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do you guys know any motivating like pumping up songs i can lisiten to when im at the gym? (link)
i know it may seem weird, but when i'm pumping iron (haha) i am always listening to ABBA. their greatest hits album... real motivating.


A girl at school just found out who i liked. She went( right in front of me) and told the schools Big Mouth who and he shouted it! I'm afraid that she went up and told him. I really want to ask him out but i'm afraid that he'll laugh at me. What should I do? Please Help!!!! I am 13.

How can i get him to notice me??? (link)
this type of situation you really just have to be a man about, not in the sence that you are a man and aren't acting like one, or a girl but anyways... it's natural to like people and if anyone is going to try and make fun of you or embarrass you because of it then they are just immature ass'. it's tough to go up to the person you like and tell them so i say you march up to the person who spread the rumor and tell them to stop saying things about you that they may not know the whole truth about.


for how to get him to notice you..... just talk, find a common intrest, ect. you are 13 so guys will give extra points for compliments.



hey guys, i have long blonde hair, which is a nice length for me. Its down to like the middle of my back, maybe a little shorter.. I like to keep it long cause im a basketball player and i wear it in a high poneytail when i play. I always get comments on it about how nice it is.. but heres the thing.. its really thick, and i straighten it everyday.. it has a natural curl to it but i hate my hair curley.. What advice can you give me that will look cute when going out or something instead of always having the same straight hair.

thanks a bunch!! (link)
If your hair is really thick, i know girls who think out their hair at the hair dressers. they use these odly shaped sissors and it makes your hair thinner. i dont know if i like the idea, cause you dont know what will happen to your hair over time but its always an option.


okay.
im 13.
i just got my frist period this morning.
i dont wanna tell my mom! should i keep it low for a while? or no..?
i took some of my sis's pads. (link)
The subject of your period can get pretty over the top in some families, they can celebrate it like holidays. If thats the case in your family just tell your mother privatly and tell her its no big deal and not to make it one.


(17/F) Okay, I had arcryllic nails put on for prom and I just took them off because they were starting to come loose. Anyone who's ever had nails put on knows how crappy your real nails look after the fake ones come off.. My question is.. Is there any way to make my nails look less damaged? Is it safe to file away the jagged edges on the surface of my nails? They look sort of raggedy. I don't know how else to describe it. Any advice that you have to offer will be greatly appriciated. I rate 5's for good advice. (link)
hey, yes i know exactly what you mean. i have acryllics on almost all the time. i use nails clippers (not scissors) to clip of the eges because the file is sometimes painful and make break the nail. i don't use any polish because the chemicals in it, i dont think you nails need anymore. i just let it get back to normal in a healthy way.


ok well i wanna get my bellybutton percied .. my parents are leaniant on it .. and i bet if i keep asking ill be allowed. They told me i could because

1. im too young [ im 13 - turning 14 ]
2. cause i can get it infected [ well you can get your ears infected too and i have 4 ear percings ]
3. they dont know where to go so it will be accaully clean and secure
4. it hurts

can you tell me if its hurts alot and where to go to get it done and how much it will cost? thank youu! (link)
i have my belly button pierced

1. so my cousin is 12 years old and is really wild and out there she took her mother to a place to get hers pierced and her mom said she was the right age (she looks like shes 15). so it really just depends how easy they are and how old you look. but thats a huge risk

2. yes it can get ingected, mine didnt, at first it may look a little swollen and there will be a pussy like discharge but thats all normal. if you get it done make sure to ask them about the salt water treatment if they dont tell you to do it..i used it and it helps a lot. if you dont know what it is ask me.

3. search at yahoo on local. call around and visit your top choices. you ALWAYS want a clean and steral enviorment to get it pierced. you dont want it to be a tattoo and piercing place, you want it to be a piercing and tattoo place. make sure they are expiernced. and the one thing to look for when you want to find a place to get it done is a room in the piercing place where they do piercing. make sure they wear gloves and steralize the nedle and your belly button!

