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friends ex boyfriend :(
theres this guy troy. i really like him and he likes me i think. we hung out today and he took me out to lunch and i donno we get along really good. and we were totally flirting. the only problem is..its my best friends ex boyfriend. their still friends a little..but she broke up with him...its notl ike he broke her heart...she treated him like shit. she doesnt know how lucky she was to have to boy like that! he drove to see her all the time, doesnt cheat, always called, and never canceled on her. hes soo hott too.and he met my mom today. and she likes him to. and were hanging out friday...and when he walked me back to my door today he gave me like the longest hug EVER...but hes my friends ex!! err idk what to do..help?
ps..when they broke up i told her shes going to regret it cause hes such a great guy...and she was like then you can have him..but she said it sarcastically...omgg i dont know.. :(
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wow sound like a great guy ha! lol well anyways why don't you talked to your bestfriend? Im sure she'll understand that you guys like each other good luck!
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steph
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ask her if it ok if shes comferterble if you guys go out if you are ready to go out see what your friend says if she says no then sorry then you should not see him more then just friends unless [witch i think you wont do]your not afaid to loss a good friend for a boy
god bless you
hopefully you tell me what happens
GOOD LUCK !
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take a shot...if he likes you and they're still kinda friends it wont hurt...maybe you should ask your friend what she thinks and if she doesnt like it try to keep your relationship with your friend and work it out if she doesnt like the idea
hope i helped
p.s. sounds like a great guy
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the other girls are right; you need to talk to your friend about this guy, and explain that you like him and are getting along with. but to be honest, it sounds like she didnt really care about him when they were dating, so don't let her make you feel guilty for flirting with him, even if he is her ex.
XxXxX
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She did break up with him didn't she? it was totally her decision. if she still wanted him, she would be with him right now. But she's not. he's totally open. and i'm sure that she's well aware that he's single, and ANY girl could get to him if they wanted to. So i think you should go for it. If you like him, then you should say something to him. It's pretty obvious he likes you too. Don't let your friend's past get in the way of your future. If you guys are truly friends, then she'll love you no matter what.
<3 melanie
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The magic word is ex. If your friend wanted him she should have kept him. He is now free to be all yours! If your friend has a problem with it that can't be made your problem. He sounds like a great guy so don't pass him by. One thing I do want to suggest is this...even if your friend appears to be okay with it all do not under any circumstances listen to anything negative she may say about him. Just simply say in order to get along I don't want to hear it. :)
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You've probably heard this a lot already, but you should just tell your friend the situation. There is no point in you having to miss out on a great guy just because she was stupid and treated him like dirt. Hope I helped.
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ask your friend if its okay with her, and if she says it is, then you know what to do, but she says she will have a problem with it, ask her why and tell her how u feel about him and that you really like him, also talk to him, and tell him what the situation is, if he really loves you he will wait till ur friend really gets over him.
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dont go any further without having a talk with your best friend. if she finds out you two have been hanging out, she might not handle it well...she might be totally fine with it..but dont take those chances.
tell her you like him and you want her to be ok with it before anything goes further..if shes weird about it..dont go out with this guy until shes ok with it
-melissa-
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Ask your best friend how she would feel if you went out with him. Let her know that you like him. If she's not okay with it then tell her she shouldn't be like this because she's the one that broke up with him. Just because you guys are best friends and that hes ex doesn't mean you can't go out with him. He's not a toy or things that belongs to one person. Talk to your mom too, just to see what she says. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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before you go out with him i think you should talk to your friend even if you dont think its her choice to make because you can end up in a big fight or something just remember when worst comes to worst your friends come first
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-thanxx
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if your friend was a friend then she wouldn't care about you going out with him she wouldn't stop 2 people that really like eachother just because thats her ex boyfriend..why wouldn't she want to see her friend happy? so just tell your friend how you feel about him and see where that goes...hope i helped
xoxoxo tina
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Talk to your friend. My friend dates one of my ex-boyfriends, and I date one of my friends ex-boyfriend. I bet its all cool with her. Of course... some of it depends on how long its been since they broke up too... Once again... just talk to her...
Hope I helped!
-Steph
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