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ive been with my b/f for 2 months. its both of our first relationships. he doenst know too much about girls and i feel were growing apart. his friend likes me and is tryin to get me to dump me my emphasizing what he doesnt do for me. i kinda like him but i wouldnt dump my guy for him cuz he is being greedy. its hard for my bf and i to communicate..were both kinda shy. we really need to have a heart to heart convo but im not sure how to bring up what i need in the relationship. am i taking this too seriously? were both 14. thanks in advanced!~
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well when i was 14 i was in a relationship for 1yr nd 4 mon. nd we were little kids for ex. we would break up for anything and have our problems. but u know something when you think you're growing apart talk about it remember when you're in a relationship it becomes a TEAM. You BOTH need to put effort. also, the relationship has its months sometimes during the month you're all lovy-dovy other times you just want them from a distance but in the end you still like them and you want them to be your other half and as for his friend you need to tell him to back off and show respect you should tell your boyfriend about him because those arent true friends and you have to look out for your boyfriend. but if its too much hasle then you know what mama then be single and ready to mingle ;)good luck
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Write down what you want to say then give him the letter. Then you can discuss it. This is good because you don't get interrupted as you would during a conversation and can concentrate on what you want to say. Hope it helps. :)
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Just casually bring it up in a conversation. CASUALLY. VERY CASUALLY. So casually that he doesn't think that you planned it ahead. Be very discreet.
Good luck!
**xox**
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Men wilst never knowest these of the fairer sex. Not that I hateth them, just confusing - agreest thou?
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well communication is really really important. mayb you and him should hang out somewhere, that requires you 2 to talk a lot, like go to a park or go on a walk, and talk. hope it works out for ya!!
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