4. honestly it doesnt really hurt. it just feels like alot of pressure. but hey thats my opinion. a lot of the time it may bleed when the nedle goes in but mine didnt. it not painful and doesnt hurt a lot. when you get it done get a half bar, not a full moon because the moon will get caught on your clothes. dont touch it and make sure to not wear high rising jeans.


im not sure where you can get it done cause idk where you live. getting it pierced varies from place to place but it can be about 45$ PLUS the belly ring which can be like 20$ PLUS whatever soaps they give you to wash it with (i recomend the Provon one) and that can cost like 10$.


I want to lose at least 20 pounds before summer

am i waaaay to late to start a diet right now? will it be like impossible to lose 20 pounds before june 1st? (link)
its never to late to try and loose weight. (wow that rymes). but you dont want to loose 20 pounds within like 2 months and go back to eating whatever you want because then it will ALL gain back. you want to loose weight in a way that you can loose it and not gain it back right away. a healthy weight loss in one pound a week, figuring there are 4 weeks in a month and there is a month and a half until june by then you can loose 8 pounds ( by june 1st) easily just by doing a simple diet. with a good good diet like a south beach diet but level two (look online its one of the must seccesfull diets i used also atkins but never to exactly what they say.. put your own twist on it cause its normally to hard to live off of) and you can loose like 2 or 3 pounds a week. and thats like 8 pounds a month and that would be like 14 pounds by june 1st.

if you are rather heavy..results will come fast in the begining. so if your overweight i think you can.


what is the weight that a 13 year old 5'5 girl usually is? (link)
i would say a healthy weight is 125.


okay. so ive been dating this guy for almost 5 months and i love him but, so does my best friend..i think. I dont get to hang out with him much anymre and i get really upset about it. I try and talk to my bestfriend about it she just doesnt care and then one time she slipped up and said "i know how you feel hes done that to me before too" then she said she meant to say something else. i really think he is cheating on me with her because we were talking about something in bed the very last time i hung out with him. which was like a week ago. i feel stupid asking this but is he cheating on me with her??? (link)
this is the type of situation where you dont want to jump to conclusions because if your friend isnt with him and you accuse her of doing something than you can possibly looser her as a friend. because she is your friend and you hang out with her..im guessing, and you and your bf hang out together get them together in a room or go to the mall together and see the tention or connections between then. then when you are alone with your boy friend ask him, and look him in the eye, if he is cheating on you with her or if they have ever been together. (something like that). if he says yes well..then i would dump him. then you should ask your friend why would she do that. because a real friend wouldnt.

im sorry if i didnt help. i hope i did.
jessica


what looks better - guacamole green, sun yellow and grape-purple or beige, mustard yellow and hot hot hot pink for a teenage bedroom?

15/m
thx (link)
usually a room color looks much brighter on a wall and darker than the sample on paper says.

i wouldn't choose hot hot pink because that may be a little to strong on the eyes. mustard yellow may turn out a little dark but idk, i think it may be hard to match things with. beige..it depends on what shade. more dark or more light it depends. a sandy beige/cream beige may look good but its hard to say. grape-purple seems dark so it will make your room look smaller and seem darker. sun yellow is okay but you might not want such a sun yellow, maybe be a little bright? but it just depends on what shade. guacamole green also may be nice. its more of a nature green color i think so it may turn out a little dark, but again it really depends on the shade tone.

i think that the green one and the sun yellow would seem more suitable. but choose your shades well and sample them out on a part small part of your small area of your wall where you can cover it up or something.


what's the name of the song on your xanga ? (link)
succexy by metric.


How do you lose weight in your face? How do you "thin out" your cheeks? thanks, i'll rate. (link)
usually when you loose weight, you loose weight first in your face so just change your diet and do a little working out and youll notice the difference.


