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letting down a friend
Ok so I'm in 8th grade and there is this 7th grader at my school who has a HUGE CRUSH on me. He's also extremely sweet and the nicest person to me and always wants a hug everytime i see him. He rates a day as good or bad by if he talked to me that day, then it's a good day. But it's starting to get annoying hugging him all the time. But if I tell him this he would be totally crushed. How do I tell him we need to hug eachother less? THANKS!!
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well i wouldnt wanna have u say nething mean, or even anything because he might get offended, so i would just kind of avoid him.
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you have to be straight up with him. if you are not interested in anything other than freindship, then he needs to know that. you need to make sure he knows how you feel and how much you want to be freinds. but whatever you do, don't say the wanting to be freinds part like... "i hope we can still be freinds" because those words in that order seem to fill the person with doubt. so be straight up and be yourself!
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get somebody to act like your b/f. Then tel him u have a b/f and its not going to work out between us at all. Tell him in a note and give him one last hug
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I think hugs are special. So tell him that his hugs are special to you, and that thats why he should save them for special occasions and such, that way it means more to you, and so it wont start getting less special when he hugs you everyday. Its nice that you care about his feelings, its really sweet of you. Good luck.
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