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Summer Camp
I am thirteen and I am relatively short for my age (4' 11") and I'm not really pretty.
At my summer camp, there's a group of high schoolers around 14 to 15 years old, and one of them is my age, but she looks 15 and she is extremely pretty. I want to be accepted by this group, but because I look younger they treat my younger. This girl who is my age is nice and tells them that I'm the same age as her, but it doesn't change their mind. It's like the elite group: is it even worth it? They have the most fun and they are really tight and I want to be a part of that.
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You CAN be a part of that, thats the good thing. If the girl that is the same age as you is nice to you, then you're bound to be accepted to their group. Its summer time! Assert yourself and try becoming part of their group on your own also. If you have any group activities in summer camp, then try getting yourself into a group with them, or one of them or something. Let them know what kind of a person you are, and perhaps they'll want you to be part of their group.
And even if they dont accept you (no reason why they shouldnt) there are tons of other kids, and you can have just as much fun.
Good luck! Hope this helped ;)
dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT
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just try talking to them
dont change your self.
if they dont like you the way you are
then find new friends.
and show those "pretty" people what they are missing.. YOU.
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It doesn't matter if you're short! I'm not even 15 and I'm barely 5'0...If you want to be pretty then just apply some makeup on..(but not too much or it'll melt and smear with the sun during camp) Straighten your hair or put it up in a cute bun. I know some people may tell you that it doesn't matter if you're not pretty and that you don't need to be in a group like that and that they should accept you for who you are..but I know how you feel..just like slowly hang out with them and they will see just what an awesome person you are! You don't have to be pretty to have friends..just start hanging out with one or two of the girls in that group and they'll introduce you to the other girls. Hope I helped! xoxo
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if theyre not accepting you based on something stupid like you look a lil younger then i dont think its worth it. Nobody really should be around people like that, it'll mess you up.
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Acually its all up to you. But people who treat you different because of how you look and everything probablly isnt worth it much. If you really want to be accepted tell them to stop treating you like you are 10 yearts old but to treat you more like a 13 year old. They will. They just dont relize that so you need to say something. Keep talking to them and get to know them and soon enough you will be friends with them. ♥
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people who are going to treat you like that just because you look a certain way arent worth your time. find some other people and form your own tight group.
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Why are you asking us if its worth it?
How should we know, we arent you!
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