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Comparing
okay well if u read this question you might think i'm lesbian. BUT I'M NOT I SWEAR! i'm straight as a straight line! it's just well i compare myself to other girls if they have something and i don't. like boobs or a butt or really skinny! and i really need help to STOP because i DONT want people to think i'm lesbian! CUZ I'M NOT! i think there nasty people! but i need help to stop comparing!
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everyone compares themselves to someone else at one point. im constantly saying, " oh wow, shes way prettier than me" or " i wish my boobs were that big". it doesnt mean you are a lesbian. just be happy with yourself. even though i compare i still think positive about myself.
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its normal, to compair what you dont have to what some one else has.
but remember..you are the perfect you. there are NO other yous. their for you really dont have to be anything, you shouldn't look like anyone else. no matter what you look like, you will look like the perfect YOU.
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girls always compare themselves to others thats why they spend so much on make up theres nothing wrong with you so just accept it
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you cant stop comparing! its a natural thing..it happens without u being able to control it! just dont compare yourself so bad that you start gettin depressed about ur own body and just remember everybody does it. why the hell would you be lezo?
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I always do the same thing if a girl is skinny I will be like I wish I was like her or I wished I had her hair or something like that .. Its normal to do everyone does it but not everyone can admitt to doing it .So dont think that it is a bad thing cause maybe someone is wishing to look like you.Hope I helped.
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all girls/women do that...even if theyre straight, trust me. no one is fully satisfied and they idolize what they dont have which maybe something that someone else has a problem with. for example, boobs. those who have them often get sick of them and those who dont, want them. its a normal part of life for most. as long as you dont start touchin them or somthing, theres nothing to worry about. <3
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I wouldn't really worry too much about it. All girls no matter what they say look and see what other girls have and compare if they have anything better, or if they need to improve. I think the only way to really stop is getting to a point where you have high self esteem about yourself and are happy with you and your body.
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there is nothing wrong with comparing yourself to other girls, every girl does it. if u have a problem with it then just dont say it to other people, keep it to yourself!
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dont worry, all girls are like this. I compare myself with other girls too, and all my other girl friends compare themselves with other girls too. no one's gonna think you're a lesbian because it's totally normal. and if you want to stop comparing yourself with other girls, just sont look at their body parts. it really shouldnt matter because other girls are probably comparing you with themselves
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Honestly, all giRls feel this way; it's only natuRal. You can look -no haRm done in that; just don't staRe. That's the only way they would think you'Re a homosexual -- not to mention it's just Rude. Just don't woRRie about it; it's honestly no biggie! =D
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Dont think that!! All girls compare! Nothing wrong with that at all. L0L!! You dont need to stop comparing because its a normal thing. ♥
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well honestly i think ALL girls do it! wether they tell you they dont or not! i know i do it all the time and i thought i was the only one...but i dont think you should stop i mean no matter what i think all girls will always do it...but if you dont want anyone thinking your a lesbian you dont want to say anything outloud...or if your admiring something like boobs or a girls butt just do it secretly like dont stare but glance if you dont want anyone (especially her to notice) its always worked for me! hope i helped
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i do that al the time too. so if u find help contact me
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I compare, you compare - I can garentee you that almost every girl on this site has compared her self to another girl at lest once.
It's okay it's natural and it doesn't meen your a lesbian. Just don't let your self get carried away, and don't make any bad choises about your body basied on other girls bodies.
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comparing is fine, its normal! me and my friends compare sometimes..i think its ok to compare sometimes..but to revolve your life around comparing isnt good! i dont think the issue is you acting like a lesbo, because your not..! you can compare and not say anything to others about it if you feel that way...
i dont care what others think about me...a lot of people think im fat (like middle schoolers will tell my brother how fat i am)..wow took a genuis to figure that one out..but i dont care what they say because they dont know me..nd if they are going to judge me like that..i dont want to know them! i know i have people who are my friends..and thats all that matters..not everyoone is gooing to like me, and i accept that...
lol sorry for getting off track but maybe tat helped? try not to worry what people think...
just make mental notes in your head..like..o shes skinnier than me..etc..
not like it matters right? we are all different..if everyone had the same size clothes,boobs,butt, same color skin,hair and eyes..things would get boring..so be your unique self..!
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We don't think your a lesbian, don't worry. All girls compare themselves to others. It's a natural thing. As you gain more self confidence, you will see that your comparing less and less. =)
♥ lAuRa
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I compare myself, Like for instance me n my bf brokeup and I compared myself to the new girl he had a I was like omg if he chose her looks I dont kno what he is thinking cause I have more of a body and ass then her, Its natural your not a lesbo but if ppl think you are then you cant really help it, its just something girls do to make themself feel comfident about there physical appearence!
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it's natural for girls to compare themselves to others. just become more confident in yourself and you won't worry as much. but don't worry at all about the comparing.
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