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hey all i didn't know what category to put this question under my birthday is coming up quickly and i honestly don't know what to get i am 15 female and my favorite color is blue and only blue so if you could give me advice on what to get that would be great. thanks (link)
I would ask for money. I am always scared of people buying my gifts because Im scared I wont like them. So getting money is so much easier. Or even ask for gift cards for a music shop or the mall, or a certain cd, or dvds. Happy birthday, hope you get what you want!!!


okay well if u read this question you might think i'm lesbian. BUT I'M NOT I SWEAR! i'm straight as a straight line! it's just well i compare myself to other girls if they have something and i don't. like boobs or a butt or really skinny! and i really need help to STOP because i DONT want people to think i'm lesbian! CUZ I'M NOT! i think there nasty people! but i need help to stop comparing! (link)
I wouldn't really worry too much about it. All girls no matter what they say look and see what other girls have and compare if they have anything better, or if they need to improve. I think the only way to really stop is getting to a point where you have high self esteem about yourself and are happy with you and your body.


Hey me and my friend are having a party and we want some good ideas because we dont want it to be way lame. nothing corny like clowns and baloons. but we are 14 and its a boy/girl party and its going to have alot of people so keep that in mind thanks. (link)
I would try like a hawaiian/beach type party. Wherever you live, make it like a tropical theme, especially because summer is here!. Buy like cheap fun colored glasses, and decorations and have just normal music playing and have a bunch of food!


why is it that sometimes when i'm near the computer my ears start ringing? like.. theres this high pitched beep and it won't stop until i get away from the computer. i'm not asking how to prevent it but i mean, it would be nice. but all i'm really curious about is why my ears are ringing when i'm near a computer. well thanks in advance, bye (link)
yeah that sometimes happens to me, but sometimes it wont be by the computer. i dont really know how to stop it, but maybe you can block it out by having the tv on or playing music, or talking on the phone. i kno its really annoying, so hopefully i helped!


okay so whenever i tell myself to not eat some kind of food i end up eating it and whenever i promise my self to go run i cant.. so how can i keep these promises to myself and go out for a run and not eat certain kinds of foods ? (link)
well ive recently started going on a jog with my friend. and we both are really lazy, but when we get together we motavate eachother. so i would try and go on a diet, start eating healthly, and go on a jog with a friend. it really helps! good luck with it, and dont give up!!


Ok so I'm in 8th grade and there is this 7th grader at my school who has a HUGE CRUSH on me. He's also extremely sweet and the nicest person to me and always wants a hug everytime i see him. He rates a day as good or bad by if he talked to me that day, then it's a good day. But it's starting to get annoying hugging him all the time. But if I tell him this he would be totally crushed. How do I tell him we need to hug eachother less? THANKS!!

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well i wouldnt wanna have u say nething mean, or even anything because he might get offended, so i would just kind of avoid him.


Any tricks 2 clean food stains on clothes? (link)
shout ultra gel stain remover....it works really well !


I was thinking it would be cute to have a yearbook each year that has pictures and memories of my friends and i. We have so many pictures, and I'd like to keep them all together in a cute book. My question is, where can I publish a yearbook thats not designed for school, and that I can order in a small amount (like, 7 yearbooks) (link)
i would see what company your school uses, and then call that place up and see what they can do for you and how much it would cost


As long as I could remeber and all my friends can agree ive looked the same ...ponytail and well obviously my cloths but i dont care about that( i go to a private school so i have to wear a unfiorm) so I think its time ofr a change, what are some things i could do with, bascily me and my hair that would be diffrent other than a pony tail. Nothing to drastic but just a change. If it helps i have shoulder length blounde hair. Thanks and please help!!!



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-*straighten your hair
-*curl it
-*get all over layers
-*get side bangs
-*get some highlights of either different blondes, or strawberry blonde, or even some light browns
-*wear it half up half down
-*part it to a different side
-*get your hair angled
theres so many things you can do...hope i helped!


I'm doing a report...does anyone know how Edgar Allen Poe died or where I can find some information on how people think he died?Thanks! (link)
i know this isnt really much of advice, but i would def. google it, you can find a lot of information and sources..!


