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Hey everyone! Welcome to my advice column! You can call me MC if you would like. I am part of a group at my school that helps teens with problems, big or small, and helps them find a solution that fits best. Feel comfortable asking me anything! I am open to all and any questions you may have! If you are unhappy with a response, you can ask the question again and add in that i have answered it, but you did not like the response or it did not work. I hope to help you soon!!My favorite things to do:
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My brother's girlfriend is coming with my family and I to California for a week. She's 16 and will be sharing a room with me for 7 days. Im only 13 and me and her are kinda close but not that close. So how do I entertain a 16 yr old for a weeK? Like at night what do we talk about .. etc. I'll rate!
You shouldn't feel like you need to entertain her. As for what to talk about, just think up topics in the moment, like whats on TV, movies, sports, school, or anything she brings up. She will most likely entertain herself and may stay out late at night, so you don't need to worry. Just go along with the mood. Hope I helped!
Ok so I just recently broke up with my boyfriend but I am soo hurt and i want him back i did itonly to please my father and now he says i can date him..but he has this "i only date people once" rule which is really dumb cause i love him...WHAT DO I DO?!!!!!
make sure he knows why you broke-up with him before. if he said that to you that means he is hurting, too, so don't give-up just yet. try to talk to him and see if you can get to be great freinds. then work for something more. if he doesn't budge, though, you have to let him go.
i'm 13/f and i'm thinking about getting contacts.
i'm a little freeked out about putting them in though. does anyone know any goos tips for putting in contact lenses?
~thanks
Always wash your hands with a mild soap and dry with a lint-free towel before handling your lenses.
Clean, rinse and disinfect your lenses each time you remove them.
Always handle the same lens first to avoid mixing up the right and left lenses.
Remember to handle your lenses gently.
i got this info from a site when searching google. here it is:
http://www.bausch.com/us/vision/teens/contacts_insert.jsp
Me and this guy i really liked just broke up awhile ago and he said that he thought we should just be friends and stuff well it hurt but i was being a good player and put a smile on my face we talked on the fone a couple times but then when we hung out it got all weird i wanted to put my arms around him and stuff like i use to but i couldnt cuz we werent going out he just kinda chilled with everyone else..i still like him i cant get my mind off him i want to still be together i dont know if i should talk to him about it and tell him how im feeling and see if we can try again or just move on. can someone please help me!
you must tell him! if you are still good freinds, he will understand. if he doesn't understand or he makes the scene awkward, then he doesn't deserve your freindship. go out with someone else to get your mind off him and see if later on you can be together again, but if he won't budge, then he's not worth your time.
I have got a friend, David, and I like him more than a friend. I reeeeally like him. ALOT. I was windering, how can I get him to like me too? Oh yeah and he said that he likes one of my friends but he doesnt act like it, it doesnt look like he likes her. Is there any signals on how I can find out if he likes me more than a friend? How can I get him to like me more than a friend?
when you turn around, sneekily see if he is staring at you, see if he tries to get closer to you when he talks with his freinds, see if he picks you out of your group of freinds to talk to, see if he jumps over, says hi excitedly, or seems incredibly happy to see you when you walk up. check for these and you will know if he likes you. or you could ask him out and skip all the waiting.
i have a lot of trouble getting to sleep. i can't switch off wheni go to bed and i feel tired a lot of the time. I have tried cutting out caffiene, herbal sleeping tablets and all the obvious things and nothing works. can you help
i would recommend, if possible, getting to bed earlier. if u feel tired, take some time off on weekends you are free to revive. also, take some days of work/school to get more sleep. one or two days a month will help greatly. Here are some other ideas:
-find a spot you are comfortable in. make sure you are the right tempature and you are comfy.
-don't drink any caffiene on some days to make sure you don't have it in your system at night. (you can still have caffiene, though!)\
-Read a book before you go to bed to calm you. never excersise before bed, do something calm.
if none of this works, you may have mono or something, so talk to your doctor, or you could just be not a night person.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while. We tell eachother everything. The other day I was talking to one of our friends and he was saying that there was rumor that my bf kissed another girl. Should I ask him or should I leave it because I trust he wouldnt do that?
Female 13
you need to talk to him. if he says he did, you need to decide to get past it or not. but if he says he didn't you can move on as if nothing happened. this way, it won't be hanging over you for the rest of the year.
