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I feel Guilty....
My ex boyfriend was cheating on me, so I kind of exposed the truth about him cheating on me to all my friends and now hes really mad at me. I feel bad that I dumped him and exposed his "secret" because the truth is, i still like him. But don't you think i have the right to be mad at him? Because he cheated on me, lied to me, called other girls behind my back, and blew me off in the hall last friday....
I'm so confused. Should I call him?
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I think you did the right thing by telling people about his cheating. Maybe some girl will hear about him and know not to go out with him because you did tell. That will save her a world of heartache.
Stay strong. You dumped him for a very good reason. You deserve better than a guy that won't stay faithful to you.
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OH MY GOD, I AM SO PROUD OF YOU. GOD, THANK YOU. GAH, GUILTY MY ASS LOVE! You did the right thing, all the way, I wish all the other girls that complain about their boyfriends cheating on them would do what you did!! You so did the right thing. But look - I'm not going to turn this in to some kind of 'OMGG GURL POWER' type thing. I know it probably hurts that he cheated on you, and that you still like him ( I dont blame you ) - but look at it this way: the.truth.will.set.you.free. The bastard obviously isn't worth your time if he cheated on you then got pissed at you for telling everyone instead of GROVELLING FOR FORGIVENESS LIKE HE SHOULD HAVE >.>. Hah, I say that you did the right thing, and that you should ignore him unless he makes an honest, heart-felt apology and PROVES to you that he is worth your devotion - he's broken that once. Good luck.
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gurl you have all the right...he shouldnt be mad... since eh did cheat on you...he should feel stupid now cuz everyone knows what kind of guy he is...... if you want you could call him and be like you need to stop being mad at me and open your eyes and understand you did me wrong by cheating on me... now everyone knows the truth...you act liek they werent going to find out anyway..
and keep it going from there
he either feels guilty or mad because now probbaly no other gurls want to get with a playa
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You ever every single right to be mad. Besides, you only told ur true friends about it right? Your friends are people you can tell stuff too, and he shouldnt be mad about that at all. His secret should be exposed because, now other girls will know how he is. Call him up, and apologize that his feelings got hurt, but that you dont apologize for telling your friends,because your friends should be there for you. Good Luck.
~Brina
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hun, if i was you i would have done ALOT more damage then you did. dont call him back leave it alone. if he cared about you he wouldnt have cheated on you. so leave it alone and find a new guy to crush over.
*~Stephanie~*
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No, you shouldn't call him.
Yes, you have the right to be mad.
And yes, it is natural to still have feelings for him. I am sure that most, if not all, of us who have been cheated on still, on some level, had feelings for said boyfriend for a while. In time, those feelings will go away, even if it seems impossible now.
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Yes honey you do have the right and no you shouldnt call him and forgive him because if he does once he could do it again. Guys like that are worthless. take care
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Your ex boyfriend cheated on you, and you're feeling the guilt? You know that isn't right. You got treated wrong, so you dumped him, that part you may just be sad feelings, because its over and you didn't really have a choice. I think hes looking for a reason to make you feel guilty, don't feel guilty because you told your friends what happened. Hes trying to guilt-trip you, hes not really mad at what you did, he wants a reason to make this somehow your fault too, and you're helping him win the battle by feeling guilty of it. I know that you still want him back, but don't take him back. There are some guys who can get second chances, but this one is trying to act like you've done something wrong too, which you havn't. Your ex does not deserve a second chance, as hard as that is to hear, or take, I'm sorry. Don't call him when you know hes been calling other girls, you won't feel any better calling him, you'd better shut yourself out of his life before you're pulled back in.
-TheTeenGirl
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you shouldnt feel guilty i mean he cheated on you!!!! he treated you badly.. why should you be sad?? seriously i mean if you cheated on a guy would you have any reason to get mad at him?? no b.c you cheated on him not the other way around.. you can call him but dont say your sorry b.c you shouldnt be you didnt do anything wrong he did...
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u deff have a rite 2 b mad at him...i kno how u feel because that happened 2 me with my last boyfriend...but he was calling and messin with my best friend and she picked him over me after she told me that she would never date my ex-boyfriend...u shuld not call him....u can do so much better...he aint worth ur time and energy
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hey hun, well your ex boyfriend cheated on you, lied to you, called other girls behind you back you have a right to be pissed or mad i would be. and about exposing the secret about him doing all the stuff to you, may have not been the nicest thing to you even tho he treated you like crap. but then again he did diserve it so its a toss. i would call or talk to him saying; im sorry that i exposed that you done all that stuff to me, and i should have not said anything but i was so angry and upset. but that still doesnt mean im okay with what you did to me, i guess the truth is i still have feeling for you." something like that.
xO. jessica
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Girl, there are plenty of fish out there in the sea and i don't see why you're stuck on this one who CHEATED on you. It's bad enough the boy cheated on you, lies, and needs a watch. Hell, you have more than a right to be mad at him now. That turns him into a prick without the balls to take responsibility for his own actions. When a person commits infidelity it's possible to work it out but you gotta be asking yourself "what the hell!?" when he gets mad at you for blowing off steam or telling your girls what's bothering you. Personally, when a guy cheats on me hes gone. No second chances, no nothing. How DARE he accuse you of being in the wrong!
He's lucky you're not planning on running him over or telling the girls "the night he went limp" stories. He deserves all the rage you got coming at him when he knew what was going to happen as a result of his actions.
This guy does not deserve your time of day (again) or any girls for that matter. Teach him a lesson and tell whatever to whoever you want.
I can tell that you're a kind and sweet girl but don't waste your time thinking about him. There's plenty more guys out there who knows and wants to treat a girl right. :)
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No. Please, do it for yourself. Do not call him.
Your ex CHEATED on you. I'm sure you've heard of the saying "once a cheater always a cheater"? Once someone cheats, it means they CAN do it again and they probably will.
You might be attracted to him, but that's only half of the deal. You need someone that you can trust and someone that loves you and only you. Sure you can date the guy again for kicks, but personally I wouldn't waste my time dating anyone that's not husband material.
He shouldn't be mad at you. HE was the one that did those bad things to you. He at LEAST deserves to have his little secret exposed. If he really loved you he wouldn't need other girls to make him happy would he? I know it feels like this guy is something special, but wait for a better guy and I'm sure you'll forget about him.
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yah you had the right to dump him and tell everyone about it, because it's his fault that he cheated on you. if he still loves you too, then tell him that you still love him, but you're also still a little mad about him cheating on you. just give him one more chance, but if he cheats on you agian, then it's not worth it, because he'll obviously cheat on you the next time. so just tell him that you'll give him one chance, but if he cheats on you again, it's over.
~good luck!~
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No. He treated you with complete disrespect and made a rather disgusting mistake by cheating on you.
It's not your fault that his secret came out. That is like feeling bad for calling the cops on a murderer. The easy way for him to avoid the embarassment would have been not to cheat.
Don't call him. Someone who cheats isn't worth it. Just be civil and don't encourage others to pick on him but the let the fool reap what he sows.
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you definately had a right to be mad at him, & tell your friends so idk why he's acting that way. juss give him some time to cool off & then tell him how you feel about the whole situation.
good luck!♥
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