregant you need to take charge ...or else after you have this baby he is just going to find someone other flussy and forget about you and his kid so dont let that happen be like i ddint climb on myself and get pregnant this is half your fault so whether u like it or not we need to be together..and if he starts to say but...be like and there is no buts about it and thats that
gurl take charge


There is this guy I like and i dont know if he likes me. he says he likes talking to me most in school but yet since people are making fun of our friendship he dont want to talk to me in person. I really like him and I dont want to lose him. What do I do?? (link)
i happen to know a lot about relationships... and i know for a fact its just a faze you will grow out of him and move on to soemone else... its just the circle of life...but for the meantime just flirt your ass off and see where that gets you a day where u 2 r alone and he says hi playfully say something like wheres my kiss and if he gives it to u on the cheek be like i meant this kiss...and give it to him no the lips

see what hapepens

make sure you do that will NOONE is around


does anyone know where you can go online to listen to music... (the whole songs not samples) without having to download anything...
easy 5's for help (link)
www.launch.yahoo.com


Hey! I need some fund raising ideas. I need to raise 300 dollars for dance team costume. What would be some good ideas. Remember its cold so no car washes xoxo (link)
baby sitting place signs in local stores and places like dat make sure u say that you need the money for a school function and your age and stuff like dat


so i got my hair cut today and i wanted it to my shoulders, she cut it to the bottom of my ears instead and i hate it, i think it looks so bad. is there anything i can do to make it look better?
and please dont tell me to grow it out, thats common sense (link)
straighten ur hair it will make it look longer....


Okay I really like this guy. Well I have heard he liked me too but I don't know I am a freshman and he is a Jr. (same age as my older brother and they have conflicts) Well I want to see if he likes me but I am scared too. His cousin says he always talks about me and he is really sweet to me. He will come up and hug me and tell me that I am looking good and stuff like that. I want to ask him out but I am scared to. I guess I am afraid of rejection. Then one of my friends likes him too. and if she found out how I feel about him she would hate me... but he like hates her cuz she acts like a big ole' whore and stuff like that. So I am stuck... I also told his sister (which is my age) and when she found out that girl liked him too she was MAD cuz she HATES her. but she made me feel better when she told me he would never go after her. but I still don't know..

What should I do?

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i say take what you want... you like this guy then go after him cuz at the end you will see dat there is really no such thing as friend because TRUST me i know for a fact that if this so called friend of urs get a shot at this guy she is NOT going to even think about how that will make u feel...so dont kill urself ova what other people will feel. ..do what is best for you and you only...ok


My very very good friends birthday is coming up. We just started being friends a month ago, when I met him & he's super cool. I've been thinking of getting him some presents, will you tell me if you think it's okay: Headphones [for his ipod because his are broken & they sound crappy] & the exorcist [original movie, he really wants to see it.] then i'm going to buy him a card & balloons, and also I wanted to make him a small cake. I'm really tight on money, so i was also wondering do you think he'd be okay w/ just me making him a cake and decorating it all pretty? instead of buying a cake? thanks so much. (link)
i think u should just get him the headphones and the movie and byuy him a card and thats it.... the ballon and the cake is just 2 much...since u barely met him a month ago ok


i was just wondering what a christians view was on cousins going out. is it a sin? and no, i'm not going out, or in love with my cousin! (link)
yeah thats just wrong


i got a scratch on the bottom of my foot (dont ask how!!) and it hurts sooo much everytime i walk. what can i do because i have a track meet really soon...and it kind of stings when i run... (link)
alcohol..and peroxide....it should heal soon if you put that onit...even if it will burn when u put it on


How do I make a picture smaller so I can put it on my colomn? (link)
go to www.picturerack.com

and then upload a picture from your computer

athen when all the codes come out copy and paste the thumnail code


hi. it says on the ibuprofen bottles that you can only take 6 in 24 hours. (200mg) What happens if you take more than 6? I doubt 6 will kill you. How many will kill you? What are the side effects for 6 pills or more than 6 pills? Thanks (link)
overdose...please folow the directions and dont try anything stupid


Okay.. Some friends and I decided we wanted Tattoos. So we used a needle and Permanent Marker to do them. We scratched/poked the skin a few layers deep.. just enuff to make it almost bleed. Then put layers of marker over the design we carved into ourselves.


