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Question Posted Friday June 3 2005, 7:47 pm

My friend, Allie, is my best friend..lol. but we once went on a field trip and we had to sit in an audatorium and she held out her hand as if we were to hold hands. :[ I dunno if she's a lezbian or not! She has had a boyfriend and she's dating this guy named Matt G. and its all weird. Cuz in chorus, we sing a song and we stand next to each other and the one part in the song says "come put your hand in mine, let's make the whole world shine" and she holds out her hand in front of me!!! (i kno its a retarded song) So..Does anyone think she's a lezbian? or am i wrong?

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azngemini answered Friday June 3 2005, 10:13 pm:
i really dont think she's a lesbian. i do a lot more things that make me seem like a lesbian, but i'm really not. some girls are just like that. maybe she just wanted to hold your hand, not in a sexual way, but just as friends. if you really do think she's a lesbian, try paying more attention to the things she does.. like see if she checks out other girls.. or if she sometimes acts like a man.. lol.. i really haven't met a lesbian yet, soo i dont kno how they're like. but trust me, your friend probably isnt a lesbian

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goMango answered Friday June 3 2005, 9:32 pm:
most likely not, girls are generally cuddley

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Teza answered Friday June 3 2005, 9:14 pm:
Wow.. I cant belive you would even think of her as a lez. Dude all the girls eather kiss on the cheek, hold hands, hug and stuff like that but it doesnt mean they are lesbian. You must be really shy tho since you havent noticed anything yet. L0L! ♥

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Drama_Secretary answered Friday June 3 2005, 9:08 pm:
Hold on! She is not a lesbian just for hand-holding. Some girls are just affectionate and are not creeped out by touching the same sex. I'm sure she's just trying to be friendly. I do that sort of thing with my friends all the time. I even kiss them. I'm not a lesbian. The fact she has a b/f is clear proof that she is attracted to the opposite sex. You can be friendly with the same sex without having an actual attraction for them. Just talk to her about it. Don't make any assumptions, just tell her how you feel.

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shake answered Friday June 3 2005, 8:21 pm:
"My friend, Alli, is my best friend...lol"

Whats so freaking funny about that?

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aliciadear answered Friday June 3 2005, 8:00 pm:
you are so very wrong. young and naive. i dont want to be mean or anything, but grow up! look around! people (girls to girls) say 'i love you!' and hug all the time! i promise, she isnt lesbian. if she is, then i guess everyone at my school is too...

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