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bad freinds or good friends?
i hang out with my friends at school but i keep very quiet or else someone will start talking crap about me but when im with friends from sports i can relax and just let myself free. when i do something funnywith my freinds at skool they dont think its funny but when i do it with my freinds from softball they laugh soo hard they are crying. but the problem is thAT my friends from sports go to diferent schools than i do. what should i do>?
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I have a lot of friends that go to other schools. I try to hang out with them every second i can. as far as your "friends" at your school, i would stop hanging out with them as much. They don't seem like the kind of people that appriciate you for who you are. I used to try to "fit in" but at the end of 8th grade i realized that it wasn't worth it and that there were so many other people that maybe weren't "cool," but were amazing friends and I always have a blast with them. Just be yourself and if those girls make fun of you or whatever, just ignore it and consider yourself more mature. At least you will be happy and comfortable with yourself and not feel the need to make fun of others like those girls.
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Those arnt friends. there jerks whpo think there better thatn you!! Stick with your softball freinds they are obviopusly more intrested in wht oyou have to say
Bianca
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maybe they just care of what other ppl think of them..or they might be just in class trying to take school seriously bc after all it is education... but dont take it personal! They love you.
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spend more time with your sports friends to keep you happy because you seem to have a good time with them. also..stick with your other friends..they are different people, but also be on the lookout for other people who appreciate you.
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Find new fRiends at school. Yeah, I *know it's easieR SAID THAN DONE.. but it's a must. These chicks that attend youR school obviously aRe NOT youR "fRiends" FRiends aRe the people who love, cheRish, Respect, and accept you foR WHO YOU ARE!! FRiends aRe the ones who will always be theRe foR you... fRiends that know that YOU will always be theRe foR THEM! What's the sense in hanging aRound these giRls if all you can do is sit, staRe and look pRettie??? I suggest you staRt opening up a bit moRe. Smile a lot, and say don't be afRaid to speak out and be the fiRst to give the hello! Goodluck!! Hopefully this was at least SOME help!! =D
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Well, I think a good idea is too find a few good friends that you can hang out with at school. May be the big crowd thing isn't for you? it wasnt for me it took me a whole year to figure out that I was much better off with three or four good friends that I could act like a loonie around, then have 10 friends that thought I was a freek.
Make sure you stay in touch with your freinds from softball, once your tight wiht every one you wont even notice that they got to different schools.
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