Will these Tattoos stay on .. and for how long will they be there? (link)
you do know you can get blood cancer from that....


Whats the difference between love and lust?? (link)
lust goes away quick...lust is when your with a guy and you still look at other guys....lust is when you break up and not even a week or two later you are over him..or trying to get with soemoene sle

love is when nomatter how mad you two get at each other as soon as you hear his voice or he hears yours everything is forgiven...love is when you think of him and smile to urself....when you wish time will freeze cuz you want the moment to last forever.. when nomatter what nasty fod they ate you'll still kiss then even if their breath smells like onions lol.... is when all pointless things mean a lot to you


first time you have sex is it better to have it with a virgin or a already experienced guy?
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i would say with an experience guy cuz that way he knows what he is doing....but then againa virgen would be good too that way you both take each others virginity and you can experiemtn with each other and see what feels good and what deosnt


Last night my boyfriend fingered me. I really uncomfortable with it at first, but I just thought what the heck and was okay with it. At first he only did one finger, then he tried two. When it was only one finger it was alright, pleasurable in some ways, but when he got two fingers in it becaome quite uncomfortable. It hurt a whole lot. I started wincing and became all tense. I think that he got the wrong impression and though I was liking it, but I wasn't it hurt terribly. I don't know what to do because I know he'll try two fingers again next time. It's not supposed to be comfortable like that, is it? Why was it go painful? (link)
well if your still a virgin thats hows its suppose to feel because your cherry is not yet popped...but if your not a virgin then your just not use to it maybe next time he treis 2 fingers if it still hurts then tell him that for some reason its hurting

he should understand and if he cares about u he'll go back to one finger


So ok i had sex um like two weeks ago....Down there is kinda like all red and it looks like someone like burnt the first layer of my skin off. See after i had sex it got real ichy(i thought maybe he cut me with his finger nails down there does that make you ichy?) But today after my shower i seen that there was like a lump but its like a pimp but its not one its just a blister looking type thing. I herd from people he had STD's and he does fuck and isnt safe...Are thease signs of a STD? (link)
oh shit gurl you need to go to see a doctor this could be dangares....go and quick


My ex boyfriend was cheating on me, so I kind of exposed the truth about him cheating on me to all my friends and now hes really mad at me. I feel bad that I dumped him and exposed his "secret" because the truth is, i still like him. But don't you think i have the right to be mad at him? Because he cheated on me, lied to me, called other girls behind my back, and blew me off in the hall last friday....

I'm so confused. Should I call him? (link)
gurl you have all the right...he shouldnt be mad... since eh did cheat on you...he should feel stupid now cuz everyone knows what kind of guy he is...... if you want you could call him and be like you need to stop being mad at me and open your eyes and understand you did me wrong by cheating on me... now everyone knows the truth...you act liek they werent going to find out anyway..


and keep it going from there

he either feels guilty or mad because now probbaly no other gurls want to get with a playa


My friend is 13/f. She hangs out with a lot of bad kids (whores, druggies, etc) and they end to party and get baked..A LOT. Well today she went down into the room wheere everyone was gettin baked and I was like "what were you doing down there?" and shes like "I was tryin to get meghan out of there" and I was like "ok.." but I don't believe her. It seems whenever I ask her if she does something or did something she denies it. I just want her to tell me the truth. I'd rather have the truth than to her lie about that to me. So what can I say to her to make sure she tells me the truth? (link)
trick her into it...be like man theres gonna be a party and they gonna be drinking and smokking i think ima try that tonight you want to try it with me

if she says yes then slap some senses into her


iof she says no then obviously she doesnt do that stuff


its like this. im basically the only black gurl in my skool. there are a few black boiz but they have gurlsfriends. i try my hardest to get a boifriend but it seems like no one wants to go out with the black gurl. wut should i do so that i can get a boifriend and not be left out cuz just about all my friends have boifriends? (link)
i would always say dont rush into things they will come to you...but if you really want a b/f then pick one guy out of the guys in school and try to be a cool ass friend with him and trust me in no time he'll be yours




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