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hey well i want to know ways that i could tease a guy to make him want me oven more. (link)
you want to be a tease? nobody likes teases and for very good reasons!


ok well, i'm 5'5 and 103. i feel skinny, but at the same time i want to lose weight! it's very frustrating. my friends tell me i'm so skinny and stuff, but i really just want to lose weigh- not much, just like a few pounds. another concern is being anorexic. i'm not and i definitely dont want to be! basically iam wondering if i should try to lose weight.. like would it be unhealthy? and how should i go about doing this? thank you (link)
don't you own any mirrors..do you like the idea of looking like a stick?


I just watched the news and one of the articles they had was talking about the latest "trend" in music.

They showed a clip from a new music video by Coldplay, then said "this is from the album that people are hoping breaks the trend in low sales of music this year. The next clip you will see is what is the current 'hot' thing in music."

And they showed that `Jamster!` Frog, with some music playing in the background.

After seeing that I wanted like nothing else to shatter one of the vinyl encapsulations of all that used to be good in the world and slice my wrists with it.

The `Jamster!` commercials hit comedy central awhile ago, and for about 3 weeks they bought enough advertising space on comedy central, where they could've instead spent that money buying canada. When I saw one of their commercials for the fourth or fifth time I said to myself "im going to have to be the one to kill these people"

And now I think I really am.

After seeing that I lost all my faith in humanity and the music to come. (link)
i hate that lil bastard frog myself..


ohk so i was really upset one day because it is almost a year that my best friend passed away (rip) and i feel so sad right now, so then i took the blade and i cut its not a big deal or anything i also wanted to see how it felt like. well now its like a craving to cut and i keep doing it and im not even sad its just addicting. i feel so gay and stupid because i think im just doing this for attention ! god what should i do ?? and dont call me lame or poser because i alreay know i am ! (link)
stop doing it! get a hobbie..take up boxing!


is there such a thing where your so depressed is it posibly you could die from it
and is it bad if your so depressed all you want to do is curl up in a ball and hope that god could fix all things and is it posible for him to do that for me i think it is but iv asked many things from him and i dont kno if he would help me with this one or do i have to do all the work again

you kno who this is (link)
Of course you can turn to god but just dont forget the other people in your life who would want to help if you go to them.


how do you gain body fat?? like what foods help?? (link)
potatoes, pastas, cheese, pizza, bacon etc etc


I can never make up my mind about things. Like once I was asked to make out with someone but I couldnt decide. Does any one know a good way to make up your mind? (link)
yeh..attach a yes and a no button to your chest.


17/f ..all the time i cry..about little things and i get upset very easily sometimes i jsut sit in the bathroom and cry...i think about my life and whats going on and i just break down..does anybody know what i can do.or have an idea whats wrong? please help i rate high (link)
yeh its called being over emotional..it happens sometimes


Hey. 14.f.
ok so we learned about cutting and stuff in a class in school and how its wrong, but i found it a bit intresting.... so i was really mad one day so i tryed it and it didnt make me feel any better. But, i do have a little cut on my arm. Does this mean that im a cutter even though im not going to do it again? (link)
means ur an idiot for trying


okay .... i have a really weird back lol

you see, i have a sticky - out spine
elaboration: even when i bend my back even the slightest way, it stickes out a lot. i cant wear t - shirts without a sweatshirt beacuse of this. i am pretty skinny, but there are lots of girls waaaay skinnier than me and their back doesnt even stick out if they bend over all the way! when i went to my physical my doctor told me it was simply because i was skinny. does anyone know what to make of this? (link)
listen to ur doctor girly!


I was in art class when my "friend" came up to me and tugged my braid 'affectionately', but it hurt me and I ended up screaming almost at the top of my lungs "JESUS!" I felt bad after that because almost the whole class was staring at me, and my friend was ticked that I had screamed because she had done that to me before, but I think it's childish now and I refuse to let her. I feel really bad because you really shouldn't scream that in ANY class for that matter, because it might offend some people. I think I might have offended some people, but I was really embarrassed because I screamed so loud and I was dead quiet and my face was red. I don't know what to do. What should I do? (link)
this kinda thing really isnt worth while in life thinking about.. go accidently murder somebody and then come bak to me!


i really dont like meat..i mean just the taste of it..does anybody know a list of foods that i could eat that have protein in them! thanks a bunch! i rate!! (link)
milk, yohgurt, cheese, eggs, tofu, cereals, rice etc etc


What do u do when the guy youve been going out with dumped you cause he wanted someone hotter?
age 13 gender female (link)
you go find someone hotter for yourself


i AM punk...(i hate that punk, goth, prep thing but..its the only thing i could think of!) but i live in a small town with absouloutly NO stores with my kind of clothes and stuff. so everyone thinks im a stupid prep. so...does anyone kno any stores with punk clothes? thanks so much (link)
id drop the whole punk thing coz you really arent one. A real punk wouldnt ask for stores with punky clothes, they'd create their own punk clothes. Also...a punk is a real PUNK. Do you have that kind of personality?


My friend is very mad at me, so she said since i didnt do anything and it was all my friends, if i didnt talk to my friends for friday, saturday, and sunday, she wouldnt be mad at me anymore. So i did it. This girl that asked me not to talk to them is on my softball team ALL summer. well i didnt talk to them, and they got REALLY mad and walked off, they told my other friend that they thought i was a BITCH because the only person i care about is me and nicole(shes not mad at me and not the person i wanst supposed to talk to)!So they hate me now!!!!they are my best friends and they arent talking to me!HOW CAN I GET THEM BACK? (link)
try saying your sorry for listening to nicole and you really want to be friends again. maybe theyre nice enough to forgive you after you did such a lame thing!


I am thirteen and I am relatively short for my age (4' 11") and I'm not really pretty.
At my summer camp, there's a group of high schoolers around 14 to 15 years old, and one of them is my age, but she looks 15 and she is extremely pretty. I want to be accepted by this group, but because I look younger they treat my younger. This girl who is my age is nice and tells them that I'm the same age as her, but it doesn't change their mind. It's like the elite group: is it even worth it? They have the most fun and they are really tight and I want to be a part of that. (link)
if theyre not accepting you based on something stupid like you look a lil younger then i dont think its worth it. Nobody really should be around people like that, it'll mess you up.


is there anything wrong with a bi racial realationship (link)
that kinda question really cant be answered by some random persons opinion. it comes down to you and what you think.


I have a crush on my guyfriend but I don't want to tell him directly because I know he likes this other girl. Are there any signs I can send him to hint me liking him but not telling him for sure? (link)
forget the signs! just straight out tell it to him. best way to go!


hey alright me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time and well we have sex and well everything else to go with it and i was just wondering if you had any ideas of what we could do cause he is coming over this weekend.. i just want some ideas to know of to do to him to "Please" him if that makes since.... (link)
ummm u said u've done pretty much everything else that goes with it..so just keep doin wat ur doing!


Everytime I shave..down there..I get these little red bumps.What is a quick way to get rid of them? I rate high. (link)
errr how about... NOT...shaving down there..




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