I have a friend who cant keep her mouth shut! She tells everything I say and I always try to remember tp tell her stuff but sometimes i am just itcing to tell someone. I really wanna be her friend but then again I dont NEED her! any suggestions? 5 points for anyone who helps! xoxo
be upfront with her and be sure she understands fully how awful and humiliated you feel. she needs to know how much this hurts you and she needs to know that you are confiding in her out of pure respect and truthfulness. then to test if she truly follows, tell her a lie and see if she spreads it. if not, you can trust her again and if so, she doesn't deserve your trust. try to find someone else you can trust and confide in.
OK yeah well im 15 and a female, yesterday my b/f n i got caught by his mom...we weren't really having sex yet but our pants were off..and we were jsut kinda messing around..and then his mom walks in and then she jsut walked in to his room and called him then like 10 seconds later his little sister(13) comes in to the room n tells me i have to leave the whole way home i cried i was so nervos/scared now i really think they hate me (his mom n sister) and his sister n i were freinds b4 yesterday and yeah i know i should applogize but i really don't know what to say...any advice at all would be helpfull...please
i would just be truthful and add a couple things like "it was stupid" and "i made a misstake" but don't start telling or getting mad. if you feel like screaming or getting angry, find an excuse to leave. any yelling will make it worse. also, listen carefully to what they say to you. show them you are ready to listen and that you can keep cool during a tough situation.
urgh i hate this! it feels like my jaw is gonna fall out like in the grudge! i can't open my mouth really wide to eat because it feels like theres an extra bone there that isn't allowing me to open my mouth any further, and if i chew it feels like my jaw is like cracking.. like it kinda feels like when you crack your knuckles. anyway this really hurts so does any of you have any advice on how i can deal with this? thanks in advance i really appreciate this
go to your dentist and see if you are ready to get them out. that is my best advice for you. if that doesn't work, there could be something seriously wrong.
(13/f) I live in Rhode Island and want to become an actress. Does anyone know of anywhere where I could go to get started? Please dont say my school because I need something for the summer! I'll rate 1's for people who say do something at my school and for "i dont know" and any other stupid remarks. I'll give 5's for anyone with a real answer and put effort into it.
*Stadium Threater is putting on one but you have to be 16+
i googled Rhode Island acting schools and found some stuff. here it is. (sorry if they are too far!):
- academy of performing arts 120 main street
Orleans, MA
-us performing arts camps this is held in some colleges. heres the website http://usperformingartscamps.com/index_main.html
-(this one may be too young, but sounds cool)
http://www.commercialkids.com
try googling it on your own, too. if i listed all of the things i found, you would be reading this forever!
Does anyone know where I can get some pics of haircuts? (on the internet) I'm looking for pics of sweeping bangs with long hair. Thanks!!
http://www.hair-styles-cuts-and-dos.com/
go here. you have to sign in, but it will give you the best styles. you can even upload a picture of yourself and see how different hairstyles work!
Ok so I'm in 8th grade and there is this 7th grader at my school who has a HUGE CRUSH on me. He's also extremely sweet and the nicest person to me and always wants a hug everytime i see him. He rates a day as good or bad by if he talked to me that day, then it's a good day. But it's starting to get annoying hugging him all the time. But if I tell him this he would be totally crushed. How do I tell him we need to hug eachother less? THANKS!!
you have to be straight up with him. if you are not interested in anything other than freindship, then he needs to know that. you need to make sure he knows how you feel and how much you want to be freinds. but whatever you do, don't say the wanting to be freinds part like... "i hope we can still be freinds" because those words in that order seem to fill the person with doubt. so be straight up and be yourself!
Well hey yall, The other night , well day actually Me and my 'boy' were just Hanging out, right? Well yes i am young, A minor ( too young for kids either way ) .. Well yeah we hadnt seen eachother in forever .. So yeah we hung out n stuff yeahh.. Then we ended up having..sex & I left blah well Later on, His father ( yess.. can you say Ahh? ) he walked in the room saying he smelt sex & Picked one of the.. four condoms up and realized it was broken, This was around 5-8 or so.. on a Tuesday night, so I'm gona get tested to be safe ( i guess, right thing to do right? ) on Tuesday.. night probably like 9. Well, Do yall think its better to have a plan what to do before I find out, and we need to make one ? Lately alls weve gotten at is, "Shit were gona be even more fucked" , Or should we just worry about it later? Also, He is going to be 18 next year, And I will still be a minor, I am NOT bragging at all I just want help, But we both have very wealthy families.. Not sure how this happened, with bright futures, and How to break it to them? His father knows ones broken though, Whats the best thing to do here?
i think you should definnatley plan ahead. you need to feel you can take the pressure and the answer. also, be sure to talk to your parents. they need to know. they will take over 1/2 the pressure off and will help you make it through the hardships.
