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What do i tell her?
My friend is 13/f. She hangs out with a lot of bad kids (whores, druggies, etc) and they end to party and get baked..A LOT. Well today she went down into the room wheere everyone was gettin baked and I was like "what were you doing down there?" and shes like "I was tryin to get meghan out of there" and I was like "ok.." but I don't believe her. It seems whenever I ask her if she does something or did something she denies it. I just want her to tell me the truth. I'd rather have the truth than to her lie about that to me. So what can I say to her to make sure she tells me the truth?
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trick her into it...be like man theres gonna be a party and they gonna be drinking and smokking i think ima try that tonight you want to try it with me
if she says yes then slap some senses into her
iof she says no then obviously she doesnt do that stuff
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tell her thts not cool, be honest w/ her cus your her friend. you could help her from ruining her childhood. tell her that if shes not telling the truth shes not a true friend. and be careful because she could get you pulled into things because you associate yourself w/ her. also what does "gettin baked" mean. i know a lot of terms...just never heard that one before. tell me in the feedback please! hopefully your friend gets help!
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First you need to pull her to the side one day and just ask her why she has been hanging out with those kind of people. tell her why it is wrong and listen to her and try and do it in a nice way and tell her that its not cool. If that doesnt work and she still doesnt listen to you, you need to tell your mom or an adult i know it sounds corny and weird telling a parent but if she is your friend and you care about her then you would help her before its too late and your friend does something that she will regret forever, and a true friend wont let that happen.
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Honey tell her that she is your friend and you really care about her and that you dont want nothing bad to happen to her. Tell her it really hurts you that she wont tell you the truth.Tell her that she could be in danger and that you'll be able to help her out. Tell her you're there for her.Take care of her and help her out, cause you never know. Good Luck and Take Care
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it sounds like maybe shes doing some bad things and making bad choices..and thinks that if she tells you the truth you will be ashamed and disappointed in her. i mean think about it..you would be kind of disappointed in her. i think if you tell her you wont blow up on her or yell..and stuff maybe she will open up. tell her IF shes done anything to just tell you..tell her even though you think they are bad choices you wont just not be her friend over it..
say : " i know sometimes when your hanging out with them you might get the urge to try something..so if you have just tell me,..i wont not be your friend or yell at you..im your friend and im here for you to talk to and share secrets with"
-melissa-
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