RELAXiNGCHA0Sx answered Wednesday September 14 2005, 7:22 pm: I think it would be better to have sex with a virgin because that way it's new to both of you. & also the person probably would be a little more gental, because he wouldn't be TOTALLY sure what to do. But I guess in reality it depends on how comfortable you are with the person you plan on having sex with. (sorry that was kind-of sucky adivce)
erythisis answered Sunday September 11 2005, 9:34 pm: It doesn't matter. First, it's unlikely you'll know the difference (even "experienced" people can be inexperienced). Second, if you're ready to have sex with someone, you're not going to care if they've done it before, they just need to be willing to share the pleasure.
btw, virgins still can have STDs. How people define virginity differs among individuals and many people think you only lose it with penetration. While this isn't exactly a wrong answer to be had, many people don't realize oral and humping (no penetration but contact) still counts as sexual activity and still counts for possibility of extra stuff being transferred. [ erythisis's advice column | Ask erythisis A Question ]
mooch789 answered Sunday September 11 2005, 1:42 pm: Well if you do have sex with a virgin, you both don't know what to expect. If you do it with an expirenced guy, he'll know what to expect and how to guide you. Hope I helped! [ mooch789's advice column | Ask mooch789 A Question ]
x0o-bluuee-x3 answered Sunday September 11 2005, 3:06 am: I think you should do it with an experienced guy cuz they kno what there doing.
DazedAndConfused answered Sunday September 11 2005, 1:23 am: i would say with an experience guy cuz that way he knows what he is doing....but then againa virgen would be good too that way you both take each others virginity and you can experiemtn with each other and see what feels good and what deosnt [ DazedAndConfused's advice column | Ask DazedAndConfused A Question ]
jenymca answered Saturday September 10 2005, 5:44 pm: Don't have sex until you're married and you won't have that problem because it won't matter you'll love the person. [ jenymca's advice column | Ask jenymca A Question ]
Melaur1001 answered Saturday September 10 2005, 5:44 pm: well theres a plus to both, virgins wont have any sexual desieses, but wont exactly know what the hell their doing, and an experienced guy would know what hes doing and all, and itd probably be alot more enjoyable (although first time can hurt REALLY bad)yet, hed probably be more cocky, and its possible he could have a STD even without knowing it but have sex when your ready and find a guy you truly love, because my first time was what a complete jerk and sex causes attachment, dont do that to yourself... [ Melaur1001's advice column | Ask Melaur1001 A Question ]
jokerzgrl answered Saturday September 10 2005, 1:38 pm: Well, I feel that you should do it with someone you have emotions for. If the guy you're with happens to be experienced, thats an added bonus, becuase he knows how to make you more comfortable and he won't just be frantically rubbing against you. He'll actaully try to make it more enjoyable for you. On the other hand, if you're with a guy who is a virgin, neither one of you know what the hell you're doing so you're both on the same page.....Go based on emotions sweetie, thats all I can say.
MAd Love,
Victoria [ jokerzgrl's advice column | Ask jokerzgrl A Question ]
HowYouDooin answered Saturday September 10 2005, 9:08 am: id recomand that you lose your verginity with some one experianced and knows what he/she is doing
thats teh advice my parents gave me when i was like 14 and it helped. just explain to the person that your a vergin and believe me they probobly wont mind [ HowYouDooin's advice column | Ask HowYouDooin A Question ]
AskMegan answered Saturday September 10 2005, 6:16 am: Hm. Good question.
I'd say a Virgin, because if both of you are virgins, you're both new to it and you won't feel like the "lesser" partner because you've never "done it" before.
Or, you could "do it" with an expierenced guy if you're not a virgin. Then you'll be having sex with someone who already has, like you.
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