I have this gigantic crush on this guy named bob, and i think he likes me too. But, theres also this other gut named billy who i also like.Now, i know for sure that billy likes me, he's even said so!I mean both guys are smart, funny, cute and nice, so who should i pick?
have you ever seen the show "boy meets world"? if not, then let me explain. in one episode, cori needs to choose between two girls. to do so, he took two bowls and jelly beans. he thought of each good quality and added a bean into the bowl for each quality, and took one away for negative qualities. at the end, he had an even # in both bowls, but he relized who had his true feelings. try this on your own with out anyone around. allow yourself to open up to how you truly feel.
so my family is not very well off. i`ve had the same shirts for way too long, and i get SO SICK of wearing them over & over, when it seems like all the other girls have a different outfit every day. i tried talking to my mom about it, but most of our money`s been going to pay hospital bills (my brother just had surgery--nothing too serious) so i dont really have time or money to buy any clothes, seeing as i dont et an allowence. i was wondering if anyone knew how to spruce up outfits with every-day things? or even just making my own clothes...like turning an old pair of jeans into skirts? anybody know how...
here are some ideas:
-old pair of jeans- cut the seams allong the inside of the legs. sew the 2 sides together as a skirt is. if the skirt is too long, cut them and sew.
-old tees and tanks- wear tanks on top of tees. it creates a whole new style for summer and you won't need new clothes.
-old tees- sew on buttons, ribbons, bows, or even bottle caps to turn an old tee into a stylish one.
-old dresses- cut off the bottom that is like a skirt and wear with a belt or sew in a ribbon to keep it up.
-old sweatshirts- cut off the top and sleeves for a stylish colder summer day look
find anything lying around and turn it into something great!
I have this wicked hard homework and its getting me very very very angry. I already have the answer but i dont know how to get it without guessing and checking.. anyone wanna help? the problem is:
The tens digit of a 2-digit number is twice the units digit. The sum of the digits is 12. Find the original number.
PlEaSe HeLp!
2x+y=12
divide by 2 on each side
x+y=6
subtract x from each side
y=6-x
that is all i can come up with. i am unsure if this is good enough, but i hope it helps. if not, just guess and check and it doesn't matter if 1 is wrong.
hi my mom has cancer, and i have told my friends but only reluctantly about it and this was a while ago. I only didnt want to tell them because i didnt want for them to feel sorry for me. i dont need that. I was so sad when she first told my family. I havent cried since excpet when she accidently made me read an article about cancer and it was all about bad stories and unhappy endings, not what i needed to hear. my parents havent ever tried to talk to me about it but i am not the kind of person to talk openly. I try to keep it off my mind and think about what i can do, and try to be helpful. what i can basically. but at a sleepover my friends talked to me about this and they sort of emplied that i wasnt as concerned and sad as i should be. do you think I am handling this well? what do you think i should do? please dont give me something like, just talk to your friends, thanks that'd be great!
talking to your freinds is not a good idea all the time. you can make yourself and your freinds have more pressure than necessary. you should talk to your mom, and not about cancer. you don'r need to be open. just ease inro a conversation on how your day was and about your freinds and start to open up to her. then maybe she will open up to you. also, be sure you are always a good listener when she talks to you about it. if you can prove you want to talk about it, then she may open up
I have officially met the love of my life.He treats me better than anyone ive ever known. he says he wants to take care of me for the rest of my life, and hes proven that in many ways. there are only two problems: 1. he has a girl living with him- they used to go out, but now theyre just sharing living quarters.hes moving soon, and shes not coming with.2.(the main issue, at hand)there is about 15 or 16 years between us, and i should probably mention that i am defintely not 18. its so hard to keep this a secret and lie to everyone around me, i hate it, but i love him so much. PLEASE give me an honest opinion on how you, personally would handle my situation. thanx for any advice you can give.
i would say don't go out with him. here are my reasons (most are probablies, not positives!):
1. he is older and could take advantage of you
2. he could hurt you deeply
3. he can lie to you more believablywith more expierience
4. he has more experience, wether god or bad
5. date other people untill you are old enough to be with him
my hair is naturally black and i want to dye it brown so what kind of product would be good to use for my hair thats permanent ?
i would recomend going to a salon and asking. they could fill you in on better products, also incase you end up not liking it, maybe try streaks of a more discrete color.