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i know this is asked alot but i neeed help!
Ok, well here is my story. Me and this guy I have known since 8th grade (10th grade now) went out for about a year. We have been "semi-dating" I guess you could say ever since we broke up, but the thing is that after we broke up we still had a relationship and I got pregnant. After he found out that I was pregnant we started to get really close again and it made me want to be with him. Both him and I know that the baby is his, there's no doubt about that. Well, today we were talking and he knows that I still would really like it if we made our dating official, like boyfriend girlfriend again. He knows that I want to be with him, and he said that we would be together. Well here is where the problem comes in, he doesn't want to make it official. To me if it isn't official then does that mean I can be with someone else? I am the type to get jealous and I think that unless we make it official I will continue to feel the way I do and its making me very depressed, what should I do? Would it be right if I just took charge and asked him out or should I just keep giving him hints that I want him to do it? HELP PLEASE
~*ConFuseD*~
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you r pregant you need to take charge ...or else after you have this baby he is just going to find someone other flussy and forget about you and his kid so dont let that happen be like i ddint climb on myself and get pregnant this is half your fault so whether u like it or not we need to be together..and if he starts to say but...be like and there is no buts about it and thats that
gurl take charge
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More importantly, you are pregnant and need to figure out what is going on with that before you decide you want to go with other guys or be with him or anything. You are past the point of asking out or being together unofficially. Please get this part in order before you even think about your social life because once the baby comes, if you decide to keep it, you won't have one. First things first. Then, feel free to date other guys. He should want to be your boyfriend right now.
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wow, your in a really tough situation huh? ok well i say that seeing you are young and that you guys have a baby together, you should be open to each other. tell him that you want a relationship again. if he goes for it, great! if he doesnt, please dont dwell over it. friends will be fine. good luck with this!!! ihope i helped
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You are having his baby. It's kind of silly to be shy about anything with him anymore. It's not just a case of normal teenage dating. You need to ask him out. It's really important to know if he is going to stick around to be with you and support you and his child. It's good that he just didn't run away from you when he found out you were pregnant. Your pregnancy is his responsiblity as much as it was yours. If he doesn't say yes, don't get too upset. He may just be very overwhelmed by the situation. Remain close to him and he may change his mind. Even if you don't end up with him in the end, he seems like a nice guy that wouldn't completely abandon you so you're very lucky. I hope everything works out for you and I wish you the very best. <3
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Considering you're having his baby, you deserve more respect than that. He doesn't want to make it official. Translation: He wants to be able to fuck around on you and have it be justified by the fact that he manipulated you into agreeing that it shouldn't be official. He would be a bad influence not only on your life but your baby's... this all leads me to the question... if he's not responsible enough to give you a stable relationship, what the hell kind of a father is he going to be? Not much of one, most likely. You're both too young to be raising a child. If you want to keep it, it's your choice, but somethign tells me he won't be around to help.
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You should just go up and ask him b/c if you dont you are just going to wonder and get more depressed. If he says no then you can find someone else. There are alot of guys who loves kids if you are going to keep the baby. I think that he will go out with you b/c he admitted that he wanted to. Maybe he is afraid to make the first move.
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If it's not official then you each can see whomever you want to see. If you want to be with him then you need to tell him what you want, then go from there.
♥ Melissa
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If he doesn't want to make it official you are both free to see who you want to see.
You can ask him out if you like. I think you need to find out where you stand. If he doesn't want anything official then that would tell me I need to find someone else. So, get to the bottom of it now. Don't waste any more time on someone who doesn't want you full time. :)
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