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being sexually active
Hi, im 15/f and ive never made out or been sexually active in any way whatsoever! Uhm the thing is that im scared to do anything that involved being sexually active because the hair down there(dont give me any hair removal method, il breakout in red bumps and i have no money to buy anything or get it waved) is really sparse and grows beyond my underwear, and my inner lips hang out noticebly longer than in outer lips. i think this might really freak a guy out because this is really ugly. Plus, im hardly a small A-cup. My 'breasts' are no bigger than a guys, seriosly, and even really small breast people are bigger than me, ive seen their boobs. i really want to get sexually active cuz everyone is always like ooh makeout with him but i dont know how. im not sure what to do and i feel really bad because i guess noone else i knows has this problem and i dont wanna tell neone, its pretty embarasing. wut should i do?!
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ok well with your hair everyone partically stated that and i wouldnt get sexually actice yet. but making out thats ok but really u dont need to worry about people going up or down anything cuz just hand their hands while you are and if they begin to move away then stop and tell them your not ready to go any further. even a quick hook up isnt bad
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Well your only 15 and you have your whole life ahead of you. People always have complaints about your body but just deal. I have nothing. Hope i helped!
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ell ots of people have problems like that. Firt off you have to be confident about yourself. As for your hair use a machine blade that guys use when they get their hair cut. It doesnt leave any bumps. thats to cut he edges. tho not let it look so long then just get scissors anr trim them. You cant help your lips. And hey mabye a guy will like that. And as for your brest size. I have a 34 a cup and dont want a bigger size. You play more sports, people wont be looking ONLY at you boobs, and I fI date a guy is not for my body features bc I dont have mch. So dont be asamed in what you have its ok. I hope I helped you
Bianca
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Slow down with yourself. 15 is too young to start getting sexual. Everyone has a problem with their bodies. Theres the good, and the bad. People who tell you to make-out with random guys are sluts. You need lots of maturing at your age before you can go off and get sexual. You have too many problems with yourself to do anything. You're to the point where making out is tough for you. Listen to yourself say this, "i really want to get sexually active cuz everyone is always like ooh makeout with him" thats a horrible reason to get sexually active. You aren't even in love, you don't have a boyfriend, all you've got is random guys around your school that make out with girls and leave them. The way you ramble on in your question has "I'm not ready" written all over it. You need some time with yourself to feel better, you need to get your self-esteem higher, because if you do go and have sex with any guy, it will haunt you for the rest of your life. You have some serious thinking to do about this. You don't have to tell anyone about your body, it will develop and you'll have breasts, and more body hair, and everything will be fine. Everyone gets embarresed about their bodies. If you do get sexually active, you will disrespect yourself badly, you will treat yourself like meat.
-TheTeenGirl
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You shouldn't be sexually active at the age of 15 anyway, people are generally going to be insensitive about that kind of thing, especially at that age. And since you obviously are as well, you aren't mentally prepared for that kind of relationship. At the very least wait until you are a suitable age to be having intercourse.
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i know im a guy and not a girl, but im a guy that likes smaller girls, and to some guys its all about boobs and making out, but to sentual guys like me, all we care about are good lookin women, on the inside. dont go for the really popular kids, go for the guy that knows who to treat a lady, and they wont care about any of that because its not the looks that turn us on, its the personality. and why do you want to be sexually active at 15? i am 15 and im happy not being sexually active, its not a good thing to be sexually active at such a young age. before my school got out there was 5 girls walking around with babies, the real babies too, not the fake ones for parenting classes, but the real flesh and blood. i dont like seeing people like that then ending up on an episode of Jerry Springer called "my babies daddy is cheating on me with a midget" or something like that. so do us all a favor and dont be sexually active and find youself a nice gentalman who will treat you right.
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Don*t worry about that!!! I know i did not help muchh but plzs rate me a 5 =P!
x3 gRacie
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First of all, let's get one thing straight: Making-Out isn't considered 'being sexually active'. To be sexually active you actually have to participate in some form of sexual intercourse.
Secondly, I'd just like to say that 15 is pretty young to be thinking about becoming sexually active, but I guess the age level is getting lower and lower all the time.
If you intend to become sexually active I really don't think you need to worry so much about the appearance. Everyone is different. Hopefully any guy you are with will understand that. The pubic hair probably wont be that big of an issue unless you want to give oral sex a try.
I hate to say it, but it's true: guys usually don't pay much attention to the things you described. They're much more into the fact that they're getting some.
I wish I could offer you more advice.
Good Luck!
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You are only 15 and you'r body hasen't fully devoloped yet so your pubic area may not be eather. If there is a person the you won't to get sexually active with then you must have some sort of feelings for and you must trust them. If they won't to get sexually active with you then tell them that you are uncomfortable but you do to. If they ask you why you are unconfortable tell them that you arren't comfortable with you'r body. They should understand and they will eather tell you something that will make you feel better or just do whatever anyways so...I hope my advice helped. Give feedback!
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Ok first off with your pubic hair problem, Um if its really long you really need to trim it you don't have to shave it all off just trim it with a pair of sissors or something you don't want a big afro puff someday do you? I don't think so! As for the problem with your inner lips hanging out theres nothing wrong everyones body is diffrent and you shouldn't let yourself down you are probably a beutiful girl don't worry! But your boob problem, theres nothing to be worried about so what your a size A I know lots of people that have sex and they are small in that area to so don't worry bout that hun!
Hope I helped
xo stephanie
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