when it comes to swimming i get very self concious! people think im skinny because at school i squeeze in all the time. but i love to wear2 peice bathingsiuts because if i weara 1 peice ill be the only oneand look like a geek. i have a little flab. what should i do
I suggest that you wear what you will feel most comfortable in. If your friends are true friends, they will love you no matter what you are wearing. Take luck and keep in touch! [ FantastaWoman's advice column | Ask FantastaWoman A Question ]
NaZy answered Friday June 3 2005, 2:40 pm: "It doesnt matter what a woman looks like. If she's confident she's sexy."-Paris Hilton.
^that's true! and dont worry everyone has at least a lil flab on them. good posture will help you out.. instead of drinking sodas drink water it will help you out so will eating healthier and working out on your own.. and if all else fails a one piece isnt too bad! hope i helped! lOvE*LovE [ NaZy's advice column | Ask NaZy A Question ]
aeromonkey answered Friday June 3 2005, 11:02 am: hmm... Ask yourself the same question... would you rather look fabulous in a one piece or possibly made fun of in a two piece? Do what you think's right, but you could pull a one piece off without being a "geek" it's all in self confidence. show everybody you know you look good and they'll think so too
GrAcIeBeLlE answered Friday June 3 2005, 12:06 am: where a tank-kinny! it is like a tank top and it covers your belly and a 2 perice and if someone tll u something say I JUSS THOUGHT IT WAS SOOOOOOOOOOO ADORABLE!!! I HAD TO WEARIT! so lol [ GrAcIeBeLlE's advice column | Ask GrAcIeBeLlE A Question ]
aicila answered Thursday June 2 2005, 11:53 pm: if its a constant dislike of your body just start exercising regularly its hard at first to get a rythm but youll learn to love it because it makes you feel better about yourself and if its just during swim,,,,,its your time of the month:) [ aicila's advice column | Ask aicila A Question ]
gakkuhideto answered Thursday June 2 2005, 11:30 pm: Try getting a bathing suit that has shorts for the bottom, and maybe short sleeves. They have them at Fashion Bug Plus (not that I'm saying you're so big and need plus sizes, I happen to wear plus sizes and I like the stuff at Fashion Bug) and probably a lot of other places. And if you must wear a one peice, then that is what you must do. You will not be a geek...the girls whose bikini tops fall off and float away and eventually get eaten by a great white shark...now THEY will have something to be embarassed about!! Good luck, and have fun with it...that's what summer is for. [ gakkuhideto's advice column | Ask gakkuhideto A Question ]
shake answered Thursday June 2 2005, 11:11 pm: Work out.
Mackenzie answered Thursday June 2 2005, 9:53 pm: Aww!! I'm shoRe you'Re a complete knock-out!! You Really ought to have moRe self-confidence; theRe's absolutely no Reason NOT to!! You definitely won't look like a neRd if you weaR a two piece!! Do whateveR you'Re most comfoRtable with!!! But I suppose if you feel you MUST... you could tRy doing some sit ups and cRunches to help youR tummie tone up a bit. Just Relax, and tRy to have a good time; don't woRRie so much about it. No one theRe will caRe moRe than you, tRust me!! :) [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
JamesBaybiGurl answered Thursday June 2 2005, 9:48 pm: MY FRIEND IS KINDA BIG AND SHE IS COMFORTABLE AROUND US WITHOUT WEARING A ONE PIECE WE TOLD HER ITS NOT LIKE anyone IS gonna say ANYTHING AND IF THEY DO WE GOT HER BACK!! AND NOONE HAS EVER SAID ANYTHING, I USED TO HATTTE MY THIGHS CAUSE THEY ARE BIG AND USED TO WEAR SHORTS SO ID HAVE A SHORTS TAN LINE BUT NOW I TAN WITHOUT SHORTS AND IT LOOKS WAY BETTER! B GOOD ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE YOU *(TUPAC)* L0L!! ANYWAY L0VE YA G00D LUCK!! XOXX!!
kooka-burra answered Thursday June 2 2005, 9:38 pm: what do you meen you squeeze in? Suck in your stomach?
listen, i'm probably about the same size as you. If you feel self concious people are going to see that and are going to see what your self concious about.
Relax your going to be in the water more then half the time anyway.
iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Thursday June 2 2005, 9:35 pm: everyone has a little flab..so don't worry about it. squeezing in doesnt really make that much of a difference so most likely you look great in a two piece. if you want..do crunches. when you find yourself sitting around..do them then! watching tv? great time. [ iSpEaKsPaNiSh's advice column | Ask iSpEaKsPaNiSh A Question ]
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