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what is my ex doing?
my ex and i havent been together for a year now, but he poured out his feelings for me 5 mos. after they were together. Now last night we got on the subject of belongings from our past. (pictures, gifts, etc.) he told me he got rid of mine 5 mos. ago. I finally confessed and told him that i still have all his things in a container in the basement. He said,
"u lied then". I told him he would have done the same if i had a new boyfriend. He said "no".
I then told him it still hurts when i read his notes, and that it digs up feelings that i had put away. He said, "youre feelings are already gone so it doesnt matter".
i told him that my feelings havent gone anywhere! He said,"y do you lie?" (since the breakup, because of the fact he took on a new girlfriend 1 week later, and still has 1, ive NEVER told him that i still have feelings for him)
Ok, thats not the problem. now at achool today we are picking senior hall of fame nominations, and 1 of the categories is, "biggest Liar" and my boyfriend told people that i am. (because i told him that i threw all his things out) and his gf called me up at work tonight telling me to stay away from her bf and to quit talking to him. She says he doesnt want to talk to me, but, we talked until 12:45am, not 20 mins like he told her. she wanted me to send her deadaim so she could see what we were talking about, and i told her NO!
Why didnt he tell her that i still have feelings for him, and why did he say that i bitched at him for throwing my stuff away.(when i didnt, i just asked him)
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Listen, your ex boyfriend sounds like a big jerk. And whether that be the case or not, you should leave him alone even though you still like him. The whole time he calls you a liar, so why bother with him? And you also need to leave him alone because he has a new girlfriend,and shes upset. Wouldn't you be if this had been happening the other way around? You wouldn't want your boyfriend talking to a girl until midnight. If your ex doesn't believe you, fine, he doesn't, move on with it. You have a life to live and it shouldn't include him anymore. Hes lying to his own girlfriend, and what do you mean why didn't he tell her you still like him? What would that change? Absolutely nothing, if he told her, she'd be upset, and it sounds like to me she already knows about your feelings for him if you talk to him late. My advise is to leave them alone. It doesn't matter, you told him you still liked him, so move on now, he knows now.
-TheTeenGirl
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He was afriad to admit it b/c he knows he made a mistake. He knows that he got a g/f to avoid what he had done and regrets it. A way to get through this anger is to get a g/f so he has the title of not being with you, he blames you for evrything like lying or other things. The point is he cares about you to he just doesnt know how to tell you. He doesnt know what he really wants.
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