I think that my daughter (14) has been using drugs. She hasn't had it easy and I haven't really helped that. A few of my old boyfriends hurt her and violated her. I've stopped dating because of it she doesn't deserve that and I don't want that to ever happen to her again. Recently I've been noticing that she's been coming home after 10 (her curfue is 9) and she acts differently. I've tried talking to her and she says that she isn't doing anything and that she just loses track of time. I don't know what to do. I'm not a great mother but I'm trying as hard as I can. Does anyone know how I could talk to her about this or how I can help her if she really needs it?

I will a rate high to anyone who at least tries thank you ahead of time. (link)
look at her eyes, if their bloodshot, or glazy then she chances are she probably got high. if she smells of smoke or alcohol then she probably did either one. see if she can walk straight, if she cant she might b drunk. just talk to her and tell her she wont get introuble this time if she tells the honest truth. you have to have good communication between your daughter and you. good luck, and hope everything works out!


I'm trying to buff my body in the nest 5 weeks. The program(exercises) that i'm using says to workout 2 times a week to notice decent improvment in 4 weeks. But i want to notice extreme improvment in 5 weeks. Can I work out 4-5 times a week to see improvments quicker, faster, and my body more sculputered? Thanks, (link)
yeah i would just do it every other day. thats usually when people work out. good luck with that !!


There is this guy that I like and the only time I see him is either on the way to or from school. And on both trips he is always talking to his friends that I talk to somewhat. I am a freshman and he's a sophmore. If that really matters or anything. I don't want to be like interupting his conversation or anything. So how can I talk to him!! Plus whenever there is a chance to say something, I don't know what to say. Some of your advice is easier said than done, so please try to keep them easy for me!! lol. But seriously, I just want to get to know him and I want to become his friend. I also have some friends on the inside that know him. They want to get involved too so that he knows that I do exist and that I so want to talk to him. I just want him to see that I'm a nice person. So....
What should I do?!
Please help! (link)
-*sometimes girls who are fake and are constantly putting on makeup.
-*not having confidence and self esstem
-*when girls know they are hott and say it a lot

idk really anymore but i hope i helped !!


Well i just got a new computer (sorta) and my homepage of my internet..www.msn.com..the words are really small...does anyone know how to make the words bigger? thanks ill rate a 5 to anyone who can help! (link)
go to view. (when you have your internet up) then go to text size, and set it to w/e size, i use medium..that should work !


hey all i hurt my finger it is all black and blue and it hurts to bend it up and down and side to side and where it's black and blue there is this little bump it just hurts what should i do should i go to the hospital or the doctor.
what did i do to it break it or sprin (link)
either 1


I was thinking... When is avrage age to have your first kiss and how far should u be in a relationship... This is my first relationship, and i love him and we've been gong out for 6 months,,, When should you? I have no clue!!! I havent had my first kiss but lately I've been thinking about it...
I want to kiss him... but somthing doesnt seem right,,,and i was talking to my mom and she asked me if i would tell her if my boyfriend kissed me,,, should I tell her?



13/f (link)
if you feel its right then do it


ive been with my b/f for 2 months. its both of our first relationships. he doenst know too much about girls and i feel were growing apart. his friend likes me and is tryin to get me to dump me my emphasizing what he doesnt do for me. i kinda like him but i wouldnt dump my guy for him cuz he is being greedy. its hard for my bf and i to communicate..were both kinda shy. we really need to have a heart to heart convo but im not sure how to bring up what i need in the relationship. am i taking this too seriously? were both 14. thanks in advanced!~ (link)
well communication is really really important. mayb you and him should hang out somewhere, that requires you 2 to talk a lot, like go to a park or go on a walk, and talk. hope it works out for ya!!


I had to be outside today, and I used SPF 50 sunblock but I still got a bad tan. Any way to get rid of it?I don't look Loli-chan-like anymore! (link)
itll fade, so you just gotta wait and stay outta that sun!!


hey, im turning 16 on thursday and im havin a gathering.. with about 30-40 people at my house for a few drinks and wat not.. what are some precautions i can take to ensure its not boring and what can we do all night asides from sitting around drinkin? (link)
i wouldn't worry too much, the ppl will bring the fun, just make sure theres music n of course FOOD!! haha


Yesterday, I was skipping inside of my house and I passed the restrooms and my dad was in there peeing. He forgot to close the doors! He saw me and stopped peeing and i guess was kinda nervous. I didn't see anything because I was skipping and my face was turned the other way. It's kinda weird between us now. What can i do? (link)
pretend it never happened




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