I have this friend who is overweight. She asked a question to me on this website about how to loose weight. The main thing was, she said that her freinds (me and my 2 BFs) always talk about her weight and it hurts her and how should she bring it up with them. Well, I found out it was her. The thing is, we have NEVER EVER EVER talked about her weight. We all knew she was bigger but... well we are going to talk to her about it. What should we say? She said she felt like that had to wear bikinis cause my freind and I did. Basically, what should we say to her? (link)
I think that girls especially who are overweight may not like to bring attention to it. I think by confronting her about it will make her really insicure. There are many ways to loose weight and if she was a stick thin girl who doesnt eat and is like anorexic you may want to confront her but she isn't. those are totally different issues and if i were overweight i think that the last people who should confront me are my friends. if you do decide to talk to her dont expect her to talk back; she will try and loose eye contact, say okay okay repeatedly. dont tell her, your fat you need to loose weight. not only is that rude and embarrising but it makes it sound like if she doesnt loose weight you wont be her friend. confront her if you want to but be sensitive.


I've been losing alot of hair lately, mainly when I take a shower/bath there is a large amount of hair on top of the drain and when ever I run my hand though my hair there is always a few strands.
so I was wondering if its because of bad nutrition, dying my hair, or from straighting it.
I've died my hair many times before just this time its black. So maybe I'm just seeing all the hair now because its black and not the light brown it was before.
I'm vegan so I know I don't get enough calcium or protein ( I take a multivitamin for everything else ).
So could my hair loss be because of either those three things or some other reason? (link)
One of my very close friends was vegan, for about a year. She has a lot of medical problems and if she wouldn't stop she would have gotten organ disfunction; i think her kidneys. I am not telling you to stop being vegan i think it is hard and takes a strong person but she aswell lost some of her hair so that may be why. if it isn't from being vegan it could be from dying your hair to many times which burns and dries it out.


Ok, so right now I have a 50% in math. Which is failing. I have to bring it up to a 70% by April 4 and I don't know how. I went three times already to ask my teahcer for help and it doesn't work. I stink at memorizing things. I really don't want a tutor because the one my mom would send me to is my crush's mom! I'm in level one.. taking algebra and it's just so hard. I have A's in all my other classes but this one. My teacher only counts hw and quizzes. What should I do?? (link)
First off...

1. Do all your homework, if you don't do homework you went get a classwork/homework grade for the semester which means you wont get a 70.

2. Study for your tests. It doesn't need to be crash course studing, just going over the work and homework that you have done. Also ask your teacher what material will be on your test so you know what to study for.

3. Keep orginized in Math, its essencial to keep all your work and tests because sometimes you can use it for tests.

4. Do extra credit. Ask to do difficult word problems, or maybe like if their is a problem in homework make a graph for it, something like that.



For a couple years now, I have been able to control this pain in my foot. If I stretch out my foot (mostly toes) and then push them slightly down with my muscles, my foot will freeze in that position and it becomes very painful. Sometimes, my foot will just go into this position without me making it. Is this some sort of condition, can I prevent it? (link)
well sometimes when i flex or point my foot to hard my toes curl. this happens when you dont have enough potasium in your body. try to eat a lot of bananas, see if it helps.



What exactly does "Wishful thinking" mean?
is it a cliche?


i know this may seem dumb im sorry
but i had no idea what it meant :[ (link)
wishful thinking is a fraise you use when you want something or are thinking something that will most likly never happen. so its wishful.


in the movie 8mile (The movie with Eminem in it) at the end eminem goes
"everybody in the 313..."
what is the 313? i always figured it some sort of thing for detroit?

And then in scary movie 3 (were they make fun of 8mile) the guy goes
"everybody in the 212"
does 212 mean something? or is just a joke beacause there making fun of 8mile?
I RATE HiGH! (link)
313 is the area code. in scary movie 3 they say 212 to make of joke of 8mile's 313.


Does Neutrogena MicroMist Tanning Sunless Spray actually work? Or does it turn you orange? Please only answer if youve tried it, dont say " my mom says they all turn you orange"

-I'll rate. thankss guys =] (link)
any type of self tanning spray will turn you a shade of orange from my experiance.


does anyone know of an online outlet or store that sells authentic designer clothes like juicy for less? please don't mention ebay =] (link)
Nothing like an outlet store or chain store will sell juicy couture or any other desiger for less because they sell at real price. stores that would sell juicy and other designers are Nordstrums, Neiman Marcus, and sometimes Macys.




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